JUGNU, JAADU AND A BUNCH OF ...........

Gobbledygook..........😒 My antennae were up for a good part of the episode today😔.

Good afternoon girls!!!! I hope everybody is braving the heat all over the world😲

Episode opened with continuing conversation between Katha and Viaan. Katha had been most compassionate in telling him off- give it time and it will all be fine and BTW, take care of yourself🤗❤️I think that is doing a lot from her side, to be so kind to a guy who almost got her humiliated in front a houseful of people.

I don't understand Viaan, Ehsan conversation. Both of them raised big red flags to me today😒. Viaan ko ittu sa bhi bura nahin laga, that he is smiling, giggling and blushing away🤡. I imagine it may be an exhilarating feeling knowing that he is in love and that he feels liberated with this new discovery. But, how did that euphoria not be overshadowed by what his mom said/did and Katha stating, NOT POSSIBLE🤔😳Kya yeh itna babaji bann gaya, ki, he can neatly pack each emotion into its own slot and goof around, giddy with joy🤡Ehsan is completely making fun of the situation, and prodding asking for next steps. How the hell would anybody know what the next steps are, when you are smack in the middle of a situation? Am I being overly interpreting this, or did anybody feel suspicious of Ehsan?

Didn't like love talk-advice-support- discussion between Viaan and Aarav👎🏼Simply too much to put a little boy in the middle. Similarly, why didn't Katha's antennae go up as Aarav is blurting out intimate details of his "adult friend's" love life💔? I would have brought the house down if my child is telling me these kind of stories🤢Will let it go for the sake of movement of the storyI am surprised that Katha for even one moment didn't think that this story is eerily similar to her own situation😔 Moving on.......

Oh my! I hit the roof again as Viaan goes in to have some kind of a chat with Katha. That bordered on harassment. Yes, he could do all that he verbalized to Katha without talking to her too😒 A simple, I am sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but the company needs your services and therefore I will make sure you have a safe space to work, would have been more than enough. 🤔This would have been a decent way of nurturing his own feelings of love without bothering Katha who is not interested at the moment😳 But nahin, he had to report back to her that he is unable to move on ( is it even a full 24 hrs yet?), and that he will be waiting in the wings till such time that Rab ( Katha ) relents. 😭He is guilt tripping her. Sorry, if I am sounding forceful, but the definition of harassment in Mili's book is that if someone makes you feel uncomfortable at work by speaking about things irrelevant to work, that is harassment. It doesn't have to be threatening or openly aggressive. But whatever incidents which won't let you work freely, safely, and make you fearful of workplace because of behaviors of certain people, is harassment. In my mind, there is no two ways about it😡He is continuing to stare, outraging her dignity in front of a bunch of her co-workers😡

Line nahin cross karunga matlab🤬 Who will draw the line? She already drew the line saying, I don't want to talk about this in the office, and so wanted to clear it up outside of the workplace and made her stand very clear Yeh line cross karna nahin hain? Staring line cross karna nahin hain? 🤬The guy is literally suffocating her😒

Oh, please! Stop the nonsense of jugnu and jaadu already😡 We heard his state of mind in the form of a poem, it was nice. What is this obsession for metaphors? I am fed up with this. Katha has been very kind to listen to all that nonsense and still trying to reason with him. Why did he not say ONE WORD to his mom about her lectures to Katha💔? Katha told him about his mom's misconceptions about her, his mom told him that she asked Katha to live her life for her child. By not asking her to back off, and talk to him instead of Katha, he continues to let his mom continue to manipulate Katha and her loved ones around🤬. Viaan, don't let me lose respect for you🤓

Precap ka rant, next week hoga😡🤬🤢 Fire away girls........

Originally posted by: mili9

Gobbledygook..........😒 My antennae were up for a good part of the episode today😔.

Good afternoon girls!!!! I hope everybody is braving the heat all over the world😲

Episode opened with continuing conversation between Katha and Viaan. Katha had been most compassionate in telling him off- give it time and it will all be fine and BTW, take care of yourself🤗❤️I think that is doing a lot from her side, to be so kind to a guy who almost got her humiliated in front a houseful of people.

