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Originally posted by: cassiop

Grace are you equating your and your husband's situation with that of Prerna and Anurag? Your husband was stressed and may have blamed you for not being the support that he might have been expecting from his wife at that time.

But Anurag threw her off the bridge risking her life with a childish plan by sending divers (God knows what happened to them). Separating a child from mother ab wo usey khud raise kare ya kuch bhi separate to kia na.

You child was not snatched away from you or you were asked to leave them. But he is your family and you have all rights to talk about them the way you want and compare your own life situations with a horrible and unjustifiable event of a fiction. But as a reader and I am so sorry in advance for saying this but bringing your husband and for that matter yourself into this that too in context with Anurag and Prerna is not fair and almost demeaning.

Thank you for replying. Wasn’t sure how to but Grace, honestly the situations are not the same. My sympathies for the tough time you went through.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Hari... I have already explained it in the replies i gave to many in this thread. Still, I will explain it, in a separate post if my guess on Sneha's details comes true. Just because she carried the child in her womb doesn't give her any superior rights. And that is my perception. I am not forcing anyone to agree to it.

Each woman are diff. But however they r diff, but love towards their child remains same. If you take me, I was working till 3 AM in the morning while I was completing my tremister. I was not even feeling I was pregnant, I was running here n there. Only when I sleep, I used to feel I am pregnant as my cp used move much thinking how mumma resting.

And sometimes I don't even check about my children while I am at work as I am too involved in the work. So according to u I am bad mother😆

When it is clearly not shown, how good or bad mother, why even commenting. And when she can give so much love and care to kuki, imagine how much love she would give to her n anu's child.

One side, you try justifying cvs have taken creative liberty n used pushing pre as metamorphically to show sending pre away. Otherside, which is not even shown, you imagine and pass sercastic comment on pre. I so wish, if u can keep aside hatredness for pre n think from her point of view and give some few good words how she fought despite being pregnant woman. But never mind, but I hv to say this as I saw many started to think like you, that's really started bothering me.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Each woman are diff. But however they r diff, but love towards their child remains same. If you take me, I was working till 3 AM in the morning while I was completing my tremister. I was not even feeling I was pregnant, I was running here n there. Only when I sleep, I used to feel I am pregnant as my cp used move much thinking how mumma resting.

And sometimes I don't even check about my children while I am at work as I am too involved in the work. So according to u I am bad mother😆

When it is clearly not shown, how good or bad mother, why even commenting. And when she can give so much love and care to kuki, imagine how much love she would give to her n anu's child.

One side, you try justifying cvs have taken creative liberty n used pushing pre as metamorphically to show sending pre away. Otherside, which is not even shown, you imagine and pass sercastic comment on pre. I so wish, if u can keep aside hatredness for pre n think from her point of view and give some few good words how she fought despite being pregnant woman. But never mind, but I hv to say this as I saw many started to think like you, that's really started bothering me.

There is difference between itv world and real world.so no point of comparison.being parent to sneha both of them failed to some extent.viewers are not able to connect as a mother bcoz cvs do not give her monologue and she was shown very careless during her pregnancy.noone I real life can tolerate all these nonsence.

However we usually feel for a character whom we like and try to justify their action.so there has to be difference in opinion.

No doubt right now it is prerna who is being wronged by anurag.but when it comes to sneha,let cvs unfold whole mystry then only one can give perfect opinion.

My mom use to say that child need both parent equally.Maa chaand ki chaav hai to pita suraj ki dhoop.a child in absence of either of them or none of them suffer psychologically.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Each woman are diff. But however they r diff, but love towards their child remains same. If you take me, I was working till 3 AM in the morning while I was completing my tremister. I was not even feeling I was pregnant, I was running here n there. Only when I sleep, I used to feel I am pregnant as my cp used move much thinking how mumma resting.

And sometimes I don't even check about my children while I am at work as I am too involved in the work. So according to u I am bad mother😆

When it is clearly not shown, how good or bad mother, why even commenting. And when she can give so much love and care to kuki, imagine how much love she would give to her n anu's child.

