Jai in a dilemma!!!

On one hand there is the is honest and good Meera, on the other hand.... the love of his life and their child..😳 😳

Whatever the case... I don't think bani will let Jai hurt Meera like that... after all she know that Meera is a good person..

If wasn't for Meera, Jai wouldn't even know that Ganga is his Daughter...

What a dilemma😕 😕 😕

I don't understand the dilemma. So because Meera told the truth about Ganga - should JW remain with her? Sacrifice his life for her? What about Ganga and Bani?

I think there really is no dilemma. Meera needs to gain some self-respect and realize that because of JW and BW lack of communication and trust issues - they have been manipulated by many people into making very bad decisions - but that they are a family that needs to heal together - without her interference or presence.

She needs to graciously make an exit - explaining that she won't come between a husband and wife who love each other inspite of or despite their faults. JW needs to apologize for treating her like a whipping horse and a doormat. But Meera needs to be somewhere else - where she will develop a spine and some much needed self-respect - just my pov.

Originally posted by: scifichick

I don't understand the dilemma. So because Meera told the truth about Ganga - should JW remain with her? Sacrifice his life for her? What about Ganga and Bani?

I think there really is no dilemma. Meera needs to gain some self-respect and realize that because of JW and BW lack of communication and trust issues - they have been manipulated by many people into making very bad decisions - but that they are a family that needs to heal together - without her interference or presence.

She needs to graciously make an exit - explaining that she won't come between a husband and wife who love each other inspite of or despite their faults. JW needs to apologize for treating her like a whipping horse and a doormat. But Meera needs to be somewhere else - where she will develop a spine and some much needed self-respect - just my pov.

I agree totally - Meera needs to make a dignified exit. There's no question of a dilema for JW. He loves Bani, plain and simple. Even if he were to be shown to be in conflict (and I don't see what conflict, since he has never given her any indication he does anything more than tolerate her though we don't know why as yet), if Meera has one ounce of self-respect (which is highly doubtful based on what I've seen so far), she would withdraw herself since she should know that even if Bani forces her to stay or JW asks her to stay, its out of pity and not because JW will ever develop feelings for her.

I still don't understand how she has taken the abuse from everyone for so long and lived in the hope that JW would accept her - is she that desperate that she would want to stick around knowing that even if he sleeps with her, he's thinking of another woman? As a woman, that is the most insulting thing that I can imagine - to be with a man who doesn't love me, doesn't care about me, and is with me out of obligation.

As far as JW being in a dilema, if he is shown to be in a dilema about a woman who he barely tolerates, then why even bother showing him as a man? Everyone is saying Meera did good by showing him the DNA results - honestly did she have a choice? She cares about Ganga and wants her treated - JW might be the only one who can help. Could she risk Ganga's life? And should JW be obligated simply because Meera showed him DNA results?

Originally posted by: scifichick

I don't understand the dilemma. So because Meera told the truth about Ganga - should JW remain with her? Sacrifice his life for her? What about Ganga and Bani?

I think there really is no dilemma. Meera needs to gain some self-respect and realize that because of JW and BW lack of communication and trust issues - they have been manipulated by many people into making very bad decisions - but that they are a family that needs to heal together - without her interference or presence.

She needs to graciously make an exit - explaining that she won't come between a husband and wife who love each other inspite of or despite their faults. JW needs to apologize for treating her like a whipping horse and a doormat. But Meera needs to be somewhere else - where she will develop a spine and some much needed self-respect - just my pov.

I totally agree with you..😊 Jai belongs only to Bani..He can't sacrifice his life, love for her only because she told him the truth about Ganga..

How about Meera goes with Daksh. They both are single and then JB can stay together happily. I think it is a fantastic idea. 👏

excuse me?? what dilemma?? did he ever gave Meera the right of Mrs Jai Walia?? he treated her like a doormat !!! he can feel sorry about treating her like that. but dellema between a woman he never even considered his friend & the women who is his children's mother??!!! sorry but that doesnt make sense to me

meera needs to leave asap because she knows that there is no relationship between her and jai 🤢 and there never will be 😃 she knew before she married him that he only loves bani therefore should be no dillema 😃

If she was that unimportant...why did he marry her??

Originally posted by: scifichick

I don't understand the dilemma. So because Meera told the truth about Ganga - should JW remain with her? Sacrifice his life for her? What about Ganga and Bani?

I think there really is no dilemma. Meera needs to gain some self-respect and realize that because of JW and BW lack of communication and trust issues - they have been manipulated by many people into making very bad decisions - but that they are a family that needs to heal together - without her interference or presence.

She needs to graciously make an exit - explaining that she won't come between a husband and wife who love each other inspite of or despite their faults. JW needs to apologize for treating her like a whipping horse and a doormat. But Meera needs to be somewhere else - where she will develop a spine and some much needed self-respect - just my pov.

I agree. With that argument Bani has done so many things for him & his family. Saved his property twice,first from Jigyasa & then got blackmailed by Randherias. Meera helped once. What abut Ganga. She need her both parents together.Jai loves Bani. HE would want to be with her.

Originally posted by: Chandani1980

If she was that unimportant...why did he marry her??

if she is that important why does he treat her like dirt. I think he married her just to protect his reputation. Any young girl would have been ok , Meera just happen to agree.Its Jigyasa who chose her not Jai