Originally posted by: Tenochtitlan
I know we hate him but, should Aarav know the full truth?
If he is living with Viaan then, I think he should know the truth or else, there will be always fear and threat of the full truth being revealed to him .Otherwise, I feel what is the point of telling him the full truth? Why not leave in buried in the past. Or, tell him a twisted version of truth.
I don't think sensitive matter like ons should be revealed to child. Its not required. A child will never be able to understand that and even if he understood, he will never be able to forgive viaan, he will hate him even after growing up.
Subject like ons needs some maturity. Aarav is just 10 year old. Even s*x education in schools just covers good bad touch and nothing else for such young kids. Its a complicated matter.
However he needs to know the situation, the whole circumstances but they should be careful to choose their words. He needs to know that there was no emotional or physical "hurt" involved however viaan was a rude person back then and he did took advantage of his mother's vulnerable position. May be they can say that he offered monetary help but it was not free, he made her work for it, he was rude to her, he made her work for long hours etc. Remember when aarav was in hospital he was quite annoyed with her boss who made her work till long hours and also have seen her struggle, it all will look believable to him.
And more than anything else he needs to know that katha loves viaan. She agreed to marry viaan not only for aarav but because she loves him too.
In yesterday's episode it looked like it was more Aarav's guilt than his anger. He thinks that because of him only his mother was marrying a man who has actually hurt her. They need to clarify this.
And they can use his examples like how in his anger he hurt many of his friends and other children but it doesn't makes him a bad person. He not only realised his mistakes but also apologised. Same is with viaan. His past made him like that but he is a changed man now. He not only apologize for his mistakes but also changed himself completely because of katha and aarav both.
Edited by Anj_01 - 1 years ago