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Chandani

@Chandani1980

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Posted: 17 years ago

Any mother would want to guide their kids in the right path... and if the kids misbehave, then the father will be the last resort. The mom will try to work things out with the kids... whatever mean she has to use.. because she has to maintain trust with her kids...

The father will be mostly corrective and even a bit harsh... only if the mother can't help the situation...

As a mom, the first instinct is to protect the child ... not to make your child/ren hate you... however hard it is to do!!

Pronita is using the wrong tactics.... Ganga will hate her even more...

I think she should be nice and try to gain their confidence... then they will realise the error of their ways... they need guidance not punishment.

There is no telling what Jai will do!!

Please comment if you have a different take on the subject...

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Posted: 17 years ago

Gangas gone to far off the path for her to be nice to her to learn because shes just plain rude when anyone does try to tell her.

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simran777

@simran777

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Posted: 17 years ago

I understand ur point Chandni and that's true, however the case at hand is:
1. Bani's not around the kids like a mother nor in their lives to create a sudden change..
2. Yes, she can take time but meanwhile something VERY wrong may take place which all would be regretful for..
3. Being a 'true' mother it's also hard to see such wrongs take place and it's not a business deal where she can wait to reap the fruit/result of her smart moves in handling this situation....as the matter at hand's urgent and the kids can very likely do great harm till Bani gets to gain their 'confidence' to create this good change...

So, considering all above and much more I honestly and frankly feel that Baba and Pronita have done right in presenting truth of kids to the right person...their father. 👏

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Chandani

@Chandani1980

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Posted: 17 years ago

Ganga has indeed gone too far... even endangering her health! Yes that is too far...
As well as Pronita not sharing a relationship with the kids.. that needs to be taken into consideration... I agree..
Meera is the real culprit... and in the end her own kid don't need the influencing..
It is falling back to her... she might have dug the hole for JB kids but most of all... her kid is falling in it!

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simran777

@simran777

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: Chandani1980
Meera is the real culprit... and in the end her own kid don't need the influencing..
It is falling back to her... she might have dug the hole for JB kids but most of all... her kid is falling in it!

😭Yupp its really a sad situation dear! It's not as if she's not a concerned mother, but what 2 do w/ this absolute mess of the real culprit meera!😡🤢 and definately her kids are sadly falling down the hole..

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jaibani_fan

@jaibani_fan

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Posted: 17 years ago

In usual situation its mothers job. But unfortunately bani's kids don't know she is their real mother. With a differnet face She can't make them listen to her.

She is using her only resort to let yheir da know so that he can chnage them . She is aware of this but is helpless.

Anyway her kids are spoilt to such extend that Jai their father has to kno.Otherwise she won't be just like Meera.

She did try talking to Ganga. But ganga is so rude she didn't listen 7 on top of all insulted her.

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sleeplessangel

@sleeplessangel

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Posted: 17 years ago

What Pronita and Baba are doing is correct -- or should I say under the circumstances the only thing that they can do. Don't forget this is not a normal situation -- Ganga repeatedly tells Pronita that she is not her mother, and she does not even know who Pronita is, she is also heavily influenced by Meera -- Meera is not just going to stand by and let some stranger come close to Ganga. The moment she gets an inkling that Ganga listens to anybody else other than her her dirty side pops right up. Pronita has no other alternative but to turn to the only parent that the kids do know and who can influence them, JW.

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Nazneen

@chickster

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Posted: 17 years ago

I actually think that this is the only strategy that Pronita/Bani and can use. Bani has not been a part of her children's life for 16 years and Meera has ruined Ganga to such an extent that befriending her will do nothing - she has no respect for her elders its seems, except for her Choti Maa and Father, who she likes to keep in the dark. Krishna, I believe is actually a really good girl, but it is Meera who makes her out to be a bad girl and Jai's obvious neglect of her.

The only way that Ganga might sort her self out, is if Jai found out the truth about her. ganga loves her d
Dad more than anything maybe the shame that he feels when he finds out about her will help set her on teh right path???? Who knows this is an EK/Balaji serial at the end of the day.

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vasudha

@VasuS

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Posted: 17 years ago

i agree with most of you here...it IS the ONLY strategy bani has...SHE is a real mother unlike meera and so for her the primary concern is ALWAYS her children...being a mother myself i will vouch that in times like this the mother will not even think what her children will think/say to her if she sees them straying and tries to correct them...she is just letting the only SANE parent (atleast among the 2 parents that the kids think of as parents..bani being dead..)know so that he could discipline..
having said that i do have a doubt as to now the kids know jai is on to them...so obviously they will all go back in his car and will hate pronita...and jai will trust her...but then how does the story progress further?...

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lovey

@l0vey

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Posted: 17 years ago

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i can see your point. its true, ganga will only hate bani more and more. but she wants jai to realize what his girls are upto.. obviously no one knows that she is bani .. she isn't their mother. so she needs someone else to discipline them .. which is jai .

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