Valid marriage - Page 4

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

This show has made quite a joke out of Hindu marriage rituals...so I don't think even debating on what's valid and what's not makes sense.

Anyways, all these things happen only in KZK land. Nothing will remain valid if tomorrow they're challenged in the court of law.

Fiction hai, fiction ki tarah enjoy karo

For once more, I m not debating on what is valid in real life. I m debating on what they had shown in the same fiction previously and what they r showing now. For that matter, it is not even a debate, it is just a question in order to understand if I have missed something

Originally posted by: IFLove

First of all, marriage shouldn't be binding u, it should be setting u free. See, how a wilful half marriage and forced full marriage makes a difference...seeing prerna in last two episodes can prove that.

Secondly, there's something called gandharva marriage where u get married to eachother secretly, nobody being a witness to it. I m not sure if it is valid in the eyes of law or not. But that exists too since the same era from when this social marriage exists. Last time too, Anupre believed in their dhaga shaadi, those who mattered to them believed in it, society believed in it eventually. Well, those who don't want to believe it, won't believe it even after u r legally married...like mohini n the likes.

Thirdly, this time, Anurag put sindhoor consciously n he believed the marriage is done. It is prerna's wish to get married in all taam jhaam because she is that fairy tale believer girl and just to make her happy, he was ready to get married with all other rituals the next day. This is not my theory, this was shown in the episode.

And it's better if we don't talk about divorce of prerna and bajaj because if we have to get into the legalities, just pulling off the wedding dhaaga can't nullify the marriage, so Anupre's divorce too was pending when bajaj got married to prerna which again makes bajaj's marriage invalid too. Like how just putting dhaaga and sindhoor doesn't make people married, pulling off the dhaaga and wiping off the sindhoor too shouldn't make them divorced.

Both attempts of Anupre's social marriage were just like the renewal of vows...just done for prerna's happiness because she loves rituals wali shaadi. Like how ur remarriage doesn't nullify Ur original marriage, rituals wali shaadi doesn't nullify ur dhaaga or sindhoor Shaadi too.

And if u still want to tell me about law and society, I have clearly mentioned in the first line of my post itself that I m not going into how marriages work in real life, it is all based on what they r showing us in the episodes. Because one thing I m sure every viewer of kzk agrees upon is kzk is way too far from reality.

Bold - What?

I don't follow different types of Vivahs, I know only one which is governed by our law and constitution, otherwise you'd find me hiding under a box with 50 locks to get away from men dubious enough to fill hairlines during Sindoor Khela or Holi.

If we go by the show then they specifically stated that Anurag and Prerna's marriage ended with Anurag breaking that dhaga, they didn't say the same for Cookie breaking the mangalsutra, it was insinuated and their marriage ended, not because Cookie broke they had divorced papers to end Bajaj and Prerna's marriage meaning they had proper marriage certificate which is possible only if Prerna's marriage with Anurag wasn't registered or legal.

They did not say that Anurag and Prerna are married because he put sindoor in her head, in fact Komolika has been claiming to be Anurag's wife, which unlike Prerna, she can prove in the court because her marriage was a social one

Originally posted by: TakingAStand2

Hmm... did they show AnuKomo divorce? Otherwise she does have enough legal ground to stand on and say she is *still* the wife, cuz they got married in front of society, and they took the pheras which is most significant for Hindu marriage...? It seems that’s the angle they are going for.

Historically, people ofc got married without any legal repercussions, but that was dependent on society or family, or at least two or more people who can corroborate a that said people got married. By that logic AnuPre first marriage would be null?
it’s a toss up really, specially P herself asked for a full wedding with all rasams... hinting at CVS changed stance of what constitutes a marriage 😂😂😂

Well, according to the Bengali members here, sindhoor daan is the most important ritual in Bengali wedding, without which no marriage is complete. And komo never got sindhoor from Anu...neither in her wedding, nor after that. And Anupre's wedding too had a witness, the pandit ji of the temple. So Anupre's marriage was not null too. Rahi baat rituals wale Shaadi ki, it has always been dream of pre who is a girl who believed in romantic novels. Only for her happiness, Anu agrees to get married with all rituals... nothing else.

Cvs changed stance of anything...let's not discuss that...wo toh overnight change hote rehta hai😂

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

How does that matter

Future is evident one will claim I am your wife other will claim wife plus would be mother

Husband are main Hoon kaun 🤣

Welcome to gol gol circus

Thanks to ekta and star plus and ksg I am out of it ❤️

Keep enjoying 🤗

Same was the case when Prerna was married to bajaj. Anu claimed to be soulmate, bajaj claimed to be room mate, prerna was like main hoon kaun!!

Well, u seemed to be here only for ksg, he left, good for u too. We, who r here for the show as a whole, will enjoy what matters to us.

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

Lolworthy.. thats quite obvious unless ppl want to be delusional..

just imagine if Men would walk around on the street and filing women’s hairline.. that means marriage done?

See they never showed RB and PRB signing any papers, but they were legally married.. and the same apply for AB and Komolika Chaubey Basu..

Ppl who consider AP married based on exchanging dhaaga and flying sindur should go back and watch the epi where pandit did say their wedding was incomplete, thats why they were facing problem.. Thus AB wiped Pre’s sindur and broke the dhaaga with the intentions of ending this incomplete marriage.. unlike when kukki unintentionally broke the mangulsutra..

How convenient was that? One pandit said it was once in a year muhurat and the wedding was valid n all because makers were unsure about establishing marriage with komo. The other pandit says its incomplete because marriage with bajaj needs to be established. It's upon us whom we want to believe and none of it is a delusion. And moreover, calling someone who's views don't match with yours as delusional is even more delusional I would say.

