Anurag Prerna ka Gehra Pyaar - Page 9

i think someone deleted it.i wrote all truth about bajaj.so some one for sure deleted it

are yaar madiha how can i remove the edit command from my profile

Firstly, don't make 3 posts where 1 would do. Secondly, don't blame anyone without proof...only if u can prove that someone deleted ur post, only them talk. And, lastly...I can see ur posts...dunno why you can't

I watched KZK after quite a while now. and I thought it was unfair on Sam.

The fact that anurag and prerna are ready to break their friendship because of bajaj's suspicions and did not break it earlier when sam was suspicious bothers me.

I mean when a wife is suspicious, she is ignored, tormented even. But when a husband is suspicious, itni aasani se todh diya rista? Kyu Sam ki bate and her feelings we not considered. I am talking from a woman's point of view here. Rather than support any character.

Sam has to understand herself and is forced to compromise with her husband's decision. But bajaj threatens to leave and is not even trying to listen, let alone understand.

When both live in the same fear of losing their loved ones. Why are they acting differently, or should I say, forced to act differently??

Is it fair that always the wife (in this case, Sam) has to understand, compromise and adjust because she has to STAY with the husband? And the husband (in this case, Bajaj) is uncompromising, taunting and unaccepting just because he can "walk away"???

I mean, who is weaker really? Sam for having to adjust to her husband's whims? Or bajaj for not being able to handle the situation like an adult? Both are obviously in loss, but who is the weaker one here?

And why is it that in our society its always the woman who has to adjust, compromise and understand? Why can't men do that? Are they too weak? or too Headstrong?

Why do men tend to "walk away" from a relationship easily and women tend to hang on and give the relationship a chance? WHY???????????

Its just sooooooo unfair!!!!

I'm sorry if i offended anyone, but had to the frustration out my system somehow! ... it would be great if you would respond to this, not just in the context of the KZK story.

👏 👏 👏 Its a superbly written post coolfire(sorry, don't know ur name) And, this I'm also wrting, regardless of which character I liek or support.

Tradionally men have a upper hand in our society...& they still continue to have though it is gradually lessening with women becoming financially independent. Right from childhood girls are reared differently from guys...& by this I don't imply gender bias...its just gender streotypes....adjusting, compramising, putting others' wishes above our own is part of our upbringing. We leave everything we have from childhood & enter a new world with our husbands....that itself is teh biggest adjustment. Since men don't do that, they will never understnd it either.

Adjustment comes naturally to girls...at least in our culture...whther it is with siblings or husband or in-laws....we don't think its a gr8 deal coz for us that's our duty. But rather than feel angry....I'm proud of the fact that women are stronger, more mature, more adjusting than men & we can carry the raletionship alone on our shoulders...I think somewhere, all Indian girls are prepared for this, unless they have a very modern outlook.

Men are by nature egoistic, headstrong

I have more to say..but gotta go now..will post later 😊

Originally posted by: coolfire

I watched KZK after quite a while now. and I thought it was unfair on Sam.

The fact that anurag and prerna are ready to break their friendship because of bajaj's suspicions and did not break it earlier when sam was suspicious bothers me.

I mean when a wife is suspicious, she is ignored, tormented even. But when a husband is suspicious, itni aasani se todh diya rista? Kyu Sam ki bate and her feelings we not considered. I am talking from a woman's point of view here. Rather than support any character.

Sam has to understand herself and is forced to compromise with her husband's decision. But bajaj threatens to leave and is not even trying to listen, let alone understand.

When both live in the same fear of losing their loved ones. Why are they acting differently, or should I say, forced to act differently??

Is it fair that always the wife (in this case, Sam) has to understand, compromise and adjust because she has to STAY with the husband? And the husband (in this case, Bajaj) is uncompromising, taunting and unaccepting just because he can "walk away"???

I mean, who is weaker really? Sam for having to adjust to her husband's whims? Or bajaj for not being able to handle the situation like an adult? Both are obviously in loss, but who is the weaker one here?

