Debate Contest, Topic #2!! Closed! =) - Page 7

Originally posted by: madiha_17

AND yeah I have another point related to meneka, meneka really loved rishab, But rishab bajaj was just soo stubborn that i remember he insulted her by saying THAT HE HAS ONLY LOVED one woman inhis life which is prerna, though he was married to meneka that time!

what was the need to betray meneka love just for for prerna who was in love with anurag, he made DOUBLE mistakes that time, not only ruined the happily married couple but also meneka trust, what a bad husband 🤢

Originally posted by: madiha_17

Yes I m saying tushar ko poora haq banta hai that he starts that project as he gave the idea first and lateron prem came! Dekhtey hain whom bajaj supports!

If u talk about current kzk na, everything will be prooved now! 😡

I promised myself I wouldn't post here, but I just have to make one point.

You've said that Bajaj should choose Tushar over Prem in this hotel project. If Bajaj chooses Prem, it would be unfair - thus indicating that Bajaj is not a good father, right? But I bet that if Bajaj chooses Tushar, not only would Anaita say to Anu/Prem but also you will say that Bajaj chose Tushar because he doesn't consider Prem as his real son. Am I right in saying that this will be the reaction on the forum if Bajaj chooses Tushar? So, heads he loses, tails he loses - and whatever the result, you people will declare him an unfit father.

Secondly, someone mentioned that Bajaj rejected Meneka because he was madly in love with Prerna. Firstly, Meneka had deserted her children and husband when they needed her - she had deserted her young, BLIND daughter Kuki because she wanted to become a businesswoman. If she suddenly comes back after however many years and tries to jatao her haq - should Bajaj have forgiven her for deserting them? Kinda reminds me of someone else.

And the final thing - isn't Anurag in essence doing the same thing as Bajaj did? He married Komo out of majboori and she was evil, so let's rule her out right now. Even Aparna can be ruled out. But who forced him to marry Sam? And that too when he has mentioned time and again that THE ONLY WOMAN HE EVER LOVED was Prerna. He too has rejected his wife on countless ocassions. So, when Anurag loves Prerna more than any other woman in his life - you applaud and call it "eternal love"; but when Bajaj does the same - that too to a woman who was an unfit mother and wife - he is being cheap?

Something smells of blatant hypocrisy...

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

ok maddy, 😳
u said that Rish gave more importance to Sneha and Prem than his own kids, come onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, even though TUshar said that, he knows that his father loves them all equally. A father just shows his love more to his younger children, shows more concern for them because he thinks they r more vulnerable.

As far as Anu and his wives r concerned, he could have changed them, just like RIsh changed Prerna's opinion of him but nooooo...he can't!! 😆😆 not capable enough!!

no no, bajaj doesn't love the kids equally, that's a fact! how could anurag have changed his wives, if theyw ere hell bent on distrying hima dn taking advantage of him????? he's capable enough to deal with such women, no wonder aparna/komo got punished for what they did😆

Originally posted by: ruchi shah

if u remember sam also misunderstood anu...... n also gv so much of bhashan of him regardin his n p's relationship....... n anu in no way is a good husband.... as he always gves more importance to his so called dost prerna then his wife sam.... n the best example for it is when apo*na shoots on prerna anu cmes in between widout even thinkin abt sam..... see his selfishness... he doesnt think of her wife's happiness first but always thinks of her dost's happiness..... this is a sign of a real selfish husband... 😡

yeah sam misunderstood things and she fianll yrealaised that she was wrong, because aP are just great dosts now!! and this bajaj, still fails to realise that!! even when prerna wanted to go to anurag in O_S case, he said to her: "Prerna tum kya jaaogi, tum to khush dosto aur......etc etc"!! so this man fails to believe that the rishat between AP is just a gehra dosti!

fits of all, saving soemone of being killed, is already a sign of an unselfish man. and anurag has always been the kinda person who first thinks of others' khushiyaan and then his own! so by saving prerna he wanted prerna-bajaj etc life to be happy. imagine, a man who is such a great and caring dost, can never be a selfish husband at all!! and even sam had said this!!👏

Originally posted by: psawyer

I promised myself I wouldn't post here, but I just have to make one point.

You've said that Bajaj should choose Tushar over Prem in this hotel project. If Bajaj chooses Prem, it would be unfair - thus indicating that Bajaj is not a good father, right? But I bet that if Bajaj chooses Tushar, not only would Anaita say to Anu/Prem but also you will say that Bajaj chose Tushar because he doesn't consider Prem as his real son. Am I right in saying that this will be the reaction on the forum if Bajaj chooses Tushar? So, heads he loses, tails he loses - and whatever the result, you people will declare him an unfit father.

