Age difference in a Marriage - Page 2

Originally posted by: swatinarang

sangs dear i think JB have a age difference of more than 20 years and that is quite a differene and its like generation gap, as in the begining of serial bani was shown to be 21 and while JW was 42+ so my thinking is that they have settled down and are in love, but in real life these type of people may have normal life for few years but time comes when man is 60 and the lady is still in her prime that creates trouble in relationship 😉 if that difference was of 10 years that much diff really does not matter, but JW is twice bani's age 😉 but still i want JB to be together for their love and children

swati

Swati behena,

And in spite of all these age related problems your sweet Munni was planning to marry a guy who was old enuff to be her Nanu and she was not even in love with him. 😆

Rgds,

Pri

I am not talking about fertility issues and stuff here, I am talking abt the working of a marriage.

BTW Swati, JB doesn't have an age difference of more than 20 years? She was 23 when he was 40, so there you go. 😉

Sangs there is so much difference between 20 and 17 years na 😉

Shruti

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I am not talking about fertility issues and stuff here, I am talking abt the working of a marriage.

BTW Swati, JB doesn't have an age difference of more than 20 years? She was 23 when he was 40, so there you go. 😉

sangs dear still i believe that 17 years difference is really too much and is like generation gap😉 that's why ur dear munna was not able to understand feelings of bani in yesterday's episode😆

Generally 3 - 5 years of age is acceptable between a man and woman.

But age is more in the mind than in the body. Some people are born mature, some people are immature even they are sixty.

Bani is very mature for her age. She and Jai have a classic romance that is sheer pleasure to watch. I watched Kayamath today at a friend's recommendation. Although the love story of Prachi and Milind was nice, it didn't have the same effect on me as just a look between Jai and Bani.

To hell with age! That's what I say! If they are happy together, let them be! Makes me happy too! 😆

Sangitadas, there is n need of saying that you were not talking about fertaility and that staff.

Discussing the topic about age difference in a marriage,may lead to another related topics.

So, even fertility and production is a topic related to the topic you have raised.

Dear Sang

Catherine Zeta Jones and Micheal Douglas have 25 years age difference and they have one of the most stable marriages in Hollywood...I read Catherine's interview once where she could think of a life without Micheal...but then people there even get divorced after 25 years of married life.

Personally for me I think it is the mental vibe which matter most, in India many people stay married because of social pressure but pressure, no pressure age difference do not guarantee happy married life...the divorce rates are high nowadays where age difference is not much and as mostly people are getting married to their friends/ classmates etc....in marriage patience and adjustment matter most alongwith maturity, of course physical relation is there and important too but then with time it diminishes what remains in a sense of understanding and contenment...

As far as Arushi is concerned she can go to hell...yesterday JW was looking very sexy in yellow kurta, almost back to his former self...I don't know how can anyone call someone like him uncle and old 😡 😡 Love Tin

My father-in-law remarried after my mother-in-law passed away. He was 40 at the time. His second wife was 20. They have been married for the last 34 years. And I would rate it as a successful marriage.

Originally posted by: tintiny

Dear Sang

Catherine Zeta Jones and Micheal Douglas have 25 years age difference and they have one of the most stable marriages in Hollywood...I read Catherine's interview once where she could think of a life without Micheal...but then people there even get divorced after 25 years of married life.

Personally for me I think it is the mental vibe which matter most, in India many people stay married because of social pressure but pressure, no pressure age difference do not guarantee happy married life...the divorce rates are high nowadays where age difference is not much and as mostly people are getting married to their friends/ classmates etc....in marriage patience and adjustment matter most alongwith maturity, of course physical relation is there and important too but then with time it diminishes what remains in a sense of understanding and contenment...

As far as Arushi is concerned she can go to hell...yesterday JW was looking very sexy in yellow kurta, almost back to his former self...I don't know how can anyone call someone like him uncle and old 😡 😡 Love Tin

Tinny, I agree. That girl must be blind 😉😆

Arwax, its an issue alright. What I meant is that i was trying to highlight the understanding aspect only. of course fertility and other factors do come in in a married life.