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OMG, I cant believe that this topic that i started like so many days back is still going strong 😆 ! I was not trying to bash cezanne khan, i was just 'criticising' anurag's actions. See as i have mentioned earlier, i am not a hardcore bajaj or anurag fan, so i have no reason to simply bash up either of them. And there are times when i have criticised bajaj also if i have felt he is wrong! Just because there is a set of anurag fans, and another set of bajaj fans, it doesnt mean that remaining ppl cant even criticise wrong actions, does it?
Ok, what i meant in this topic was, you have to admit that anurag has never been able to, or hasnt got the opportunity to become a good father. After prerna went to jail, he did get an opportunity to perform his duties, but what sincerity did he show towards that? Ok if not all 3, he could have atleast protected 1 of their kids properly na. Ok fine, he wasnt able to protect prem's samadhi or prevent sneha from going in the wrong direction. Then why the hell did he promise prerna that he will take care of them? He could have refused to if he cant, but wat is ths..he assures prerna 'tum chinta mat karo prerna' and he simply flew off to london with sam to enjoy his marriage? What he thought, when prerna said 'prem ke samadhi ka khayal rakhna', he just had to come there every now and then and stare at it? NO!! All I am saying is, if he said 'tum chinta mat karo' to prerna, he should have meant each and every word of it, and should have taken extra care, or else tell her 'nahin prerna, main yeh nahin nibha paaoonga'!! He cant simply give excuses that he was in london and blah blah!!
As far as Sneha and drugs are concered, agreed she is grown up, but everyone around knows about her maturity and her sensitivity! She is a very timid and sensitive girl, and anurag knew very well when the sharad thing happened itself how she was torturing herself and even till the day of her murdering kamini, she was still in that state of mind (rem, she had refused to attend anurag's marriage)..And at time bajaj, prerna, anurag, tushar, prem, everyone were there and stil they were not able to bring her back to a normal state..she had not even recovered from that state when soemthing as horrible as this happened to her mind. Any normal person would be able to understand how impossible it would be for her to come out of this combined miseries. Anurag, being her father should have understood this and given her special attention, care, etc., instead of just moving to london with sam, leaving her behind without any parent! It is easy to say sneha shouldnt have done this and all, but she has always been too sensitive to even handle minor things, thats the way she is, how would she have been able to handle something as big as this, and that also wihtout any parent with her! No use of blaming her as how ever imperfect kids are, parents should still love them and support them, especially when they know wat their drawbacks are! Agreed wat bajaj did was wrong to leave his family and go, but his mental condition was also not proper after prerna went to jail, all his business crashed, etc. Anurag was a happier man after marriage. And bajaj dint know about this second misery of hers, only anurag knew!!
I don't blame sneha for initially not accepting anurag as father as anybody would do that. The fact still remains that he initially refused to accept her as his daughter and said it was bajaj's daughter. And a selfless man (bajaj) who took care of her like a father, u cant expect her to completely forget him as her father and accept anurag as her father, do u? And no parent will and should think 'anyways she considers bajaj as her father, y should I bother for her'
Agreed anurag has the right to be happy in life after 30 years of lonliness, but let me ask u one thing….if you were going through the most horrible phase in life, how would ur parents behave and how would u expect them to behave towards u? Obviously you will expect them to shower u with more love and care than usual and understand you even better right? At that time wat if they left u with their relatives, and disappears to some other country?! Will relatives be enough for u?
There is no point in telling wat can anurag do if sneha went into drugs. Do u think a family which has got such strong culture, with maryadas imposed on all women living in the house, could have actually allowed sneha to go into drugs? And if anurag really gave her close attention, atleast during initial years after prerna went into jail, don't u think he would have easily understood even if she went into drugs and became strict with her and help her even more to come out of it?! I still maintain if one person anurag wanted, he could have helped out sneha or atleast prevented her from doing something wrong! But he dint do absolutely anything, be it with prem's samadhi, or as far as sneha is concerned! I would say prerna is more responsible and sincere compared to anurag as atleast she is taking some step to make right the wrong things, unlike anurag who is still sitting down doing nothing with respect to his own son's samadhi!! Prerna did the right thing by not giving anurag the right of a father on sneha, anyway it wouldn't have done much good to sneha even if he was there as a father!
