Originally posted by: SnehaDoll
I agree every character has flaws. But Anurag Basu is a big NO for me. I loved Anurag, but his actions are very disturbing and prerna's relationship with him is toxic. This is obviously my POV and not asking you to agree.
Regarding Bajaj, the way this marraige happened, again is a big No . I am okay with marrying a person you don't love and eventually falling for him (Hum Dil de chuke Sanam type stories). So I wouldn't mind if she falls for him, had she married him under parental pressure or something. But this whole deal/ blackmail is selfish on part of Bajaj who wanted a mother for his daughter but never thought about Pre's unborn child. Didn't that child too deserve a father?
So, For me Anu-Pre is strict No. I still have soft corner for Anurag but I don't want him anywhere near Prerna. Cannot take that stalking, manhandling and slap, in the name of love. Period.
But Sneha....Don't you think it would have been better blaming Anurag, if Pre had decided to not return to BB, when Anu had humiliated her publicly though in the pretext of moving on. He too would have moved on believing that is his destiny. And i too would have accepted and respected Pre if she had moved on gracefully leading a single mother's life. But instead she came back to BB (for whatever reason it may be, sorted out things and gave him hope till the last moment and ditched him (that again for whatever reason it maybe). And made him into a zindaa lassh, just making it look true of what Mohini had predicted much much before - that Pre is going to be the reason of his barbaadi. And now for the Basus (except Anu) who don't know the reason of betratal, even if they feel that Pre has done whatever she said in Komo track (though maybe unintentionally) that she came to take revenge on Anu, i will not blame them. And I as a woman cannot accept Pre to be blamed like that, because though what she did is foolishness, the girl had only good intentions. So, I would want her sacrifice truth come out, whether it be through Anu's efforts or Pre's efforts, I don't care. I want my Pre to come out clean and neat. After that, let her take her own decision on whom to choose. But, if it's Bajaj, i may not continue watching. Because, for me Anu is still that boy who never wanted to be a part of the thorn-bird story became ready to be a thorn bid himself and was ready to live that life. It is Prerna who gave him hopes and turned him into this revengeful person. When she promised Mohini to bring back Anu from prison, it is the old soft & innocent Anu whom Mohini was expecting. Not this revengeful Anu. So, Pre has the responsibility to return that Anu to his Mom. I believe in woman empowerment; but not at the cost of spoiling the life of a man. If Anu himself decides to back off from all these without even Pre giving him a reason, I will be more happy. Because that will just increase my respect for him. And i will be happy that atleast one of my favorite character got redeemed. For Pre to get redeemed, she should first start thinking of her baby too, along with Sneha. Caring only for Sneha will only make me distance from her more.