I don't expect you to support every act of Anupre blindly and u r entitled to your views, but I have read quite a few comments of yours and just out of curiosity, I want to ask you, why is there Anupre in Ur username yet? Only if u wish to answer...

Originally posted by: IFLove

How convenient was that? One pandit said it was once in a year muhurat and the wedding was valid n all because makers were unsure about establishing marriage with komo. The other pandit says its incomplete because marriage with bajaj needs to be established. It's upon us whom we want to believe and none of it is a delusion. And moreover, calling someone who's views don't match with yours as delusional is even more delusional I would say.

I don't expect you to support every act of Anupre blindly and u r entitled to your views, but I have read quite a few comments of yours and just out of curiosity, I want to ask you, why is there Anupre in Ur username yet? Only if u wish to answer...

Yes pleeeej answer this important question ??🤣

Originally posted by: IFLove

Well, according to the Bengali members here, sindhoor daan is the most important ritual in Bengali wedding, without which no marriage is complete. And komo never got sindhoor from Anu...neither in her wedding, nor after that. And Anupre's wedding too had a witness, the pandit ji of the temple. So Anupre's marriage was not null too. Rahi baat rituals wale Shaadi ki, it has always been dream of pre who is a girl who believed in romantic novels. Only for her happiness, Anu agrees to get married with all rituals... nothing else.

Cvs changed stance of anything...let's not discuss that...wo toh overnight change hote rehta hai😂

Ooh! I didn’t know that re Bengali wedding. But, I’m thinking the pandit who declared them we’d can’t be the only eye witnes? There has to be another person?m, because there is strength in numbers.

But if you think about it, the first wedding of AnuPre is null, cuz Anu did free her. Then even this sindoor marriage will be declared null since a) no one saw it ie no eye witness b) a full society marriage will triumph a secret shaadi.

Given this if Komo were to contest her rights as Anu’s wife, then she may be viewed favourably by law and by Basus themselves since Mohini has an hidden agenda against Pre.

Even in the lines of the Gandhava marriage you spoke of before ( which Indian courts have flip flopped over) I think AnuPre wedding doesn’t stand a chance, unless you align with the modern interpretation of it symboling a ‘live in relationship’. People may not view Anu favorably if he chooses P and Gandhava marriage over a MORE legal one.

OFC, I’m basing this on the track that’s happening... who knows if CVS will change the parameters again and say, haha suckers gotcha again

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I don't think people here understand the basic concept of marriage 🤔 it's just something entirely different.

If I go in KZK world, then Anurag himself broke the dhaga and wiped Prerna's sindoor, he did this to end his marriage, his marriage was not registered so they can't get divorced in court.

Cookie is a child who broke the mangalsutra that but marriage is more than sindoor and mangalsutra, Bajaj married Prerna in front of the society and they did every ritual, there was no intention from him to end the marriage when Cookie broke it, when there was an intention to end the marriage, he got divorce papers ready because his marriage was a registered one

I have nowhere said that breaking off the dhaaga didn't not mean divorce. I have very much written the status of Anupre as single after breaking the dhaaga. If we were to reject that divorce by way of pulling off the dhaaga, we would have flooded the forum too with ema posts. Because if that was the case, we would never validate Pre-Bajaj marriage. When we compare kuki's mistake and Anu's intentional dhaaga breaking, it is obviously fun which is not understood by the people who understand concepts of marriage. We take Anu breaking the dhaaga as a fact and kuki breaking the mangalsutra as foreshadowing of future happenings. Hope the difference is understandable.

And making a deal for selfish motives, catching the vulnerability of weaker person, emotionally blackmailing them into a marriage, doing all the rituals in front of society containing maybe a few relatives or 3-4 staff of yours and a panditji and maybe signing the marriage certificate makes it a marriage, we r better off not understanding the concept of marriage and being happy with just a commitment given by soul and will and blessings by almighty.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Bold - What?

I don't follow different types of Vivahs, I know only one which is governed by our law and constitution, otherwise you'd find me hiding under a box with 50 locks to get away from men dubious enough to fill hairlines during Sindoor Khela or Holi.

If we go by the show then they specifically stated that Anurag and Prerna's marriage ended with Anurag breaking that dhaga, they didn't say the same for Cookie breaking the mangalsutra, it was insinuated and their marriage ended, not because Cookie broke they had divorced papers to end Bajaj and Prerna's marriage meaning they had proper marriage certificate which is possible only if Prerna's marriage with Anurag wasn't registered or legal.

They did not say that Anurag and Prerna are married because he put sindoor in her head, in fact Komolika has been claiming to be Anurag's wife, which unlike Prerna, she can prove in the court because her marriage was a social one

I hope there's a difference in any random guy throwing sindhoor at u during Holi or sindhoor khela and Ur loved one to whom u r completely intending to get married to putting the sindhoor in ur hairline.

About kuki, idk where this is coming from. Have I written in my sequence that kuki broke mangalsutra, hence bajaj prerna divorced, prerna back to being single? Have I written Anu broke the dhaaga, still Anu pre status married? No. Then why this explanation?

And for once I will accept Ur claim that they r not married because he put sindhoor yesterday. But that has nothing to do with komo unless she again gets married to Anu before Anupre "socially get married" for ur satisfaction. Anukomo marriage was void-ab-initio and current status of Anupre doesn't change that. Neither her marriage was complete because it was done as per Bengali rituals and sindhoor was not applied, nor was it valid because Anupre were married by gandharva style, neither was it accepted by law in the police station, nor any society will testify in favour now because by the time she left, everybody had accepted Anupre marriage and knew what a criminal lady she is, so not even out of love anyone will give fake testimony in her favour, now.

Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

Yes pleeeej answer this important question ??🤣

You really wanna know!