Prerna diserved it.Woow Rishabh!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I'm also not vindicating Rishabh's actions but I agree with Khusi on that aspect. If my Mom continuously insults my dad in front of me & my bro & my dad just meekly listens to her with his head bowed....I'll despise him...I'll never be able to respect him ever.

And abt Rish not believing Pre...she has not narrated what exactly happened that day...had she told him that he would have never supported Sharad

Manasi i agree that if my dad stood and just listened to all that crap i would lose all respect for him. BUT, i would lose respect for him even if he slapped my mom. Both were at fault here. this argument should never have been displayed to the kids. this type of argument should happen behind a husband-wife's closed doors, not in full view of your kids. kids will lose respect for both their parents AND they will think that such fights and mud-slinging is appropriate behaviour towards spouses and lovers.

Totally true psawyer!!

I think people are such big fans of Bajaj that somehow they are letting this act being bypassed...What if anu did it? Wouldnt we all call him sick and give him all those nicks

I totally think ronitr statements that a real man shld phsically dominate his wife are so not logical or healthy at all

And yea manasi and ronitr if the same dad hit the mom dont tell me ur gng to go aah ma u needed one tight whack not possible at all.....What if ur mom was slapped when she was having a heated argument with ur dad in that case if my dad did it id be pissed off on him and also on my mom for calling him those names...

These things should be kept away from children and face it bajaj is not setting a good example to his sons! Atleast for me Bajaj was a man for supreme character and was above all those losers of balaji men, the one way he was better than mihir was bajaj loves prerna much more than mihir does tulsi, bajaj was always the better one right from day one, his love was pure, there was so much junoon in it, now this thing has just dampened that entire effect

psawyer u r completely right i totally agree with u

Originally posted by: eternaldreamer

Totally true psawyer!!

I think people are such big fans of Bajaj that somehow they are letting this act being bypassed...What if anu did it? Wouldnt we all call him sick and give him all those nicks

I totally think ronitr statements that a real man shld phsically dominate his wife are so not logical or healthy at all

And yea manasi and ronitr if the same dad hit the mom dont tell me ur gng to go aah ma u needed one tight whack not possible at all.....What if ur mom was slapped when she was having a heated argument with ur dad in that case if my dad did it id be pissed off on him and also on my mom for calling him those names...

These things should be kept away from children and face it bajaj is not setting a good example to his sons! Atleast for me Bajaj was a man for supreme character and was above all those losers of balaji men, the one way he was better than mihir was bajaj loves prerna much more than mihir does tulsi, bajaj was always the better one right from day one, his love was pure, there was so much junoon in it, now this thing has just dampened that entire effect

Yaar the junoon and everything is still there and it will always be. Just because of this one slap, we cant put all that he has for Prerna into the dustbin- for me, the supremity of his character still remains..this had to happen one day or the other..come to think of it- they could not have made it more volatile/

But yesh- he should NOT have slapped her..someone else should have but not Rishabh. For me, he is still the same Rishabh "sheru" Bajaj and nothing changes that;))

He's HUMAN afterall- the first time he ever did this!!!!

I know...even he can be hurt..he can be frustrated...& i think everyone agrees that Prerna can be damn frustrating.

I know what he did was wrong...I'm not glorifying it....I'm just trying to find an excuse 😉

Yeah...I will not respect my dad for slapping my ma...but I will definately despise him more for listening to my ma's insults

Originally posted by: ronitr

Those who didn't see i'll tell u.It is the responsibilty of a wife to discuss with her husband before taking any major decisions.How would a husband feel when he comes to know from a third person about his wife's activities.Also Bajaj was as usual trying to convince his wife to take the case back(as every one he too is ignorant of the truth)But Prerna was very rude and replied that he is a dirty politician ,who changes his stands and doesn't care abouit his daughter's life.She continously said 5 or 6 dialogues like this -bajaj lost his control and slapped her!!!
I don't think bajaj did anything wrong.Prerna slaps every one on this basis -when they say 2 or 3 dialogues insulting her - then why is it said wrong when done by bajaj.
Prerna even slaps anurag 50 times publicly.
Abh bolo??

