Debate Contest, Topic #2!! Closed! =)

hi friends..

We really enjoyed the first topic of the debate.. here is the next one!

here is the link to our first topic: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=541322&K W=Debate+contest

These are our judges:

1) Julu di

2)Sunny

3)Amna malik

4)Me

we have our teams..

Anu ke sipahi Bajaj ke sipahi

1) Shreeshania 1) Manasi_16

2) Madiha_17 2) Psawyer

3)Jennymanoj 3) Garv_kumud 4eva

4)Gracella 4) Ruchi_shah

here are the siggies for u to use..

anu:

bajaj:

Topic: all u have to debate on is who is the best father and a best husband..(according to all the situations of kzk)😳

Rules:

* No harsh language

*Debate should be clean

*No offending any participant

Note: we have 3 judges who will be evaluating the debate and will be awarding the best member and the best team at the end of the contest..

Note to the rest of the kzk members: This sticky will be only for the contestants.. plz. don't post any replies here.. you may encourage contestants in anu and bajaj's sticky.. 😊 If u post any replies.. ur post will be deleted!

I will tell the contestants when the topic ends.. and i will be posting another topic after the current topic ends.. there will be 2-3 topics total..😳

Have fun!

Love ya all

Ishu😳

Best father and Best husband!!! woww!! handsdown this award goes to Rishabh Bajaj

Now first let me focus on the best husband part:

he has been married ONLY three times, once with Meneka...more that 10 years atleast, then Prerna, both times, with a total of now 26 years 😳

No matter how many times he has been insecure (as u may use to defend Anurag) they have stood strong in their marriage.

Prerna herself has claimed that she is the luckiest wife in the whole world. 😳
and the happiness that Rish has given her, a whole lifetime will fall short to get enough of it, she needs more time with him!! 😳

very loving husband also proves to be a very loving father too...perfect example, Mr. Rishabh Bajaj

Never has he kept his kids before his wife, sure he loves his life is his wife, but he loves his kids more than his life. 😳

Prerna has also claimed that in the past few episodes, n who could be the evidence of this matter than the mother herself. She told Sneha that Mr. Bajaj always gave her whatever she wanted.

He has forgiven Prem despite all that he did to him. Rish doesn't hold any grudges against him, infact he was there for him when he needed him. Didn't question him even once, why son? why did u do this me? Never!!

Tushar: doesn't have any complaints against his father, to him his an ideal father

The rest of the kids, are not shown anymore, but still they love him n he loves them...they don't have anything that they feel their dad hasn't done for them

Tanisha, too...he loves her, but he knows that after 20 something years he can't say i m ur janam daata and i will do ur wedding, give ur shagun, make a wedding card, when she is raised by someone else.

He knows what being a father is, and he will stay in his limits, he won't go around after 20 years and say that tanisha is my daughter i, i am her janam daata u are just his DHaram daata and now u raised her and all but she is my blood and i want her to be with me. blah blah, that someone else is doing now!!
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RIsh has been doting father all his life and will continue be so.

Prerna and Rishabh despite their fights and insecurities will continue to be together forever, because they unconditionally love each other

Rish never threw his wife out of the house, but Mr. Basu threw her out at a time when she needed him the most, the time she was pregnant with his child.

Mr. Basu disowned his daughter when she needed his name, and that's when Rish came in and gave her his name, not once did he make Sneha feel like she was not Sneha Rishabh BAJAJ!!

Now my opposing team will say Anurag wanted Sneha to be happy n so he stayed away from her. That is wrong, he didn't stay away from Sneha coz he wanted her to stay happy or whatever, but because he was scared.

Mr. Basu is not a good husband compared to Rish...dude he married 4 different wives, this record itself is a good enough reason to say why he isn't a good husband.

but let's cut him some slack and say okkkkkkk komo was evil, but in that case he wasn't even a good boyfriend, he made Prerna pregnant, and didn't even stand by her...bad man!!

then he finally got married to Prerna...but didn't even keep her happy...couple of windchimes, duppattas, and all that stuff naryal paani, and done. he made her pregnant again, and didn't stand by her this time either, in fact he made a progress this time, he just threw her out of the house when she was frikin pregnant 😡 HOPELESS HE IS!!

next appu: he married her, she was all nice, and stuff, until he made her crazy!! poor appu! no wonder she is hell bent on killing him!!

next Sam: she was close enough to break her marriage with him, but again his mujhe chodd kar mat jao tape stopped her. She is hangin in there.. 👏 👏 but for how long we have no clue!! 😆

So yea...the bottom line is Rishabh Bajaj wins the title for both a better husband and the better father, handsdown!! 👏

Ok guys come on!! 😆
let's debate!!

