The obsession & toxicity of love!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Excellent post👏 Nothing more to add!

There is no doubt that Anurag and Prerna's love for each other is true,but their trust issues and lack of communication is the biggest reason this couple won't survive in the long run . We all know Anurag and Prerna are going to get married somewhere this year end, but that marraige won't survive because these 2 do not communicate!

I am not even going to comment on that slap. It was pathetic !

The slap was a highlight on Anu's part as this highlighted how this man was incapable of taking his own failures with dignity & how passively he processed Prerna's self-degrading rant. Anurag has always been impulsive but it was subtle & easily ignored. Today, it all came out in open undone. That highlighted Anu's flaws behind the perfect gentleman charade. The obsession, lack of communication is another proof of a toxic, unhealthy definition of love these two hold in their minds & this very definition will destroy them.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

well analyzed and you have said it all⭐️ !

- Love doesn't guarantee trust and understanding , I think the entire set up of Anurag Prerna Bajaj will show a classic case of young boy in love alone vs a man with who adds other dimensions like trust, friendship, understanding, respect, maturity and stability . Prerna will witness both sides ...

love alone cannot stand against the winds and tides.... but a young boy's love is all about love
this is how Anurag is portrayed .. that he loves .. dil se but then cannot see the pain in her beloved's eyes , while a 3rd person , Anupam could see it ...love makes one irrational

love cannot be the base of a pyramid .. imagine a pyramid (A) with love as base...add understanding , trust. friendship , respect above it ... and another pyramid (B) with understanding/trust as base add friendship/respect/love above it ... the love sustains the storms because it has a strong base ...when you understand a person or trust a person .. the entire pyramid will be strong ... while the pyramid A .. everything is based on that one brick of love with no trust/friendship/understanding ... it's a shaky base and everything will be tossed ... I will call .. pyramid A - Anurag Prerna's ... which started off as love and they tried to add other things but then the base was shaky ...proven twice .. and pyramid B is for Bajaj n Prerna.. there is no love, their relation will start with understanding .. friendship trust and love at the top .... it will sustain any storm .


Anurag's failure to see Prerna's lies or her pain is because of the pyramid A .. and I have nothing more to add about Anurag as that love for me without a strong base is like a pack of cards...

- Prerna .. I infact liked the way she lied to him, I repeat again .. Prerna is crazy .. she is mad (as in junoon) in a way .. ..she has this junoon type , kar guzarne ki zid and inner strength ...alongside being very immature, impulsive and hyper ... she had the strength to lie to him, she is crazy that way .. and also that smile after slap was like ok this is working .. she was proud of her self that her antics are resulting in her favor... and Anurag is hating her ... hadh se guzarne ki zid .. she could have broken down and confessed why she got married but she held on ...and lied and lied and lied ...but the lover couldn't see through it and pal bhar mein pyar nafrat mein badal gaya ..

but this immature, impulsive side of hers will be countered and balanced by Bajaj's calm demeanor and stability ... and then there's no looking back !

Perfectly said. This track has potential only if they deal well with it but it will come at a cost of challenging the old prejudices which is hard to do. And I don't trust the writers at all. They have a thing to make a mess of everything.

This kind of obsessive love, love where you are competely blind to even rationalize your thoughts to see another side. It can only be calmed by stability just like ocean waves hitting a rock & falling down to merge back into the sea. Impulsive wave crashing with other impulsive wave will only lead to Tsunami that causes chaos everywhere.

Obsessive love made him slap prerna, such good justification! Yet people don’t even try to justify prerna when they bash her for the smallest things! There is never ever a justification for mr Bajaj either! But AWNU ko sab maaf!

I feel its becz always anurag took decision till now.. Prerna was just following orders..

@arshi great post as usual. 👏 their love is toxic ..this is just an action replay of komo track . Pre also couldnt see through anurags actions an ld she cursed him ..even he should have just come out with the truth..like pre..on the top of it he wants to get bk to th4 same girl . So whats new about that too? That time it was said pre lacks self respect ? What will anurag be called now ? It all happened with him, that doesnt mean he will automatically guess that pre also did the same .specially when there isnt any apparent reason... Yes there is no faith or trust between them . Pre also doesnt trust anurag , she feels bajaj will again ruin anurag n anurag wont be able to take it ..that bajaj can still harm anurag . I wish these two never come together again as there was no love story in the first place ... first there shd be respect for each other then love ..even thats missing

Again another post to insult prerna equally! Not a single post to condemn awnu’s disgusting act?

Originally posted by: Zaalima_5

I feel its becz always anurag took decision till now.. Prerna was just following orders..

One thing that was ignored about Anurag till now came to fore today. He is impulsive to the extent of not thinking before what he does. He doesn't think rationally either & how easy it is to frustrate him. Till now he had lashed on everyone to hide his own incompetence & today crossed the threshold on his own accord.

so the slapping is about being impulsive? i learn new things every day

Originally posted by: _charu_

@arshi great post as usual. 👏 their love is toxic ..this is just an action replay of komo track . Pre also couldnt see through anurags actions an ld she cursed him ..even he should have just come out with the truth..like pre..on the top of it he wants to get bk to th4 same girl . So whats new about that too? That time it was said pre lacks self respect ? What will anurag be called now ? It all happened with him, that doesnt mean he will automatically guess that pre also did the same .specially when there isnt any apparent reason... Yes there is no faith or trust between them . Pre also doesnt trust anurag , she feels bajaj will again ruin anurag n anurag wont be able to take it ..that bajaj can still harm anurag . I wish these two never come together again as there was no love story in the first place ... first there shd be respect for each other then love ..even thats missing

When Anu did it with Komo, Prerna didn't have this definition of sacrificial kind of love. Here Anu has gone through the literal phase & still he is failing to think of the pattern. Anu-Komo didn't happen months ago, it happened recently. That's why Anu & Prerna situation can't be compared. What Pre is doing is a lesson she learnt from Anu himself since she has said repeatedly in past few episodes that Anu did it for me & now it's my turn to do it for him. The slap will resonate with Anu for a really long time now.

The basics of love is communication that leads to trust & then faith. Here the fundamental has always missed.

A man slapping a woman cannot be justified!