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Posted: 6 years ago
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I look on Prerna the other way round .

Just think how annoyed and irritated you may get even when you meet or see somebody unwanted.
Here Prerna is getting married to such man , and even then she could make her mother laugh , she could eat pan on roadside , she could get wet in the rain. She hasn't stopped smiling . She could give a knock to her sister and crack a joke as well.
She is never dull , except around Naveen , and that is acceptable.
She knows what she is doing.
She is not the one to be pitied upon. She knows when to save herself , and when to refuse . She takes stand against Mohini , either it is to keep the dishes on her own or to refuse a sari.

Prerna is strong because she knows what she does. She doesn't cry rather she is almost joyful , her blabbering is an evidence .
What do you guys think??

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I love this so much. I never thought of it this way but I have such a soft spot for Prerna and I truly agree with this. If I was getting married to someone like Naveen, it would really gnaw at me and I wouldn't be happy even just for show. But Prerna actually is happy because she truly believes that when her family is good and happy then that is enough for her. I've said it before, but her identity is really tied to her family so all she needs is them in good health and content to be the same.
And I love that she's so joyful and she takes that with her to almost everyone she encounters. Like you said, she makes jokes, makes people life, is teaching Anurag how to live his life fully, is dancing and singing in the rain. I really like her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I too like her...no girl can take such a huge decision of sacrificing self for her family.
She is definitely strong n will get stronger as story progresses
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Posted: 6 years ago
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From Prerna's POV:
There is a problem regarding her family coming to the streets.. And possibility of losing everything valued by her family - self-respect, pride and dignity.. In worst case she may even lose one of her parents in bringing the problem to their notice..
And if she hadn't had any options then she would've at least thought about what to do.. Mohini gave a solution to her problem in a silver platter.. i.e. Marriage with Navvu.. And the way she has taken this extreme step, it appeared to Prerna that Mohini can go to any other extreme too, to trouble the Sharmas for not giving what she wanted.. To avoid all that Prerna has the simple solution in her hand without bringing any more hassle.. For Prerna it didn't bother much getting married to an elderly man.. All she has to do let go of personal wishes and dreams.. That's the simple sacrifice from her end as a token of her love for family. Of course many marriages happen just for the sake of it.. Kinda settling down as a duty and to continue the generation.. That's all.. And here it came as a marriage proposal from Mohini for her own brother.. A man who thinks that the girl is beautiful and want to marry her. That's all to it.. And if Prerna agrees to it, that's all.. Everything made simple.. Her family will be safe from any more problems.. If they get to know the problem, then even this simple solution will be lost from her hands.. From her POV, keeping her family's respect protected and having them safe and secure is more important than anything else..

And if her parents get to know the problem, they definitely will not be able to accept Prerna's solution.. From their POV, keeping their daughter's happiness and wishes will be important for them.. That's what her parents are and will be when they get to know.. But that's their duty and love when it's their turn to express..
Rught now it's time and focus on Prerna's duty and love 😉

And yeah, as you mentioned she's just accepted her own decision and willing to face it head on with whatever courage she has in her.. She's still living her life in her small moments.. This is how she would be living it, even if she is married to any X or Y or Z.. When it's a marriage of convenience, there's nothing to bother whether it is Navvu an elderly man Mr. X a handsome young man.. But when it's gonna be out of love i.e. Prerna's kinda love then everything will be different and all will be dreamy again for her.. And nothing like that happened to her yet.. Till then it's just another regular event.. She's just taking it as it comes.. 😃
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Really appreciate your POV 👏
I would've considered weak, given that she wouldn't have made attempts to get out of it. But she is, right from that 5 lac thing.

Besides the story thrives on her weakness, so can't blame her really
But I don't dislike her.

She's good and capable and moreover as you said, brave and courageous.

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