Originally posted by: Isha789

hi friends..

We really enjoyed the first topic of the debate.. here is the next one!

here is the link to our first topic: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=541322&K W=Debate+contest

These are our judges:

1) Julu di

2)Sunny

3)Amna malik

4)Me

we have our teams..

Anu ke sipahi Bajaj ke sipahi

1) Shreeshania 1) Manasi_16

2) Madiha_17 2) Psawyer

3)Jennymanoj 3) Garv_kumud 4eva

4)Gracella 4) Ruchi_shah

here are the siggies for u to use..

anu:

bajaj:

Topic: all u have to debate on is who is the best father and a best husband..(according to all the situations of kzk)😳

Rules:

* No harsh language

*Debate should be clean

*No offending any participant

Note: we have 3 judges who will be evaluating the debate and will be awarding the best member and the best team at the end of the contest..

Note to the rest of the kzk members: This sticky will be only for the contestants.. plz. don't post any replies here.. you may encourage contestants in anu and bajaj's sticky.. 😊 If u post any replies.. ur post will be deleted!

I will tell the contestants when the topic ends.. and i will be posting another topic after the current topic ends.. there will be 2-3 topics total..😳

Have fun!

Love ya all

Ishu😳

thx Ishu!! finally we know the judges!! yeah we also enjoyed the first topic of the debate!! let's see what happens this time😉

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

Best father and Best husband!!! woww!! handsdown this award goes to Rishabh Bajaj

Now first let me focus on the best husband part:

he has been married ONLY three times, once with Meneka...more that 10 years atleast, then Prerna, both times, with a total of now 26 years 😳

No matter how many times he has been insecure (as u may use to defend Anurag) they have stood strong in their marriage.

Prerna herself has claimed that she is the luckiest wife in the whole world. 😳
and the happiness that Rish has given her, a whole lifetime will fall short to get enough of it, she needs more time with him!! 😳

very loving husband also proves to be a very loving father too...perfect example, Mr. Rishabh Bajaj

Never has he kept his kids before his wife, sure he loves, his life is his wife, but he loves his kids more than his life. 😳

Prerna has also claimed that in the past few episodes, n who could be the evidence of this matter than the mother herself. She told Sneha that Mr. Bajaj always gave her whatever she wanted.

He has forgiven Prem despite all that he did to him. Rish doesn't hold any grudges against him, infact he was there for him when he needed him. Didn't question him even once, why son? why did u do this me? Never!!

Tushar: doesn't have any complaints against his father, to him his an ideal father

The rest of the kids, are not shown anymore, but still they love him n he loves them...they don't have anything that they feel their dad hasn't done for them

Tanisha, too...he loves her, but he knows that after 20 something years he can't say i m ur janam daata and i will do ur wedding, give ur shagun, make a wedding card, when she is raised by someone else.

He knows what being a father is, and he will stay in his limits, he won't go around after 20 years and say that tanisha is my daughter i, i am her janam daata u are just his DHaram daata and now u raised her and all but she is my blood and i want her to be with me. blah blah, that someone else is doing now!!
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RIsh has been doting father all his life and will continue be so.

Prerna and Rishabh despite their fights and insecurities will continue to be together forever, because they unconditionally love each other

Rish never threw his wife out of the house, but Mr. Basu threw her out at a time when she needed him the most, the time she was pregnant with his child.

Mr. Basu disowned his daughter when she needed his name, and that's when Rish came in and gave her his name, not once did he make Sneha feel like she was not Sneha Rishabh BAJAJ!!

Now my opposing team will say Anurag wanted Sneha to be happy n so he stayed away from her. That is wrong, he didn't stay away from Sneha coz he wanted her to stay happy or whatever, but because he was scared.