Secondly, someone mentioned that Bajaj rejected Meneka because he was madly in love with Prerna. Firstly, Meneka had deserted her children and husband when they needed her - she had deserted her young, BLIND daughter Kuki because she wanted to become a businesswoman. If she suddenly comes back after however many years and tries to jatao her haq - should Bajaj have forgiven her for deserting them? Kinda reminds me of someone else.

but vasu, you are in the debate nah? why wouldn't you post here anymore then?? come on yaar, it's just a debate contest. so i'm glad u came to make ur point.

and Vasu, you can't compare menaka with that someone else( and i'm sure u meant Anurag nah?) Anurag's reasons for leaving prerna, were not the same as menaka's reasons to leave bajaj family

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

Maddy by saying that u just insulted womanhood!! 🤢
U did!!
U think that men are higher than women. So if Anu wants to throw his preggy wife out he can, that u consider as PRINCIPLES! EWWWWWWWWWWWW what's wrong with u.

U just called Rish a bhikari, but Anurag is the true bhikari, he lost his love and now like a bhikari he comes to Rish's house to get some importance. Now that's a true bhikari. I think RIsh should just give Anurag a servant quarter outside his house 😡

Rish loves his wife, he knows he can't live without her. Why do drama of acting all solid like Anurag then cry for them for 30 years.

Maddy by saying what u did, u just insulted womanhood, didn't expect this from u!! 🤢

girls girls, just stop it!! what's wrong with yah! this was supposed to be a clean debate, without bashing, attacking etc don't forget the rules nah!!

if this keeps happening, even i'm not in the mood to take part in this debate!!🤢 and we can stop right now!

what's the use of such debate, if we all start fighting????????????????????????? i'm very very disappointed!!!!!!!😭😭😭

Originally posted by: psawyer

I promised myself I wouldn't post here, but I just have to make one point.

You've said that Bajaj should choose Tushar over Prem in this hotel project. If Bajaj chooses Prem, it would be unfair - thus indicating that Bajaj is not a good father, right? But I bet that if Bajaj chooses Tushar, not only would Anaita say to Anu/Prem but also you will say that Bajaj chose Tushar because he doesn't consider Prem as his real son. Am I right in saying that this will be the reaction on the forum if Bajaj chooses Tushar? So, heads he loses, tails he loses - and whatever the result, you people will declare him an unfit father. Yes I will say but not this thing about prem about tushar that bajaj doesnot think tushar his real son! Vasu tushki doesnt have any mistake, till bajaj didnt knew that prem too deciding to work on this project, he agreedw ith tushki that he should start work on it and he even agreed on tushar term that he will everything by himself. knowing tushar confident, he gave him the opportunity! so the next moment he comes to know prem too working on it. lets see what he do, he has no right to change his decision, this will definitely proove him an unfair on tushar part!

Secondly, someone mentioned that Bajaj rejected Meneka because he was madly in love with Prerna. Firstly, Meneka had deserted her children and husband when they needed her - she had deserted her young, BLIND daughter Kuki because she wanted to become a businesswoman. If she suddenly comes back after however many years and tries to jatao her haq - should Bajaj have forgiven her for deserting them? Kinda reminds me of someone else. Atleast she cameback after her problems! and she really wanted to convince bajaj that she wants to lead a happy life, why bajaj didnt give her a chance, aisey toh chance us ney prerna ko bahut diye hongey!

And the final thing - isn't Anurag in essence doing the same thing as Bajaj did? He married Komo out of majboori and she was evil, so let's rule her out right now. Even Aparna can be ruled out. But who forced him to marry Sam? And that too when he has mentioned time and again that THE ONLY WOMAN HE EVER LOVED was Prerna. He too has rejected his wife on countless ocassions. So, when Anurag loves Prerna more than any other woman in his life - you applaud and call it "eternal love"; but when Bajaj does the same - that too to a woman who was an unfit mother and wife - he is being cheap?

Yes I remember anurag has told sam like that, and he meant that, as his first love is prerna! but did he ever said sam like that k now u have no place in my heart as I love prerna only, this is the fact and it will remain unchange that yeah anurag loves prerna alot, but he also tried to lead a better life with sam and now As a husband, he loves his wife alot., AP r friends now. and Sam is happy with her husband as she knew how much anu loves her. Forget sam anu case, but in my point of view, just coz his love for prerna, he never betrayed sam trust!! they r really happy these days.

And for bajaj, he said meneka that he will get prerna in her life as he just doesnot love her.. it was his zid and yeah he brought prerna back in her life, though prerna was just dedicated to anu. but shessh he didnt only betrayed meneka trust but also ruined AP beautiful love story!

Something smells of blatant hypocrisy...

Originally posted by: madiha_17

Oh plz we r the sipahi, gracella no soft feelings for nayone 😆 😆 😆

😆😆haan maddy, we are all sipahi's, but i think we should take part according to the rules. no bashing/attacking! when i read some comments, i felt really bad and i thought why are we fighting. But okay you're also right! i can't step back like that! Being a sipahi, means to defend no matter what!! i'm in again!!!! let's hope it gets better now😉😆😆

Originally posted by: madiha_17