OOPS and THANK YOU !!!!

Good morning/ evening girls !!!!

Seems like I created a little mayhem with my prior post😔 Sorry, it was not my intention. Not here to create any more trouble either. Not sure if I can post this, but, I had to say THANK YOU to many of you🤗

Fact of the matter is, that this topic is very close to my heart ( like a lot of others 😃) and hits too close to home for me. I serve on a committee at my institution, a huge institution of higher learning, which monitors situations like these routinely where vulnerable learners are taken advantage of by people in power. I work with an amazing group of people who are so astute and compassionate that each and every scenario that comes to the committee is dissected to a nano level and addressed appropriately. So, from the get go, when I came to know the generics of the show and what I understood about Bajaj when I started randomly watching this show, I hit the roof😡😡 I truly got riled up. I would have been OK, if the show didn't try to gloss this guy over and tried to hint at a moral and ethical superiority to this guy,who in my mind is nothing but a guy who preyed on a vulnerable young woman. I haven't seen anything where I could remotely justify this guy in the time I watched. When I felt that the show is going to completely justify the guy, I decided not to watch and stress myself. Only, a few days ago during a casual conversation with a friend, did I come to know that this guy is ousted👍🏼👏 So, I decided to watch all those episodes over a span of 3 days, 10-11 episodes is a feat for me. I felt very light and elated at the turn of events and so I came to vent😕

Again, by reading this forum and talking to a friend I came to know that there was a season 1 to this. I am sorry guys, I understand why some of you took soo much exception to my writing. Please know that I have no baggage of the last season to rely on, nor do I know the specifics of the last year. So, I am free in my head and I know I am looking at a snap shot of the show in real time😎I have been badly burned by this producer before, so I know what might in the offing too😔.

Magizh, my friend🤗. You are a lioness😭Please don't burden yourself with the thought that you brought me in here. I am a big girl and I deliberately made this decision. If I didn't want to, you know that you couldn't have influenced me🤗. I think you know that much about me❤️Please take some friendly advice from me ( or you can ignore too🤓), that nobody ( even me😃) deserves putting your neck out there like you did today for me. Thank you, thank you. I am truly touched and blessed to have people like you who have my back😭🤗

Thank you all, my friends for all that support❤️. I can't name you all, but please know that each and every one of you who put yourself out there, my gratitude comes from the bottom of my heart😭🤗This is truly a role reversal for me. Being in a position to defend other people, this is truly touching to be on the receiving end and is humbling to the core.

Lastly, I am a highly opinionated nut who likes to write when something bothers me or touches me deeply. This is more to get clarity of my own thoughts but also to unburden myself, the paper bears the brunt of my soul😃So you might have to bear with me from time to time😃

BTW, I had my first serving of dairy for the day !👍🏼Have a great day !

Do keep writing dude ...... Loved the insights and Loved how aptly you jotted the Audacity of the character. And the anguish that you get for the glorification of such character , same was felt by me and many others .

It pains to see such people hailed and going Scott free .

Please do keep visiting the forum...... Thanks to your friend who brought you here ...

And yes enjoy Glass full of Dhoodh....

After all Dhoondh hain wonderful , pi sakte hain Roz Glassful ....😆

Can I just say something? I work with vulnerable people everyday but I still don’t associate an Ekta show to reality. To me it’s sort of common sense that dupattas don’t fly, cameras don’t zoom in and out 100 times, I know what a bad action is and what is good.

People NEED to realise this is fiction. People sitting at home use these daily soaps as a way to escape, not to think ‘oh I’m going to do this now because Bajaj did’. Doesn’t work like that, give them some credit even if they do watch the shoddiest SFX in Naagin and Makhi shows.

An ITV drama which is so far from reality should not alter your thought process on what is ethical and how you should treat people.

If that was the case people could never enjoy grey or negative characters onscreen. Let people tell white, grey & black without social media constantly trying to pull the woke card.!

The earlier topic is closed and there is no point in replying or posting addendums to it and creating another mayhem .

Closed

Thanks,
KZK 2 DT