Opti Akka and Kitty,
When I say Milind's love is possessive, it is not in a mean selfish way. I guess in a man-woman relationship one has to be possessive. One can share sisters, one can share friends but you won't share your spouse/life partner right. As I said in the end Milsi and Prachi love each other to death. But sacrifice is the hallmark of Prachi's love and possessiveness stands out in Milind's love for me. It doesn't mean that Prachi is not possessive, it also doesn't mean that Milsi is not sacrificing.
Did Milsi really want to give up Prachi for Neev? I don't think so... He did say that at times and even gave a lot of thought into it as he thought that's where her happiness lies. He didn't have to send her out of his house and life midnight in order to sacrifice her. He didn't have to pick up a fight with Neev when he was trying to explain him nothing was there between him and Prachi. Neev was in the same house as Prachi and Milind were so Milind could have taken Prachi to Neev's room and told them to get back together. Why he didn't do that? Because he was terribly hurt and angry at the thought of Prachi not being able to be his.
Before Suk's engagement, he does interrogate within himself how much he loves Prachi and how he has to give up her for her happiness. But then, he dreams about her, goes behind her when she is decorating the house (ladder scene) and in Suk's wedding, he hardly blessed his sister, but kept staring at Prachi as if she was his bride that day.
One more thing Opti Akka, do you remember the second torture dance during PIM track? Why he would pinch her and torture her to drink alochol and bring down the curtains later, if he was wanting to divorce her for her happiness with Neev. Why does he need to show her how he is affected with her betrayal? Why does he have to always blow the roof whenever he comes across his assumed fact that Prachi might be Neev's?
I don't think Milind will ever handover Prachi to another man as Prachi did in PPP's case (I hate taking this ugly woman's name). He might think about doing it. He can't.. because he can't let Prachi to be someone else's.
P.S> Kitty you can call me Shubs or Shubha
Edited by michifanreal - 17 years ago