One side, you try justifying cvs have taken creative liberty n used pushing pre as metamorphically to show sending pre away. Otherside, which is not even shown, you imagine and pass sercastic comment on pre. I so wish, if u can keep aside hatredness for pre n think from her point of view and give some few good words how she fought despite being pregnant woman. But never mind, but I hv to say this as I saw many started to think like you, that's really started bothering me.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Probably because i was on complete bedrest for the first 5months and my hubby was equally part of all these difficult situations i went through (except in breastfeeding) while he himself was having his own stressful situations at office with noone to share his pain & stress around, I am feeling so.

I had miscarried our first child and so when i got pregnant for the second time, I used to share all my fears and pain with him. While he couldn't do the same with me because he didn't want to stress me more. As a result what happened is that, all of this accumulated tension did lead to him loosing his patience limits, once our baby was born. That night he happened to complain about my family to my MIL, for not being a support to him in this phase in any way. And this led to me being tortured mentally for the next 9months by my MIL until he came to hear it directly from her, after which he advised her not to repeat it, accepting that what he did that day was a mistake. Yes he was the reason for one of the disturbing phase of my life. Yet instead of pointing fingers at him, I tried to understand what led to him to complain like that. Because, except for that incidence he has always taken care of and loved me & our cutiepie. Then why should I crucify him for something he said when he was stressed and hadn't slept well for 2days due to office deadlines, my delivery related issues & all. And till date, he hasn't left a chance for me to feel that I am superior in my motherly rights than his fatherly rights. Same is the case with all the men in my life. So, in short, what i meant to say is that, probably it is my life experience that doesn't allow me to think that mothers have superior rights than fathers.

That's the life grace. Married life will sees ups n downs. When one person down, it's other person responsibility to pull n take it forward. But I will never suggest person, if your partner physically hurt you and you still continue in relation. I will never accept either boy or girl living hell in the name of compromise or adjusting. It depends on situation.

Coming to kzk, here we cannot compare anupre situation with your situation. However good intentions behind it, he cheated on her n separated her child from her. He is wrong. All I want is guilty in anu's eyes n shd b sorry to pre. And we know pre has big heart, one day she will forgive him.

Originally posted by: surbhi1995

There is difference between itv world and real world.so no point of comparison.being parent to sneha both of them failed to some extent.viewers are not able to connect as a mother bcoz cvs do not give her monologue and she was shown very careless during her pregnancy.noone I real life can tolerate all these nonsence.

However we usually feel for a character whom we like and try to justify their action.so there has to be difference in opinion.

No doubt right now it is prerna who is being wronged by anurag.but when it comes to sneha,let cvs unfold whole mystry then only one can give perfect opinion.

My mom use to say that child need both parent equally.Maa chaand ki chaav hai to pita suraj ki dhoop.a child in absence of either of them or none of them suffer psychologically.

Current generation children really suffering from psychological issues. Working parents hardly give time to their children. My cousin who work in infosys some time does not come home for 3 to 4 days. And mostly ppl hv one child. N that child stays alone all the time. It's really sad status of children in india who have working parents sply in IT sector.

Originally posted by: durga33

in regards to the TM like you said every woman goes through different things. However this is a tv show. Kzk is a illogical show. So much nonsense happens in that show it's so unrealistic. Where do you see a man throwing a woman off a bridge to protect her? Also separating a mother from a child? In this time when people divorce the mother is the one who is granted the custody right away. Not the father. At the end of the day it's a tv show. The fact that some people take it so seriously that they compare their problems to the male lead actions in an attempt to justify him in some sort of way is troubling. And like you said people who are fine with this and agree I really think they need to reevaluate life. Just my point. No offense to no one.

I think, grace is not beleiving what actually shown. She is thinking probably shown as metamorphically to push way pre from him. And she feels he needs to be forgiven. Even I believe anu shd b forgiven when he is guilty n sorry for his action. And shd realise the stupidity he has done. The diff between me n her is she is not considering it as serious offence where as I do. But we both want pre forgive him one day if he is sorry for his action. I am just arguing with her bcoz, she is not considering it as serious offence, instead she is trying to put other character down.