I don't understand Viaan, Ehsan conversation. Both of them raised big red flags to me today😒. Viaan ko ittu sa bhi bura nahin laga, that he is smiling, giggling and blushing away🤡. I imagine it may be an exhilarating feeling knowing that he is in love and that he feels liberated with this new discovery. But, how did that euphoria not be overshadowed by what his mom said/did and Katha stating, NOT POSSIBLE🤔😳Kya yeh itna babaji bann gaya, ki, he can neatly pack each emotion into its own slot and goof around, giddy with joy🤡Ehsan is completely making fun of the situation, and prodding asking for next steps. How the hell would anybody know what the next steps are, when you are smack in the middle of a situation? Am I being overly interpreting this, or did anybody felt suspicious of Ehsan?

Didn't like love talk-advice-support- discussion between Viaan and Aarav👎🏼Simply too much to put a little boy in the middle. Similarly, why didn't Katha's antennae go up as Aarav is blurting out intimate details of his "adult friend's" love life💔? I would have brought the house down if my child is telling me these kind of stories🤢Will let it go for the sake of movement of the storyI am surprised that Katha for even one moment didn't think that this story is eerily similar to her own situation😔 Moving on.......

Oh my! I hit the roof again as Viaan goes in to have some kind of a chat with Katha. That bordered on harassment. Yes, he could do all that he verbalized to Katha without talking to her too😒 A simple, I am sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but the company needs your services and therefore I will make sure you have a safe space to work, would have been more than enough. 🤔This would have been a decent way of nurturing his own feelings of love without bothering Katha who is not interested at the moment😳 But nahin, he had to report back to her that he is unable to move on ( is it even a full 24 hrs yet?), and that he will be waiting in the wings till such time that Rab ( Katha ) relents. 😭He is guilt tripping her. Sorry, if I am sounding forceful, but the definition of harassment in my book( institution ) is that if someone makes you feel uncomfortable at work by speaking about things irrelevant to work, that is harassment. It doesn't have to be threatening or openly aggressive. But whatever incidents which won't let you work freely, safely, fearful of workplace because of behaviors of certain people, is harassment. In my mind, there is no two ways about it😡He is continuing to stare, outraging her dignity in front of a bunch of her co-workers😡

Line nahin cross karunga matlab🤬 Who will draw the line? She already drew the line saying, I don't want to talk about this in the office, and so wanted to clear it up outside of the workplace and made her stand very clear Yeh line cross karna nahin hain? Staring line cross karna nahin hain? 🤬The guy is literally suffocating her😒

Oh, please! Stop the nonsense of jugnu and jaadu already😡 We heard his state of mind in the form of a poem, it was nice. What is this obsession for metaphors? I am fed up with this. Katha has been very kind to listen to all that nonsense and still trying to reason with him. Why did he not say ONE WORD to his mom about her lectures to Katha💔? Katha told him about his mom's misconceptions about her, his mom told him that she asked Katha to live her life for her child. By not asking her to back off, and talk to him instead of Katha, he continues to let his mom continue to manipulate Katha and her loved ones around🤬. Viaan, don't let me lose respect for you🤓

Precap ka rant, next week hoga😡🤬🤢 Fire away girls........

Nothing felt normal today. A no is a no until it changes to a yes. Till then keep the staring and I adore you eyes away. It’s not appropriate! Why is this so hard to understand? For goodness sakes, he is the CEO, who is just out of a sexual harassment case against him. How can the writers miss this and portray him in such a manner? Does being in love justify any kind of behavior, that too when the other person has clearly stated their lack of interest?

I am not comfortable with him declaring how much comfortable he is going to make everything for Katha. 🤦‍♀️ it would be better to talk to his mom and convince her, doing whatever it takes to convince her. That’s not creepy. But deciding to work on Katha? Creepy for now.

