Prerna today made it clear where her happiness lies - Page 3

Prerna always had her priorities clear, I don't think anyone questioned her feelings. Love is blind blah blah yes, she loves Anurag, we know that. But that's the problem. She loves only Anurag. Not her family, not the Basus, not her baby, not herself. If she cares about her child, it's only because it's Anurag ke pyaar ki nishani. She takes care of the child as Anurag ke bacche ki Maa, not as herself. Not because it's her own child, but because it's Anurag ka baby. If she bears all insults from the Basus, it's only because they are Anurag ki family. If she goes to her home, it's only because Anurag ke sath nahi reh rahi for the time being. Every part of her identity, as a woman, as a mother, everything is related to Anurag and I don't find that romantic at all. Where is her own mamta?

Please don't think I'm not a AnuPre fan that's why I'm saying this. If Prerna acted like this for her ex-husband like that, I would have totally hated that. A woman's identity is never only to be someone else's soulmate/partner/wife/child's mother. She can have her own identity along with that, can't she?

Girls....wait. i will be back after serving lunch to my mother in law, the very same person who had hurled insults on me & my parents years back, because she thought i am not the apt person for her son and i was being a burden to him. Relationships are not born on the tap of a switch. It has to be nurtured and watered with lots of effort sometimes from both sides, yet sometimes from one side. And for that i have always looked unto my Almighty Father for the guidance and today where i stand, i am completely content in my life. Will join you all later. Tab tak don't get this thread closed.

Originally posted by: SehLengeThoda

This is cheating. Just one member can't pinpoint all the points in one post and not give any chance to others.

On a serious note, yes you said everything, nothing more is left for anyone else to say further.

I understand and get the point she loves him. And I have no issues with that. But in life their are other relationships too which you have to give attention too especially your own parents and siblings.

Those who love prerna, I have a simple question. Can anyone of you connect with a woman like her in real life?

She doesn't care about herself being pregnant, doesn't think about her baby and do all stunts in this situation. She joined job after the Sharmas lost their house.

What's the present status of that?

She was getting married to Anurag a month back and didn't even bothered to inform her family. I still will give her a benifit do doubt about the relationship status with her siblings, but with her mother?

Which daughter does that?

May be thats where me and Grace clashes... Despite being a die hard EjFian and my loyalty lies with her, I still can’t bring myself to connect or to understand the kind of woman (Prerna Sharma) is, forget about connecting with someone like her in real...

I still love Prerna Sharma and I am here only for her.. Being a non ITV lover, a non BW viewer with no indian bg at all, it make very difficult for me to accept Eri’s Prerna esp after playing a strong and relatable Sonakshi Bose before..

But at the same time, it makes me proud as a fan because Sona and Preyu are poles apart..

According to me, they share a weird, toxic and unhealthy relationship.. I can’t call it selfless.. sorry.. All they want is to be with each other and they will spend the rest of their life fighting to be with each other.. What a waste of life...

As a human being, a daughter, a friend, a sister, a mother also, we have other responsibilities.. Prerna Sharma made it clear from the beginning all she ever wanted was to be Anurag’s lover, even if that destroys everyone around them in the process of becoming one, its totally fine..

I left my family, my home country when I was 18 and I have spent a big chunk of my life in the Uk without any help, support from anyone.. And by the grace of God, I am today in a good position.. Career wise, relationship, family, and everything... This is why I do give a lot of importance to everything related to the word SELF... Love is indeed important but its not everything.. A relationship is a part of our life like everything else, it’s not life itself..

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

if a husband listens to mother and abandons his wife than a problem

If husband listens to wife abandons mother than problem

If a wife listens to mother and breaks relationship with husband thats okay🤔

Why cant husband and wife ignore both their mothers and be with each other..

Let mothers scream preach abuse the son in law or daughter in law... Goli maaro dnt pay attention..

Just have happy life with hubby wife and child

Her arguement was not illogical if veena as a wife would have been she herself would have done more than what prerna did..

Its always easy to preach but when same thing happens to u own ppl will behave differently

Thats what i always see in ppl around me...