Mr. Basu is not a good husband compared to Rish...dude he married 4 different wives, this record itself is a good enough reason to say why he isn't a good husband.

but let's cut him some slack and say okkkkkkk komo was evil, but in that case he wasn't even a good boyfriend, he made Prerna pregnant, and didn't even stand by her...bad man!!

then he finally got married to Prerna...but didn't even keep her happy...couple of windchimes, duppattas, and all that stuff naryal paani, and done. he made her pregnant again, and didn't stand by her this time either, in fact he made a progress this time, he just threw her out of the house when she was frikin pregnant 😡 HOPELESS HE IS!!

next appu: he married her, she was all nice, and stuff, until he made her crazy!! poor appu! no wonder she is hell bent on killing him!!

next Sam: she was close enough to break her marriage with him, but again his mujhe chodd kar mat jao tape stopped her. She is hangin in there.. 👏 👏 but for how long we have no clue!! 😆

So yea...the bottom line is Rishabh Bajaj wins the title for both a better husband and the better father, handsdown!! 👏

arrey sammie, kitna likhti ho yaar!! 😆😆😆 accha i'll comment on the bits in bold okay!

first of all, my dear, the total number of years you've been married to that person and the total number of marriages doesn't really tell you how great the husband is/was. so if you're saying that anurag married 4 times and that's why he's a bad husband, that ridiculous! we all know why he married all those times and i'll come to that in a while, because the way you've described his wives, is hilarious😆😆 and just because bajaj has been married so many years to prerna, doesn't automatically makes him the best husband! oh so many people are unhappily married for decades, but are sticking to it because they ahev no option!

okay about anurag being prerna's boyfriend and leaving prerna when she was pregnant. tell me when did they show anurag knew she was pregnant?? he married komo, because his idiotic mother, sorry to say, but can't help i hate that woman, didn't want prerna as her bahu!! and natakbaazi se, she forced him to marry that witch komo!! anurag would never left prerna, had he known she was pregnant! and if you think that making someone( unknowingly) pregnant( beacsue anurag even didin't know prerna was preg) and leaving her, makes the person a bad man, then bajaj is also a bad man. just before his marriage with prerna he slept with Madhvi and she got pregant too.....( and madhvi and he weren't even boyfiend-girlfriend!!)

finally when komo was out of the picture and AP were about to marry, bajaj forced prerna to marry him and anurag looked after Prem1 very well!! he has been a very doting and great father and still is and wil always be! 👏👏

okay, tell me was mr bajaj a good father before he met prerna and forced her to marry him, just because he wanted a motehr for his kids?? weren't tush and vishaak like hating him?? only because of prerna, they changed their attitude! it seems as if he only loved kuki at that time.

what kind of a husband was he at that time, he married prerna the first time?? remember the famous portrait of prerna??? " prerna herself had said: "ek jhakhree hui aurat", he just wanted to show- off!! prerna wasn't happy with him at all. se cried when he was dead, but when vsh and tush decided to get ap married he finally got married to Prerna.!👏! and what are you saying???? he didn't even keep her happy...couple of windchimes, duppattas, and all that stuff naryal paani, and done??? n o no no, dear, you missed those epsiodes maybe , but they were sooooooo happy and she was scared that bajaj came back to separate them!!

bajaj has been the main culprit to AP break-up, why did he take those fake ics of Prerna with him and sent them to Anurag?? any other husband would've suspected. but he had sabbot, bajaj is still suspecting Anurag-prerna relationship een after, how many years you counted gain?? oh yeah 26 years!! but mr bajaj said 30 saal nah??😆😆 and he's always been giving prerna tanaa's with anurag's name ( remember, prerna said that during Tanisha's case, because when kasak got pregnant he said, "kasak mein tumahara khoon hai, tum bhi to shaadi se pehle.......") and you still think he loevs prerna unconditionally and call him the best husband????????? unbelievable😆

okay let's come back to Tushar!! tell me if bajaj is sucha graet father, why couldn't he take doris as his bahu??? i can remember the mu dekhai scene, he just threw the money in her lap!😡 and before Tush he was constantly insulting Doris!! he was using Prem to make tushar feel as if he had done a huge crime in marrying Doris!!! what say????😕

okay and one more point, where was Bajaj,w hen prerna was in jail, why did he go away without thinking about Sneha-Tushar etc??? iF Anurag hadn't taken them into his house, they would be on the streets maybe!