And what’s with Aarav-Viaan? 🙄 Totally done with this angle. It is heading nowhere other than weird land. Seriously which mom will be ok with this? Her lack of concern is beyond me.
Rant day I suppose. But not in the mood to go over every scene….

Mili, support every point and question you have put up there☝🏼

You echo my thoughts🤗. I have never been this disappointed with any episode that i have just bombarded DT with my rant comments..

Yes its harrassment - Katha being wiser telling him there is on and off from love, with time it will be all okay.. And he decides that time limit will be not even 24 hrs. Today i was as irritated as katha was when he entered her room.

I really don't know what they have done to Viaan.As much as i used to like him, this track is making me dislike him 😒.Kaun hain yeh aadmi..

And here I thought a no from katha would break his heart and he will be back to those silences and space.. But na he is altogether in his own world laughing with his best friend and then landing up at his jugnu's doorstep ( I hate jugnu jaap)

I was also thinking why it does not ring a bell to katha that Aarav has made an adult his friend who is this person that Aarav has got so attached to and why is his story sounding similar to what katha has been going thru..

Thanks for the tag, do tag whenever you make any post 😊.It's almost 3 AM here and I m still online..😆.need to get off from here.. See you all...

This is an industry fed on the Kabir Singh approach of love. In fact being passionately in love is considered justification for stalking, starring, possessiveness, serenading & making repeated proposals, and blatantly assuming that uske na mein haan chupi hai. All this romanticised so much that young girls actually long for it. They feel if the guy is not persistent & possessive he doesnt love enough respect ki koi value nahin hai.

Originally posted by: Bana

This is an industry fed on the Kabir Singh approach of love. In fact being passionately in love is considered justification for stalking, starring, possessiveness, serenading & making repeated proposals, and blatantly assuming that uske na mein haan chupi hai. All this romanticised so much that young girls actually long for it. They feel if the guy is not persistent & possessive he doesnt love enough respect ki koi value nahin hai.

This is so true and scary at the same time. That a yes is hidden underneath the no. Or that it has to be a yes, and no is not an option.
So with that line of thinking, Shamita’s interest in Viaan should have been accepted by him? Could he not see the love and interest directed towards him? Why is his anger towards her justified? And yet Katha cannot be angry or upset with him? Viaan should be with Shamita given his own line of thinking 😂

I am not tagged and still pouring in my opinions, excuse me for this intrusion, Miss.Mili, IMO Viaan discussing with Ehsan is like a friendly banter of two people, I agree that Ehsan is a character which has been parked in suspense depending on the progression of the serial.

As of now Viaan disclosing to Kathaa that his feelings to her are unchanged is a good gesture because the confession is a shift in dynamics between both and they are going to be facing and working with each other in that case it's important to be clear about the impact of the discussion which has transpired between them, finally even at workplace if you have a special bonding or relationship with someone we tend to look at them more often and that can be termed as staring but it does happen, that may not be to cause discomfort but it's a natural phenomenon.

Finally I'dlike to consider women like Kathaa to be perfectly capable of tackling harassment and dealing with any obsessive compulsive behaviour.

Being a part of the DI&E initiative teams my experience has been reading too much in between lines can amount to intrusion, because cultural differences play a crucial role. For instance what I consider as unruly can be OK with someone, hence I made it a habit to highlight my concern when redflags are found and then I sit back and relax for the concerned to respond or complaint.

Viaan not talking to his mom about Kathaa as of now its not important for him, because his main concern is that lady's nod. Because once she's OK with him then he can think about others thats how typical males behave and think. Whoever is important inly that matters, male brains work in single variable only mode, whereas female brains operate in multiple variables only mode.

Above all confession only happened 2 episodes ago lets sit, wait and enjoy how the plot unfolds.

Originally posted by: mili9

Gobbledygook..........😒 My antennae were up for a good part of the episode today😔.

Good afternoon girls!!!! I hope everybody is braving the heat all over the world😲

Episode opened with continuing conversation between Katha and Viaan. Katha had been most compassionate in telling him off- give it time and it will all be fine and BTW, take care of yourself🤗❤️I think that is doing a lot from her side, to be so kind to a guy who almost got her humiliated in front a houseful of people.

