Originally posted by: scifichick
I don't understand the dilemma. So because Meera told the truth about Ganga - should JW remain with her? Sacrifice his life for her? What about Ganga and Bani?
I think there really is no dilemma. Meera needs to gain some self-respect and realize that because of JW and BW lack of communication and trust issues - they have been manipulated by many people into making very bad decisions - but that they are a family that needs to heal together - without her interference or presence.
She needs to graciously make an exit - explaining that she won't come between a husband and wife who love each other inspite of or despite their faults. JW needs to apologize for treating her like a whipping horse and a doormat. But Meera needs to be somewhere else - where she will develop a spine and some much needed self-respect - just my pov.
I agree totally - Meera needs to make a dignified exit. There's no question of a dilema for JW. He loves Bani, plain and simple. Even if he were to be shown to be in conflict (and I don't see what conflict, since he has never given her any indication he does anything more than tolerate her though we don't know why as yet), if Meera has one ounce of self-respect (which is highly doubtful based on what I've seen so far), she would withdraw herself since she should know that even if Bani forces her to stay or JW asks her to stay, its out of pity and not because JW will ever develop feelings for her.
I still don't understand how she has taken the abuse from everyone for so long and lived in the hope that JW would accept her - is she that desperate that she would want to stick around knowing that even if he sleeps with her, he's thinking of another woman? As a woman, that is the most insulting thing that I can imagine - to be with a man who doesn't love me, doesn't care about me, and is with me out of obligation.
As far as JW being in a dilema, if he is shown to be in a dilema about a woman who he barely tolerates, then why even bother showing him as a man? Everyone is saying Meera did good by showing him the DNA results - honestly did she have a choice? She cares about Ganga and wants her treated - JW might be the only one who can help. Could she risk Ganga's life? And should JW be obligated simply because Meera showed him DNA results?