my god, you are a aparna fan?? apo*na was all nice??? and anurag made her crazy???😆😆😆that's why she wanted to kill him??????😆 oh please, she was just after his money!!!

anurag has shown that he's a great father, who always thinks of his children's happiness and he's been a loving husband too!👏

oh gosh sammie, i said to you, but i've also written too much!! 😆 😆 accha, i'll come back later to debate!! 😉

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kya bhaaashan diya tunne mujhe graci!!
well u r under a big conception if u think that stickin to a marriage for 2 and a half decades is because they don't have an option...how ridiculous can u get!!

Anurag really doesn't know anything, ok first time he got Prerna pregnant, he didn't know whatever, thik hai, but second time he got her pregnant he like literally threw her out, so in a way it is a good thing that he didn't find out that she was pregnant when she was his girlfriend, who knows what the hell he would have done to her then.
rish was not a good father, with vishakha and tushki coz he didn't know anything about fatherhood then, but prerna's presence in his life changed everything. but prerna was in anurag's life from the beginining but still he was like suspecting her regarding sneha, now that's soooo sad and pathetic, hopeless man.

Sure he was gr8 father to Prem, but his ego came in the way which is why he is dead today. Rish keeps his ego aside and does stuff for Sneha, but yeh Maharaj wants his ego to be given more importance than his son, kya hota if he would have taken money from Rish? he just wanted to be all big in front of Prerna, by not accepting the money. Now for a person who let's his ego come in his way of his kid's life then he is not a good father, atleast not compared to rish.

Madhvi's relationship with him was basically a one night stand. Neither was she is his wife, nor his girlfriend. Prerna was AB's wife and his girlfriend. so don't even include Madhvi. But despite the fact that she wasn't RISH's wife or girlfriend, he accepted Tanisha to be his daughter. didn't go sayin u r not my daughter and shit when she said that he was her father.

How can Appu possibly be after a guy, who lacks personality and money...she actually loved him. If he had money he would have been able to save Prem 1, but afsos he doesn't. His Basu Publications sucks big time, and obviously Prerna was again at stake coz of his lack of business skills and she married Bajaj, the man with brains and a brave heart 😳

And yea regarding ur comment about Rish giving tannas to Prerna despite 30 years of marriage is inevitable when u have Anurag who doesn't concentrate on his life and his wife and just pokes his nose in his ex's life than his own, would get any husband suspicious. But he doesn't throw Prerna out!! 😆. So yet another point that i have to make is that he ignored his wife Sam, for Prerna, and that had led to Sam going crazy, and breaking their kamra which is their "duniya"

Yeaa...track record of how many marriages a person has had says enough of the person's capabilities of being a good husband, even ur Anurag's Anaita said to him, ur daughter is a divorcee and still her bhagg is so good that she found a guy like OMY. Anurag joined hands in front of Anaita, coz he knows that she was right.
Come on no sensible girl would wanna marry a guy who married 4 effin times!!

Yea another thing i found funny was when
Anaita came to Anurag she was like aapki ex wife aayi thi shagun lene 😆
Mr. Basu was so confused...he was like which ex wife r u talking about I HAD 3, very proudly!! 🤣 LOSER !!

oh I knew u would take those pics in here too, like the OS love thing u r gonna repeat the pics in every single post of u guys...thik hai!!

Even though he made the pics, Anurag shuld be smart enough to understand, that when nothin happened between Prerna and Rish while they were married, how the hell could anything happen now? but no...he wanted to believe this so he can marry the 3rd time!!

Rish didn't accept Tushar's wife, because she didn't have a good image of herself in front of him. but then he accepted, HE DIDN"T THROW HER OR TUSKI OUT like Anu has thrown people out of the house

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

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kya bhaaashan diya tunne mujhe graci!!
well u r under a big conception if u think that stickin to a marriage for 2 and a half decades is because they don't have an option...how ridiculous can u get!!