I don't understand Viaan, Ehsan conversation. Both of them raised big red flags to me today😒. Viaan ko ittu sa bhi bura nahin laga, that he is smiling, giggling and blushing away🤡. I imagine it may be an exhilarating feeling knowing that he is in love and that he feels liberated with this new discovery. But, how did that euphoria not be overshadowed by what his mom said/did and Katha stating, NOT POSSIBLE🤔😳Kya yeh itna babaji bann gaya, ki, he can neatly pack each emotion into its own slot and goof around, giddy with joy🤡Ehsan is completely making fun of the situation, and prodding asking for next steps. How the hell would anybody know what the next steps are, when you are smack in the middle of a situation? Am I being overly interpreting this, or did anybody feel suspicious of Ehsan?

Didn't like love talk-advice-support- discussion between Viaan and Aarav👎🏼Simply too much to put a little boy in the middle. Similarly, why didn't Katha's antennae go up as Aarav is blurting out intimate details of his "adult friend's" love life💔? I would have brought the house down if my child is telling me these kind of stories🤢Will let it go for the sake of movement of the storyI am surprised that Katha for even one moment didn't think that this story is eerily similar to her own situation😔 Moving on.......

Oh my! I hit the roof again as Viaan goes in to have some kind of a chat with Katha. That bordered on harassment. Yes, he could do all that he verbalized to Katha without talking to her too😒 A simple, I am sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but the company needs your services and therefore I will make sure you have a safe space to work, would have been more than enough. 🤔This would have been a decent way of nurturing his own feelings of love without bothering Katha who is not interested at the moment😳 But nahin, he had to report back to her that he is unable to move on ( is it even a full 24 hrs yet?), and that he will be waiting in the wings till such time that Rab ( Katha ) relents. 😭He is guilt tripping her. Sorry, if I am sounding forceful, but the definition of harassment in Mili's book is that if someone makes you feel uncomfortable at work by speaking about things irrelevant to work, that is harassment. It doesn't have to be threatening or openly aggressive. But whatever incidents which won't let you work freely, safely, and make you fearful of workplace because of behaviors of certain people, is harassment. In my mind, there is no two ways about it😡He is continuing to stare, outraging her dignity in front of a bunch of her co-workers😡

Line nahin cross karunga matlab🤬 Who will draw the line? She already drew the line saying, I don't want to talk about this in the office, and so wanted to clear it up outside of the workplace and made her stand very clear Yeh line cross karna nahin hain? Staring line cross karna nahin hain? 🤬The guy is literally suffocating her😒

Oh, please! Stop the nonsense of jugnu and jaadu already😡 We heard his state of mind in the form of a poem, it was nice. What is this obsession for metaphors? I am fed up with this. Katha has been very kind to listen to all that nonsense and still trying to reason with him. Why did he not say ONE WORD to his mom about her lectures to Katha💔? Katha told him about his mom's misconceptions about her, his mom told him that she asked Katha to live her life for her child. By not asking her to back off, and talk to him instead of Katha, he continues to let his mom continue to manipulate Katha and her loved ones around🤬. Viaan, don't let me lose respect for you🤓

Precap ka rant, next week hoga😡🤬🤢 Fire away girls........

You’ve summed up everything that I was bothered about pretty well. I’m honestly just watching this show for the heck of it now and have stopped thinking so much about it.

Originally posted by: mili9

Gobbledygook..........😒 My antennae were up for a good part of the episode today😔.

Good afternoon girls!!!! I hope everybody is braving the heat all over the world😲

Episode opened with continuing conversation between Katha and Viaan. Katha had been most compassionate in telling him off- give it time and it will all be fine and BTW, take care of yourself🤗❤️I think that is doing a lot from her side, to be so kind to a guy who almost got her humiliated in front a houseful of people.