And why is it that in our society its always the woman who has to adjust, compromise and understand? Why can't men do that? Are they too weak? or too Headstrong?

Why do men tend to "walk away" from a relationship easily and women tend to hang on and give the relationship a chance? WHY???????????

Its just sooooooo unfair!!!!

I'm sorry if i offended anyone, but had to the frustration out my system somehow! ... it would be great if you would respond to this, not just in the context of the KZK story.

1.At this age Bajaj can influence them.
2, I watched yesterday a long time ago/ back scene of Kzk here.
Same thing happenen d .bajaj threatened Anu not to think ab out prerna here after. ......I think Its his job only to threat Anu .........Its not new.
3,As usually when you marry a married woman you have to be that type .Always have to be scared and prepared to threan both people. 4.
yes Sam was asked to be keep away from Anu. ......
She didn't ran away and wept a bit. ....Stayed there with anu ... Normally woman will be like that ,But Prerna did n't follow that .She straight away belived Bajaj and went to live with him .what do say about it. ? She didin't compromize as sam ......(That is my question.I have some sympathy with Sam .But for prerna no)
5. Why you do not think about Prerna side.She doesn't know about this seperation .Will she celebrate anything regarding with Prerm orSneha without Anurag ...........
6. And this is ruthless. At this Bajaj prerna breakup scene only Anu helped her. .......... For Sneha and prem and Mukti troubles, they had to weep together as humans. Why bajaj can't think positively. ......... Now he is ordering do this and that but have no single mercy how Prerna lived her life without any shelter or living through out this whole 5 years. .........
From the they started their life Bajaj made that order. now again he is doing it. .This is not woman or man compromise ......
Bajaj'es fate....... And prerna didn't follow As Sam.
One more point .Anurag slept with Sam .They had romance together.
Sam had nothing so much to worry .....Bec anu helped prerna for Mukti and Prem's cases .Not for actually prerna herself.........Sam should think
twice.
And for about Bajaj's orders I doubt it.

Originally posted by: mariam 4 u

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kank is a big hit man.And krish pata anhin kaisay blockbuster ban gayi,it was a disappointment and i don't think hrithik deserves an award for it bcause uski acting koi khaas nahin thi.BUT DON..............................i'll post my review soon😉

Originally posted by: indogirl

Anurag decided to leave. I am not surprised...but Sam should stop him...Anurag, your sacrifices don't worth anything...your goodness always comes back and hurt u the most...when time comes people forget about his sacrifices and point fingers at him...everyone remembers that Anu insulted Prerna and didn't accept sneha, but no one remembers the countless number of wonderful things he has done. Anu should start thinking about himself...he has lived long enough trying to be happy in other people's happiness. Sam has trusted him today and he shouldn't break that trust. If bajaj has a problem with Anurag then he should take prerna and leave the country...why should anu leave his family again?

i agree.Anu's goodness is looking like his foolishness.Ab bht ho gaya.Bajaj jaye ghanta.Y the hell did he come back if he didn't want to live wid prerna.Anu sam were living happily, and they deserves some happiness.Now tht doesn't mean i've accepted sam as anu's wife.I stii want ap to get lil besharam,kyun adity?😉

Originally posted by: madiha_17

But this sacrifice will work, I think he did a good job!He wants prerna to be happy, so he accept the deal, now what will happen ahead, yeh bajaj and prerna ka personal matter hai!

Mr.bajaj actually thinks that sab theek hojayega, if prerna will not meet anu and anu will not interfere inher matters then everything will get back to normal, per today prerna was not feeling alrite, she was thinking as kuch ashub honey wala hai!When she will coem to know about this deal toh prerna will hate bajaj for this..ANu ney sahi kaam kia..

Okay me leaving, bye guys:)

but y does anu alwayz have to sacrifice.Woh kyun jaye?y not bajaj go wid prerna along wid his family?