I am discussing with her as my sister. I know her how emotional she is. I am trying to bring her to reality 😆

Originally posted by: Hari73

Each woman are diff. But however they r diff, but love towards their child remains same. If you take me, I was working till 3 AM in the morning while I was completing my tremister. I was not even feeling I was pregnant, I was running here n there. Only when I sleep, I used to feel I am pregnant as my cp used move much thinking how mumma resting.

And sometimes I don't even check about my children while I am at work as I am too involved in the work. So according to u I am bad mother😆

When it is clearly not shown, how good or bad mother, why even commenting. And when she can give so much love and care to kuki, imagine how much love she would give to her n anu's child.

One side, you try justifying cvs have taken creative liberty n used pushing pre as metamorphically to show sending pre away. Otherside, which is not even shown, you imagine and pass sercastic comment on pre. I so wish, if u can keep aside hatredness for pre n think from her point of view and give some few good words how she fought despite being pregnant woman. But never mind, but I hv to say this as I saw many started to think like you, that's really started bothering me.

Hari.... Who said I 'hate' Prerna? If it is so, then I shouldn't be an AnuPreian, right? Yes, I can't accept Pre as a responsible mother. The main reason you will understand once you go through this thread. https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasautii-zindagii-kay-2/5105850/ek-and-cvs-it-is-high-time-you-stop-playing-cool-with-a-pregnant-pre
And, this was the day I had stopped expecting or even connecting with Prerna as a mother. Because, that was the intention of the CVs too, as every carelessness can't be brushed aside as creative liberty. Just recollect how they wanted her to be superwoman when she rejects Shekhar's help after sharing Komo's truth with him. For a second i will forget all of these kaands by CVs and the fact that, if at all Bajaj hadn't given her divorce, Anu would have never come to know that CP was his daughter. But I can't brush off how careless she was shown with Sneha's safety, even after her delivery....Then also CVs never bothered to show Pre concerned about Sneha except at the time blood was needed and at the orphanage. Before Anu came to know about Komo's truth, she was the only one in BB who knew the truth about Komolika. Yet CVs showed her freely roaming around in BB & farmhouse, leaving Sneha alone. Not only that. After getting the final shock at the farmhouse after being saved by Bajaj, any responsible mother's first thought would have been saving her daughter from her enemies, Anu & Komolika (whom she believed had joined hands together). Instead what we saw was, until Bajaj got the phone call from Shivin not once she thought of Sneha. That too let us keep aside for time being. Before leaving Kolkota, why couldn't she register a case against Komo & Anu for sending her daughter to orphanage without her consent and thereby being responsible for the death of Sneha? That was the last chance CVs had to redeem Prerna as a mother. They didn't. If we have to consider all these incidents, right from the start they started with pregnancy track till now, as a part of creative liberty, then there is no use to watch the show. Every character's actions including Bajaj's and KoMoNi's can be then justified using the creative liberty tag.
Vaise bhi, I am on the verge of quitting. I am just waiting for the Sneha track to begin, to understand how EK is going to treat Anu. Because, if EK is taking the route of S1 and is going to turn S2 Anu's character into something he was not till now, then I would not even want AnuPre to unite even for Sneha. Even with what has been shown till now post leap, I would be fine if Pre decides not to return to Anu after forgiving him for what all he did. Because my only wish now is to see Pre knowing the truth. After that it would be better Anu tells Pre to be a Bajaj forever and sends her back. Because, if they could be apart from each other for 8yrs and still could be alive, then that is better for them. I don't care about their happiness anymore, as none of the character is my favorite now. The only reason I have been coming up with pro-Anu posts was because, from the time I watched the pushing off promo, I felt like some sort of injustice is being done intentionally with Parth by EK and her team to sideline him. But then, if EK is adamant and hell bent in destroying Anu's character (maybe to make him free for his other projects), then I will not continue with such posts. Kyonki, Parth or Anurag mera koi nahin hai ki that, I will let my mental peace be affected for them. Isaliye, if EK is going to use Sneha to butcher Anurag's character further, then with the upcoming break, I will try my best to get detached from KZK completely.

