What you will do if you were in Prerna shoes? - Page 4

better leave Anurag

If i was in prerna place.....i would have not let anurag touch me and clearly told him in a rough tone that yes there was a time i loved you but the time is gone.....now i am somebody's wife and you need to respect that. If my marriage holds no meaning for you.....it doesnt matter because it holds a meaning for me. And as its my life.....decisions will be mine only. I dont now see you as my soulmate....the most i can look at you is as a friend. If you wish to continue as a friend, thats great.....but if you still continue searching a soulmate in me.....i would break all my ties with you instead.

Probably Educated myself.

Left Anurag coz he is behaving like an obsessive lover. Would have Told Bajaj to hire a nanny for his daughter. Yes would have played with her every now and then coz she is cute.

Made a name for myself and then come back to gloat infront of Mrs. Basu. I'm telling ya all, The woman is a real gold digger of the serial.

PS - would have stopped Shivi from saying Anurag jiju Anurag jiju, coz of headache and because my world does NOT revolve around him.

Nice Question!

Well first of all Mr. Bajan gave her a choice, She wasn't forced! It was her choice to her marry her child's father or Mr. Bajaj and she made her decision. After marriage telling your husband that I love my ex- boyfriend is point black cheating and unfaithfulness. It's not like Mr. Bajaj is cruel or something. He gave her space, never touched her, she is wanting nothing for. He is even ready to accept her child.

Is this even logical to blame everything on Mr. Bajaj? If Anurag is arrested, it's Mr Bajaj's fault! If he had an accident, it's Mr. Bajaj's fault! I mean for God's sake open your god damn eyes!

Marriage means being truthful and faithful in your relationship, not cheating on your husband and running back to your ex- lover every moment!

You have a Husband who respect you, take care of you and foremost TRUSTS you which Anurag never did! He is handsome, rich, a good father and a Husband! So instead of being a cheating woman be a respectable woman!

Frankly speaking Prerna needs Counseling to get her confusion sorted out!

Originally posted by: SheAish

@bold: based on your post, i'm assuming you wanted to say Can and not can't????

Coming to your post I love when fan girls can still call a spade a spade, so thank you for that and very impressed with your post.

I don't care who you find interesting in a show, but I find it disturbing when black deeds committed by their fav are still justified using x, y, z traits of others that have little to no relevance and is no where in league of such deeds and have done nothing to them but comes out of nowhere and deliberately disrupts others lives giving no regard to their rights and emotions and show such lack of basic human decency towards others who are outside your family circle.

@bold That's what I am against. And yes I wrote can. 😃

We keep forgetting this is a story and a character and an actor are two different things. I've seen posts so much in favour of Bajaj I mean, think for a second you are in place of Prerna, who would you choose ? I know Anurag is obsessed but he do love her whereas Bajaj is not in love with her at all..it's plain attraction turning into strong obsession. Unlike Basu, Bajaj knows her misery and why she is where she is and that she is hurting, he knows everything yet he chose to make her be with him. So even though Prerna is the chief reason for all that she's going through but Bajaj is equally responsible and he doesn't deserve her.

It is easy to be play victim and that is what she is doing. No one is responsible for Prerna's misery, but Prerna herself. She made a choice to sacrifice herself for Anurag. she choose to hide her pregnancy from him.... She found out about it way before bajaj entered their lives. Her actions are on her and not anyone else's fault.

If i were in her shoes I would have announced the pregnancy to Anurag the first chance in got. Not because he deserves to know, but to secure the relationship. At the time mohini was not a big fan of Prerna, she separated Anu from her once, she could have done it again.....so I would have played smart and secured my position in basu household the first chance I got. But what can anyone do, this Prerna loves to play victim and give lectures to bajaj on her mahaan love saga with Anurag......

Originally posted by: Sassysona

It is easy to be play victim and that is what she is doing. No one is responsible for Prerna's misery, but Prerna herself. She made a choice to sacrifice herself for Anurag. she choose to hide her pregnancy from him.... She found out about it way before bajaj entered their lives. Her actions are on her and not anyone else's fault.

If i were in her shoes I would have announced the pregnancy to Anurag the first chance in got. Not because he deserves to know, but to secure the relationship. At the time mohini was not a big fan of Prerna, she separated Anu from her once, she could have done it again.....so I would have played smart and secured my position in basu household the first chance I got. But what can anyone do, this Prerna loves to play victim and give lectures to bajaj on her mahaan love saga with Anurag......

Ditto! I mean grow some balls man

🤔 Let's see

As Prerna -

1 complete my education

2 Get a job

Anurag and pregnancy

1 Use contraceptives

2 If pregnant then think if I can keep a child or not, especially when father of this child married someone else, even if Anurag didn't marry Komolika, isn't there a question of someone in her 20s being ready to take on responsibility of a mother? I would have aborted if I was Prerna.

3 If I decided to keep the child, it would be my first priority and I will work towards giving him a good life.

In Bajaj's case

I would not look at an Anurag, if there was a Bajaj in my life

If I were Prerna, I would get myself treated... I will see a therapist and share all my problems.. Once that’s done and I will do what I always do, follow my heart...

But here part of my heart wants to be with the man I love while the other part wants to fulfil my deal.. So when the heart is confused, always let your conscience be your guide..

The deal is done.. I would move out of BB asap with my family, finish my education and get involve in the family business or find another job.. Inform Anurag about the baby and let him know that he will right on him and as from now on, Anurag will just be the father of my child but no right on me, so stay 1 foot away from me and touching/manhandling is not allowed.. I will not encourage nor give him any hope that I will ever come back to him.. oh and I will give my child, my name and not his father’s name.. If I didnt fight for it, he would have still been married to his first wife till now.. I would never forget about the humiliations including the nights I spent in Jail.

The deal was; for his life, I had to give up on him... If I am someone of principles, then I have to stick to my words..

The plus point here, my dealer treats me with respect, he understand me and we are now friends and not just brokers.. He never gave me any reason for me to walk of this deal and he always respected and abide by all the conditions..

This is from an Ex AnuPre fan who is now simply a Solo Prerna stan!

Originally posted by: sneha_17

I saw lot of discussion and support for Prerna.

Most of them called the ones who don’t support as hypocrites.

Prerna is human, she just had a weak moment.

She should break the marriage and live in Anurag her soulmate.

Let’s talk only after getting married and becoming mother of Kuki.

What you will do if you are Prerna?

One thing for sure that never got married with Mr. Bajaj and hiding everything from Anu. Specially that she is pregnant with his child when she got enough chances to tell him the truth.