Just because once in a while he does something good for his kids, that is not enough to make a person a good parent!
I am not trying to bash up anurag or cezanne, but I am just saying what the truth is, and I still maintain he is an irresponsible and insincere father!
Ok, what i meant in this topic was, you have to admit that anurag has never been able to, or hasnt got the opportunity to become a good father. After prerna went to jail, he did get an opportunity to perform his duties, but what sincerity did he show towards that? Ok if not all 3, he could have atleast protected 1 of their kids properly na. Ok fine, he wasnt able to protect prem's samadhi or prevent sneha from going in the wrong direction. Then why the hell did he promise prerna that he will take care of them? He could have refused to if he cant, but wat is ths..he assures prerna 'tum chinta mat karo prerna' and he simply flew off to london with sam to enjoy his marriage? What he thought, when prerna said 'prem ke samadhi ka khayal rakhna', he just had to come there every now and then and stare at it? NO!! All I am saying is, if he said 'tum chinta mat karo' to prerna, he should have meant each and every word of it, and should have taken extra care, or else tell her 'nahin prerna, main yeh nahin nibha paaoonga'!! He cant simply give excuses that he was in london and blah blah!!
As far as Sneha and drugs are concered, agreed she is grown up, but everyone around knows about her maturity and her sensitivity! She is a very timid and sensitive girl, and anurag knew very well when the sharad thing happened itself how she was torturing herself and even till the day of her murdering kamini, she was still in that state of mind (rem, she had refused to attend anurag's marriage)..And at time bajaj, prerna, anurag, tushar, prem, everyone were there and stil they were not able to bring her back to a normal state..she had not even recovered from that state when soemthing as horrible as this happened to her mind. Any normal person would be able to understand how impossible it would be for her to come out of this combined miseries. Anurag, being her father should have understood this and given her special attention, care, etc., instead of just moving to london with sam, leaving her behind without any parent! It is easy to say sneha shouldnt have done this and all, but she has always been too sensitive to even handle minor things, thats the way she is, how would she have been able to handle something as big as this, and that also wihtout any parent with her! No use of blaming her as how ever imperfect kids are, parents should still love them and support them, especially when they know wat their drawbacks are! Agreed wat bajaj did was wrong to leave his family and go, but his mental condition was also not proper after prerna went to jail, all his business crashed, etc. Anurag was a happier man after marriage. And bajaj dint know about this second misery of hers, only anurag knew!!
I don't blame sneha for initially not accepting anurag as father as anybody would do that. The fact still remains that he initially refused to accept her as his daughter and said it was bajaj's daughter. And a selfless man (bajaj) who took care of her like a father, u cant expect her to completely forget him as her father and accept anurag as her father, do u? And no parent will and should think 'anyways she considers bajaj as her father, y should I bother for her'
Agreed anurag has the right to be happy in life after 30 years of lonliness, but let me ask u one thing….if you were going through the most horrible phase in life, how would ur parents behave and how would u expect them to behave towards u? Obviously you will expect them to shower u with more love and care than usual and understand you even better right? At that time wat if they left u with their relatives, and disappears to some other country?! Will relatives be enough for u?
There is no point in telling wat can anurag do if sneha went into drugs. Do u think a family which has got such strong culture, with maryadas imposed on all women living in the house, could have actually allowed sneha to go into drugs? And if anurag really gave her close attention, atleast during initial years after prerna went into jail, don't u think he would have easily understood even if she went into drugs and became strict with her and help her even more to come out of it?! I still maintain if one person anurag wanted, he could have helped out sneha or atleast prevented her from doing something wrong! But he dint do absolutely anything, be it with prem's samadhi, or as far as sneha is concerned! I would say prerna is more responsible and sincere compared to anurag as atleast she is taking some step to make right the wrong things, unlike anurag who is still sitting down doing nothing with respect to his own son's samadhi!! Prerna did the right thing by not giving anurag the right of a father on sneha, anyway it wouldn't have done much good to sneha even if he was there as a father!
Just because once in a while he does something good for his kids, that is not enough to make a person a good parent!
I am not trying to bash up anurag or cezanne, but I am just saying what the truth is, and I still maintain he is an irresponsible and insincere father!
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