This is "practical" thinking In today's times isnt it ? Just keep away with problems instead of facing them.running away.....sad, the two people who choose to leave everything behind , still may not find peace with each other , depending on the situation ..the same parents , jinka kaam khatam hua once they raise us ,just abandon them bec their thinking is not aligned to ours?

No offence but this is one thing I like about anurag..that he never disrespected mohini for his love ...and prerna didnt have to do it either.. it's all about tackling them in a proper way rather than abandon them..first their own actions hurt their parents so much but they dont care .....the problem between them was never addressed...veena was insulted many times but prerna never bothered to discuss it with anurag, nor did anurag discuss it with his mother.like they r imposing their choices on their mothers, their mothers are only returning the favour.

Yes..love is the best and most important emotion🤢 But no mother will say"ja prerna ;laila banke fanaa ho ja"

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Prerna's main happiness mainly lies on only Mohini's Bhar Bharke insults , Nivi's taunts, Komolika's harms , khudke family ka beijjati and being the Bodyguard of Basu Khandan . and she has summarized all of these things on the name of her eternal , divine Love Anurag . That is her entire life roaming around this planet from starts . and as a woman being she has no regret for this ever . aur bhaise bhi i believe, Everyone has full right to choose their own mistakes. then why not prerna . 👍🏼

Exactly. Her life. Her wishes. Her decisions. And she has no complaints about it. Then why should i bother. I just want to see her happy. That is it.

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

if a husband listens to mother and abandons his wife than a problem

If husband listens to wife abandons mother than problem

If a wife listens to mother and breaks relationship with husband thats okay🤔

Why cant husband and wife ignore both their mothers and be with each other..

Let mothers scream preach abuse the son in law or daughter in law... Goli maaro dnt pay attention..

Just have happy life with hubby wife and child

Her arguement was not illogical if veena as a wife would have been she herself would have done more than what prerna did..

Its always easy to preach but when same thing happens to u own ppl will behave differently

Thats what i always see in ppl around me...

Bold - A pat on your back for this.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Exactly. Her life. Her wishes. Her decisions. And she has no complaints about it. Then why should i bother. I just want to see her happy. That is it.

no need to be bothering at all , but as we are watching a show, and channel is showing this show for our feedback. toh free ka feedback toh bantei hai , positive/negative.

Double post

Originally posted by: cassiop

I can't speak for others as m a relatively new member here.. can speak for myself.. please see my post before this one.

Also I thought you created a post for anyone and everyone to comment.. and everyone till now posted their views about the character and everything is peaceful.. somehow your last two post I feel are more to instigate people to make it a war zone and go personal eventually.. i am saying this to you coz you are the TM and somewhere TM should make am effort to keep thier threads interesting and enjoyable for readers.. I could be wrong and I am sorry in advance..

Lovr reading your analysis.. may agree or disagree but thats my problem. Keep coming up with new posts..😊

Bold - Cassiop...i am replying to you because i feel you to be reasonable in your discussions. Just go through the below links. You will then realise on why i have now accepted Prerna's characterisation as it is and why i didn't feel any genuinity in those pointing fingers at Pre now. Otherwise, i don't have any motive to instigate people for fictional characters who are just puppets in the hands of their writers.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasautii-zindagii-kay-2/5102529/prerna-is-a-daughter-and-mother-too

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasautii-zindagii-kay-2/5105850/ek-and-cvs-it-is-high-time-you-stop-playing-cool-with-a-pregnant-pre

Originally posted by: opsora2090

no need to be bothering at all , but as we are watching a show, and channel is showing this show for our feedback. toh free ka feedback toh bantei hai , positive/negative.

not only that Oppo, I remember Ekta and Eri done a live IV on women’s day back in 2018 about Women Empowerment.. EK and BT always preach on social message etc etc.. I am sure they mentioned about SELF LOVE as well..

so why send across an unrealistic and in my opinion wrong msg across to ppl? Where a woman is reduce to being a puppet.. and that she needs to accept any kind of insult, abuse towards herself and her family just to be with the man she loves!

Prerna’s character is a bit let down for me.. I was expecting a combo of Shweta Tiwari’s Prerna and Erica’s Sonakshi Bose.. Pre isnt even 1% of Sona..

anyone remember the fish scene during their engagement.. that was disgusting!