I don't understand Viaan, Ehsan conversation. Both of them raised big red flags to me today😒. Viaan ko ittu sa bhi bura nahin laga, that he is smiling, giggling and blushing away🤡. I imagine it may be an exhilarating feeling knowing that he is in love and that he feels liberated with this new discovery. But, how did that euphoria not be overshadowed by what his mom said/did and Katha stating, NOT POSSIBLE🤔😳Kya yeh itna babaji bann gaya, ki, he can neatly pack each emotion into its own slot and goof around, giddy with joy🤡Ehsan is completely making fun of the situation, and prodding asking for next steps. How the hell would anybody know what the next steps are, when you are smack in the middle of a situation? Am I being overly interpreting this, or did anybody feel suspicious of Ehsan?

Didn't like love talk-advice-support- discussion between Viaan and Aarav👎🏼Simply too much to put a little boy in the middle. Similarly, why didn't Katha's antennae go up as Aarav is blurting out intimate details of his "adult friend's" love life💔? I would have brought the house down if my child is telling me these kind of stories🤢Will let it go for the sake of movement of the storyI am surprised that Katha for even one moment didn't think that this story is eerily similar to her own situation😔 Moving on.......

Oh my! I hit the roof again as Viaan goes in to have some kind of a chat with Katha. That bordered on harassment. Yes, he could do all that he verbalized to Katha without talking to her too😒 A simple, I am sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but the company needs your services and therefore I will make sure you have a safe space to work, would have been more than enough. 🤔This would have been a decent way of nurturing his own feelings of love without bothering Katha who is not interested at the moment😳 But nahin, he had to report back to her that he is unable to move on ( is it even a full 24 hrs yet?), and that he will be waiting in the wings till such time that Rab ( Katha ) relents. 😭He is guilt tripping her. Sorry, if I am sounding forceful, but the definition of harassment in Mili's book is that if someone makes you feel uncomfortable at work by speaking about things irrelevant to work, that is harassment. It doesn't have to be threatening or openly aggressive. But whatever incidents which won't let you work freely, safely, and make you fearful of workplace because of behaviors of certain people, is harassment. In my mind, there is no two ways about it😡He is continuing to stare, outraging her dignity in front of a bunch of her co-workers😡

Line nahin cross karunga matlab🤬 Who will draw the line? She already drew the line saying, I don't want to talk about this in the office, and so wanted to clear it up outside of the workplace and made her stand very clear Yeh line cross karna nahin hain? Staring line cross karna nahin hain? 🤬The guy is literally suffocating her😒

Oh, please! Stop the nonsense of jugnu and jaadu already😡 We heard his state of mind in the form of a poem, it was nice. What is this obsession for metaphors? I am fed up with this. Katha has been very kind to listen to all that nonsense and still trying to reason with him. Why did he not say ONE WORD to his mom about her lectures to Katha💔? Katha told him about his mom's misconceptions about her, his mom told him that she asked Katha to live her life for her child. By not asking her to back off, and talk to him instead of Katha, he continues to let his mom continue to manipulate Katha and her loved ones around🤬. Viaan, don't let me lose respect for you🤓

Precap ka rant, next week hoga😡🤬🤢 Fire away girls........

Mili Dear❤️🤗❤️

So my next task is upto next week 😎 👇👇👇

Originally posted by: vinnas

Mili Dear❤️🤗❤️

So my next task is upto next week 😎 👇👇👇

Chanduuuu🤗 you are impossible🤣

I started a precap for my rant also today as G tagged me with upcoming BTS. Sorry, I didn't tag you in that one. I badly needed your emojis, my dear on several days. I am glad you are here again. I hope you are doing well😃

Originally posted by: mili9

Chanduuuu🤗 you are impossible🤣

I started a precap for my rant also today as G tagged me with upcoming BTS. Sorry, I didn't tag you in that one. I badly needed your emojis, my dear on several days. I am glad you are here again. I hope you are doing well😃

me fine Dear ❤️🤗

wow rants on precap 🥳 great 🥳 not necessary to tag me 😉 I stalk u when ever drop in IF 😎

You want emojies 😃I'm at ur service 👍🏼😆 come on do tell me 😃 😛which one u want 😉😳