In one thing I agree with Ronitr but one thing I don't agree with him
In my family my husband and myself we discuss small thing leave alone big things. Small things to the extent that i am going to buy some clothes for my daughter. And Prerna took a major step in thinking that the family and world is run solely by her and her husband is a nobody. I agree with ronitr that this was a major disicion in the household, it effects the life of kids.

the thing that i don't agree with is the resort of violence infront of kids. If they had to talk they should have done it privately. My husband and i have a rule if we get angry and want to say somethings to the other, we never do it infront of the child. Our standard dialogue at this time would be "can i talk to you in the kitchen or computer room or anywhere else" having an arguement and using violence infront of the kid only teaches bad things to the younger generation.

Well all i can say is ekta does not show good morals in her serial. Her families are shown to be truthful, paramparawadi, sanskarwale but at the end of the day you see nothing of all that in her serial. It is pure talk and nothing else. Like the saying in hindi
"""" Unchi dukaan fike pakwaan""""""""
nupur

When he didn't slap her when she supported his son's killer, when he didn't slap her when his daughter kasak's life got ruined due to her selfish behaviour..why now?

I am not saying Prerna was right, she was definitely wrong. Lekin tumhare rishu baby ko mummy-daddy ne sikhaya nahi kya..ke kichad ko haath lagaane se kichad ka kuch nahi jaata, woh gandagi waisi hi rehti hai, lekin apna haath kharaab ho jaata hai?
Ab Prerna jaisi aurat ko slap kiya...eeks. Greek God jaise Rishabh ne Prerna jaisi dirty old lady ko haath lagaya..eeks poor rishabh ! Bajajians, Dettol hand-wash bhejo tumhare sheru ko gift-wrap kar ke. Use jarurat padegi.

agree wid u. yeh bahut pehle kar diya hota

Originally posted by: psawyer

you know, i haven't seen the ep so i can't comment on what prerna said, but i don't think that he should have slapped her. they are supposed to be a team and to stand by each other and i KNOW, prerna should tell him exactly how she knows about sharad and all that...but the least he can do is trust his wife and support her. even yesterday he said that she didn't ask him before she went to the cops. since when do they need each other's permission to do such things? i get that he is upset about the publicity and the fact that sharad is his daughter's husband, but there was no need to resort to violence.

Well said i couldn't have done it better - she is his wife and he should trust and beleive in her - politics should come second.

By the way - she did say before to bajaj that she heard it from her own ears. So that should be enough.

Esti aunty

Originally posted by: Racmonpheebs

In one thing I agree with Ronitr but one thing I don't agree with him
In my family my husband and myself we discuss small thing leave alone big things. Small things to the extent that i am going to buy some clothes for my daughter. And Prerna took a major step in thinking that the family and world is run solely by her and her husband is a nobody. I agree with ronitr that this was a major disicion in the household, it effects the life of kids.

the thing that i don't agree with is the resort of violence infront of kids. If they had to talk they should have done it privately. My husband and i have a rule if we get angry and want to say somethings to the other, we never do it infront of the child. Our standard dialogue at this time would be "can i talk to you in the kitchen or computer room or anywhere else" having an arguement and using violence infront of the kid only teaches bad things to the younger generation.

Well all i can say is ekta does not show good morals in her serial. Her families are shown to be truthful, paramparawadi, sanskarwale but at the end of the day you see nothing of all that in her serial. It is pure talk and nothing else. Like the saying in hindi
"""" Unchi dukaan fike pakwaan""""""""
nupur

i agree with you. these things should remain between husband and wife. the main problem in all ekta's serials is lack of communication. and when they DO communicate, its only to shout accusations at each other. who's to say they couldn't have solved this by talking quietly in their room? but both of their egos got in the way. Prerna's ego in not explaining to her husband EXACTLY what happened, and rishabh's ego in not giving her the benefit of the doubt.