Actually Khusboo in real life, the man usually sides with his family that is why the poor woman end up miserable. Not many man would walk out on the family in support of their wife. I only know one person who has done it.
Most of the time the family instigate the man to be violent towards the woman, ie in case of Jigs and her ladla sons Ranveer and Sahil.
In this case the man needs to justify things by using his brain.