Anurag really doesn't know anything, ok first time he got Prerna pregnant, he didn't know whatever, thik hai, but second time he got her pregnant he like literally threw her out, so in a way it is a good thing that he didn't find out that she was pregnant when she was his girlfriend, who knows what the hell he would have done to her then.
rish was not a good father, with vishakha and tushki coz he didn't know anything about fatherhood then, but prerna's presence in his life changed everything. but prerna was in anurag's life from the beginining but still he was like suspecting her regarding sneha, now that's soooo sad and pathetic, hopeless man.

Sure he was gr8 father to Prem, but his ego came in the way which is why he is dead today. Rish keeps his ego aside and does stuff for Sneha, but yeh Maharaj wants his ego to be given more importance than his son, kya hota if he would have taken money from Rish? he just wanted to be all big in front of Prerna, by not accepting the money. Now for a person who let's his ego come in his way of his kid's life then he is not a good father, atleast not compared to rish.

Madhvi's relationship with him was basically a one night stand. Neither was she is his wife, nor his girlfriend. Prerna was AB's wife and his girlfriend. so don't even include Madhvi. But despite the fact that she wasn't RISH's wife or girlfriend, he accepted Tanisha to be his daughter. didn't go sayin u r not my daughter and shit when she said that he was her father.

How can Appu possibly be after a guy, who lacks personality and money...she actually loved him. If he had money he would have been able to save Prem 1, but afsos he doesn't. His Basu Publications sucks big time, and obviously Prerna was again at stake coz of his lack of business skills and she married Bajaj, the man with brains and a brave heart 😳

And yea regarding ur comment about Rish giving tannas to Prerna despite 30 years of marriage is inevitable when u have Anurag who doesn't concentrate on his life and his wife and just pokes his nose in his ex's life than his own, would get any husband suspicious. But he doesn't throw Prerna out!! 😆. So yet another point that i have to make is that he ignored his wife Sam, for Prerna, and that had led to Sam going crazy, and breaking their kamra which is their "duniya"

Yeaa...track record of how many marriages a person has had says enough of the person's capabilities of being a good husband, even ur Anurag's Anaita said to him, ur daughter is a divorcee and still her bhagg is so good that she found a guy like OMY. Anurag joined hands in front of Anaita, coz he knows that she was right.
Come on no sensible girl would wanna marry a guy who married 4 effin times!!

Yea another thing i found funny was when
Anaita came to Anurag she was like aapki ex wife aayi thi shagun lene 😆
Mr. Basu was so confused...he was like which ex wife r u talking about I HAD 3, very proudly!! 🤣 LOSER !!

nahin yaar sammie, you got me wrong😉, i didn't say PRB were sticking to the marriage because they had no other option! i sad some people are sticking to a marriage, because they don't have any option. And you can't just say because they are married for so many years, they're happy!

dear, it wasn't anurag's ego, that killed Prem!!! anurag just wanted the poilice to catch the kidnapper, so that he could be punished. and everything would have worked out, if poor prem hadn't become totally sick at that time😭😭

don't start calling anurag someone without personality!! and aparna was evil from the ebginning, she was just doing natak!!! she had already been marrued to Debo and was after anurags property!

😆😆Prerna was again at stake coz of his lack of business skills and she married Bajaj, the man with brains and a brave heart 😆😆

hilarious sammie, kahaan se yeah imagination paya tumhe?? i think you forgot that bajaj knew prerna would do anhything for anurag and his family and forced her to marry him ok!!

track record of how many marriages a person has had doesn't say enough of the person's capabilities of being a good husband dear, i still stick to that!! when u have bad luck it happens and then some people aren't going to stick to the marriage!

like komo was bad, of course he wouldn't be with her!

with prerna everything went wrong, because of Prem's death and then also because of bajaj's ichha to get prerna( making those photo's etc)

aparna ne apna asli rang dikhaya, she nearly killed him, if debo wasn't there, he would've been dead!!!😕

and finally he got sam and he's quite happy with her! and deserves to be happy!😛

and he's not a loser!!

and what's wrong in caring for your dost?? prerna is is dost, not his lover anymore and he is not just just pokes his nose, he just cares so much for prerna and wants to see her happy!! it's a fact mr. bajaj is insecure and will stay even after the next 20 years. 😆😆