@Reemz & @cassiop....Me sharing my life experience was in no way to justify Anu's actions and pointing fingers at Pre for not understanding Anu. It was solely a reply to what Reemz said that mothers have superior rights over a father. I just wanted to convey that just because I carried our son in my womb for 9months, i can't claim any superiority over our son than his father. Because, to me carrying our son in my womb is a pure feeling of how unconditional my love should be. Not to prove anything about my right.

And with this, I am just ending all discussions in this thread, as since yesterday I am not in a mood to discuss much about a show, where the FL is being used as a swinging pendulum. One day she says Bajaj is reason for her success. Next day she says, Anu is the reason. And then one fine day she shares with her mother (whom she didn't bother to check in these 8yrs), that it was her mother who used to be her motivation. It is really not a pleasant feeling to see CVs using her as per the feedbacks they get from each section of viewers everyday. Already they have butchered the ML in an unimaginable way. Now this. Who would want to watch the show where you only get to see all the hard works done by your favorites going down the drain? So, it is my request to stop discussing further about Anu or Pre and move on. Please.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Hari.... Who said I 'hate' Prerna? If it is so, then I shouldn't be an AnuPreian, right? Yes, I can't accept Pre as a responsible mother. The main reason you will understand once you go through this thread. https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasautii-zindagii-kay-2/5105850/ek-and-cvs-it-is-high-time-you-stop-playing-cool-with-a-pregnant-pre
And, this was the day I had stopped expecting or even connecting with Prerna as a mother. Because, that was the intention of the CVs too, as every carelessness can't be brushed aside as creative liberty. Just recollect how they wanted her to be superwoman when she rejects Shekhar's help after sharing Komo's truth with him. For a second i will forget all of these kaands by CVs and the fact that, if at all Bajaj hadn't given her divorce, Anu would have never come to know that CP was his daughter. But I can't brush off how careless she was shown with Sneha's safety, even after her delivery....Then also CVs never bothered to show Pre concerned about Sneha except at the time blood was needed and at the orphanage. Before Anu came to know about Komo's truth, she was the only one in BB who knew the truth about Komolika. Yet CVs showed her freely roaming around in BB & farmhouse, leaving Sneha alone. Not only that. After getting the final shock at the farmhouse after being saved by Bajaj, any responsible mother's first thought would have been saving her daughter from her enemies, Anu & Komolika (whom she believed had joined hands together). Instead what we saw was, until Bajaj got the phone call from Shivin not once she thought of Sneha. That too let us keep aside for time being. Before leaving Kolkota, why couldn't she register a case against Komo & Anu for sending her daughter to orphanage without her consent and thereby being responsible for the death of Sneha? That was the last chance CVs had to redeem Prerna as a mother. They didn't. If we have to consider all these incidents, right from the start they started with pregnancy track till now, as a part of creative liberty, then there is no use to watch the show. Every character's actions including Bajaj's and KoMoNi's can be then justified using the creative liberty tag.
Vaise bhi, I am on the verge of quitting. I am just waiting for the Sneha track to begin, to understand how EK is going to treat Anu. Because, if EK is taking the route of S1 and is going to turn S2 Anu's character into something he was not till now, then I would not even want AnuPre to unite even for Sneha. Even with what has been shown till now post leap, I would be fine if Pre decides not to return to Anu after forgiving him for what all he did. Because my only wish now is to see Pre knowing the truth. After that it would be better Anu tells Pre to be a Bajaj forever and sends her back. Because, if they could be apart from each other for 8yrs and still could be alive, then that is better for them. I don't care about their happiness anymore, as none of the character is my favorite now. The only reason I have been coming up with pro-Anu posts was because, from the time I watched the pushing off promo, I felt like some sort of injustice is being done intentionally with Parth by EK and her team to sideline him. But then, if EK is adamant and hell bent in destroying Anu's character (maybe to make him free for his other projects), then I will not continue with such posts. Kyonki, Parth or Anurag mera koi nahin hai ki that, I will let my mental peace be affected for them. Isaliye, if EK is going to use Sneha to butcher Anurag's character further, then with the upcoming break, I will try my best to get detached from KZK completely.

But we all agree there were better ways to handle the tracks.. but CVS know only one thing and i.e butcher leads.. and make us wonder are they same ones who were introduced to us..