This topic is not about who among Bajaj and Anurag is a better father but it is about whether Anurag is a good father or not and the fact is that he has failed as a father.
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Originally posted by: Khushi11
I agree! Anurag was too busy romancing his 4th wife that he didn't do anything for Sneha and Prem. I am sure he cared and all but just being hurt doesn't solve problems. He is a 50 year old man now, he has a responsibility and he should be strong enough to stop them. Atleast Sneha would've listened to him if he tryed hard...and if Prem wasn't listening he would have taken actions against him atleast for breaking the samadi! He didn't care about anything not even his business. He simply let things go cuz he had better things to do..like going to London and other places for honeymoons...he ran away fron this situation cuz he didn't wanna deal with them.
Originally posted by: thakshila smith
really ..........You r stating that you r in US. Then you will understand What is London and What is Mumbai. Do you spend 5 years for honey moon.?
London is not good place for honeymoon. Good for nothing place ......
Ekta doesn't know that even ..........Now Anurag is happily married and
have some peace you all can't digest it>
Originally posted by: thakshila smith
wait. read this one too.I remain disagree to you .
"She is a very timid and sensitive girl, and anurag knew very well when the sharad thing
happened itself how she was torturing herself "
1. That's why she used the riffle to kill her mother in law. She said Mukti is a drivers daughter.
Anurag, being her father should have understood this and given her special attention, care, etc.,
2,How come that .Bajaj was the care taker and immediate boss. She is living with bajaj.
. Anurag, being her father should have understood this and given her special attention, care, etc., instead of just moving to london with sam, leaving her behind without any parent!
3. She is Sneha Bajaj not a Basu..Sad. All r worried about Anu's London trip!
Anu had business problems that's why he went there. And Ekta didn't show us what happened during 5 years time. Why Bajaj Failed in business and when he left the business.
And no parent will and should think 'anyways she considers bajaj as her father, y should I bother for her'
4,That's your own manipulate to use against Anurag. Its true but Anurag didn't say it you are using it.
And if anurag really gave her close attention, at least during initial years after prerna went into jail, don't u think h
5. another tale of your's……..How do you know when Sneha started drugs.? As far as I know very recently .She is very reserved and jealous like. If she has taken it all the five years time she is worse now. May be in jails for handling drugs, And bed ridden too . weak and vomiting salvia. ..shivering and fainting . no proper clothes …..displaing all the after effects.
The first scene they showed Sneha after the leap is in between Tushar and Dorris .Even they didn't know properly .Every one knew about it after she went to police custody. So how can you blame Anu..Leave Anu alone.Now what is prerna doing ,She is busy taking back her property , Making Mukti marry and dreaming her lost hubby.
While Sneha giving durty tealous looks at Prerna and Mukti. (Sneha acts nicely there.) Prerna ignored her even now. Looks like Sneha is preparing for another murder l.
If some one informed him and Anurag overlooked it then we can consider some thing.
But he dint do absolutely anything, be it with prem's samadhi, or as far as sneha is concerned! I would say prerna is more responsible and sincere compared to anurag as
6. ou know once Prem reconstructed it. Still we do not know why Bajaj handed over business to Komolika.and left. Anurag said that , clearly said he was London at that time . You people r jealous about his London trip. London is not that fantastic place dear. Its not heaven .You have wear 4 or 5 tiers of clothes and very expencive every thing there. You have to live in very small rooms without servents and have to cook own meals .No Harrier there. Always rainy and gloomy and its like an open prison too.Forget about London.
7.She is a very timid and sensitive girl, and Anurag knew very well when the sharad thing happened
How can that be She lived all the 20 years wid Bajaj. She has seen how Bajaj and Prerna lived and She started a business alone too. Both bajaj and Prerna very careless in this child rearing manner. You know Mukti got raped at home before.
You just imagin that Sneha is taking drugs and Anurag overlooked it making topics.
First check the times and behavior of Sneha. She would have unconscious now if she took it over 5 years. Anurag will not stay as a statue if he saw Sneha like that..
And if this is prerna's fate ,what Anurag or God can do to her. We can't speak about Bajaj here . But now Anu has no legal powers to look after prerna's family . Its only sake of human being job.
After Bajaj left the scene and Prerna's family in danger you all want to patch up it with Anurag .Sorry my dear He is married and gone.
First of all Thakshila, I cant understand half the things you have written or meant. From what I understood, let me clear certain things…
Agreed sneha accidently killed her mother in law and she did insult mukti a lot. None of us are supporting her for this. But I am not talking from our point of views. From our point of views we can hate sneha, we can criticise her and that is wat most of us are doing now. I am talking from a father's point of view, i.e., Anurag's point of view and about his responsibilities. And from a father's point of view, he cannot and should not think that sneha did this, sneha did that, so just forget and ignore her, can he? Just cos a person is timid, sensitive, it has no connection with that person's behaviour (like how u said sneha insulted mutki). And from anurag's point of view, sneha's accidental killing of her ex-mother-in-law, or insulting mukti or anyone shouldn't be his concern. At the end of the day, he is her father, and whatever she does or however she is, HE HAS TO BE THERE FOR HER AS A FATHER TO SUPPORT HER, ESPECIALLY DURING ROUGH TIMES.
Just cos bajaj was her caretaker when anurag wasn't there, that doesn't mean anurag can run away from his responsibilities. Again I am saying, Anurag is sneha's father and he cant run away from his responsibilities, whatever the reason maybe. At the end of the day, whether bajaj left her and went, or tomorrow even if prerna leaves her and go, being her father, IT IS ANURAG'S RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE CARE OF HER, irrespective of whether the person who was looking after her all this while left her and went or not. He doesn't have to know all that. And besides, he had promised prerna to take care of her. You said how can anurag understand sneha when he wasnt there with her for 20 years. That is a very lame statement. He is sneha's father, and by then he would have understood sneha and her nature very well (especially after sharad incident).
And I cant understand one thing. From where did the criticism of 'London' come into the picture?! I mean, who is talking about how good or how bad London is? Here the discussion is about Anurag and his responsibilities as a father, and not about London. If anurag had left India and went to Somalia with Sam also, we would still say, 'Anurag left Sneha and went to Somalia to enjoy with Sam'! Nobody is going ooh aah about London, and nobody is saying London is better than India or anything like that! And London is not a bad place either, I really cant understand why u behind criticising Londong, now is it a case of 'sour grapes'?!
"Every one knew about it after she went to police custody. So how can you blame Anu"-this is what you said right?
Exactly Thakshila, that is the problem. Even anurag being her father came to know of her drugs only after the police caught her. Had he given her proper care and attention, he would have come to know about it much before anyone.
See I am not saying anurag is a bad man, or he is doing bad things on purpose, or he doesn't love his kids, or anything like that. All I am saying is, had he been responsible and sincere 100%, a lot of these things could have been avoided. He is not doing anything on purpose maybe, but this is his nature maybe. He always says he dint get an opportunity to do a father's duty na, now what does he have to say? He was given 5 years to take up a father's responsibility. But he failed. Whatever it is, Sneha required a parent's love after all these tragedies happened in her life, and none of her 3 parents were with her. Prerna and bajaj were there for her all her life, but this time round, they were helpess and thats y they couldnt be with her. But that was not the case with Anurag. He could have been with her, especially he being the only person who knew the actual truth apart from prerna, and what sneha would be going through after all this. Watever the reason maybe, business or watever, the truth is, Anurag wasnt there when sneha needed him the most!!