Why Should Bani love Veer?

I have been a silent reader for quite some time now but now I have to say something. Everyone is saying Veer needs love and is only a child, yes he IS, BUT why isn't anyone looking at it from Bani's perspective? For god sakes the kid is a result of her sister and her own husband's deeds…yeah yeah many are going to say Jai wasn't a willing participant in the act and had very little to do with it but the truth is Veer is JW's son (according the current script) and Bani is not the mother of this child. Why blame her for not having any motherly instincts for this kid? He is after all a reminder of what transpired b/w her husband and her sister (I'm still hoping nothing happened between Jai and Pia on that fateful night). How could she scrap that awful picture out of her head that quick and fast?

If Veer must have a mother, why Bani? Why can't Rano be his mother or why can't Raashi or anyone else why only Bani??? As far as I'm concerned, I will never hold Bani responsible for Veer. I won't blame her for never accepting him. She doesn't have to. Give her a brake. She is human after all. How many of us would actually take in our husband and another woman's child with no qualms? I doubt too many of us would so please cut Bani some slack and give her time to sort out this battle within herself. I am very disappointed that no one is trying to look at the situation from Bani's side.

I agree with you wholeheartedly. Veer will always be a reminder of JW and Pia's relationship that caused Bani and Jai split and even worse being that Pia is Bani's real sister who she cared for and loved since she was young.
I think with time, Bani will make her own lil relationship with Veer and Pia will have something to say about it too, i.e. her own son loving her sister more than her. I bet that's what happens.
Then I am hoping it is revealed that Pia and JW didn't have a ONS at all and that Veer is her husband's kid (can't remember his name).
It'd be fab if that comes about and Jw is innocent of any wrongdoing.
Munira

Be careful Newbie, this is how we all got started with that first post. 😆 I agree with you wholeheartedly. But one answer to your question that no one else seems to mention. VEER HAS A MOTHER! Reptile she may be, but Pia is his mother. So why isn't he with her? She was so desperate to have him as her symbol of love for Mr. Walia, why isn't he with his mother, wherever she is????

Well Veer's an innocent child , Bani is just turning away from him just because hes Pia's child , so whats the childs fault , no one gets to choose which mother they want .. And why not Bani , they child is Jai's .. Bani is gonna have to accept him , because.. yeah your right , his mother may not be bani , but his father is Jai .. and Raashi and Rano have their on problems , if rano takes him , whoes gonna be his father ? , not ranveer because raashi might not allow that .. or maybe Rano might not accept ranveer as the father , and if raashi takes him then Ranveer will have to accept Veer as the father , but why ? .. hes not the real father now is he?.. so why should Ranveer take him .. Veer can get a perfect life right there , if Bani accepts him.. sure she may not be his mother but jai is his father , and veer has the same blood as Jai , wether you like it or not.. OR wether you like HIM or not..

I 100% agree with what you wrote pingi 👏 no one is under standing banis state of mind 😭 it is so unfair 😡 bani not accepting veer is understandble 😭 how can she when the child is from her devil f a sister who betrayed her in the most crucial and inhuman way 😡

I 100% agree with u
If Bani is not able to accept Veer what is wrong in that?
only pia is responsible for this

I agree with you as well. Veer is an innocent child - but sadly he is the tangible result of her sister's betrayal with her husband (regardless of whether he was a willing participant or not). I really don't know which woman would welcome her husband's illegitimate child with an open heart. Especially knowing that your sister is the mother of that child.

Bani needs time to heal. Jai has had 5 years with Veer to deal with his emotions and the child. Bani hasn't even been able to develop a proper relationship with her own children much less with Veer or to deal with the emotional distress of having her husband's illegitimate child living with her. I'm hoping that Pushy is Veer's father and JW is vindicated completely.

I hope the destructives deal with this properly. Jai Walia has been magnanimous in love for Bani - losing his property, his home, his children even his honour because he loved Bani. I hope that he realizes that he can't expect his wife to be totally accepting of Veer immediately. I hope that this doesn't cause any rifts between them. JW should continue to be understanding that his wife hasn't had 5 years to deal with the result of Pia's heartless betrayal the way he has. He should try to reassure and help her.

I hope that Bani realizes that Jigs is evil (I love to hate AK as Jigs) and doesn't listen to her advice. Bani shouldn't take any advice from Jigs regarding children, husbands or family because she is the last person who should speak on any of these topics as she has no concept about any of them.

Originally posted by: Pingi

I have been a silent reader for quite some time now but now I have to say something. Everyone is saying Veer needs love and is only a child, yes he IS, BUT why isn't anyone looking at it from Bani's perspective? For god sakes the kid is a result of her sister and her own husband's deeds…yeah yeah many are going to say Jai wasn't a willing participant in the act and had very little to do with it but the truth is Veer is JW's son (according the current script) and Bani is not the mother of this child. Why blame her for not having any motherly instincts for this kid? He is after all a reminder of what transpired b/w her husband and her sister (I'm still hoping nothing happened between Jai and Pia on that fateful night). How could she scrap that awful picture out of her head that quick and fast?

If Veer must have a mother, why Bani? Why can't Rano be his mother or why can't Raashi or anyone else why only Bani??? As far as I'm concerned, I will never hold Bani responsible for Veer. I won't blame her for never accepting him. She doesn't have to. Give her a brake. She is human after all. How many of us would actually take in our husband and another woman's child with no qualms? I doubt too many of us would so please cut Bani some slack and give her time to sort out this battle within herself. I am very disappointed that no one is trying to look at the situation from Bani's side.

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Very well said. I was silently sitting here on my computer, staring at all the posts against Bani and how she reacted towards Veer, but in no way did I want to even post a reply and tire my breathe by repeatedly saying that what Bani is doing is a normal human reaction.

No one, or only few, are willing to understand from her perspective! It is a fact- the reason for this is because the creatives have made Bani so mahan and great in our eyes, that for us to see her doing something so simple as not accepting a child is too much for us to handle. I commend the creatives for making Bani more realistic by adding this reaction👏.

Whether jhootas yah belans are thrown at my head for saying this, but Bani is not at fault and please forgive her for being human, after all we all are. I would like those who say Bani should accept Veer (immediatly) to think for a few minutes, that had they been in Bani's shoes how would they have reacted?

The young woman has gone through a lot and I admire her, for her bravery and for accepting her husband back- even though the whole PJ fiasco was a mistake and done with trickery.

Go Bani, I am by your side.
Come here thrashings and bashings....( just don't hurt me too badly)
Lots of love
Sweetu
p.s. I also understand that Veer is innocent and not to blame. But just because he is supposedly JW's child, doesn't mean that Bani has to mother him....why not Rano? JW may have accepted the child, but for Bani to do so is impossible at the moment, she is hurting. JW I swear if you go against Bani for behaving like this, as any normal human would, do not expect me to stand by you- you have no right to speak about this issue, as you were the one who got yourself utterly drugged in the first place.

As a side note I still believe that Veer is not JW's child but Pushkars😊.

Originally posted by: aisha_95

Well Veer's an innocent child , Bani is just turning away from him just because hes Pia's child , so whats the childs fault , no one gets to choose which mother they want .. And why not Bani , they child is Jai's .. Bani is gonna have to accept him , because.. yeah your right , his mother may not be bani , but his father is Jai .. and Raashi and Rano have their on problems , if rano takes him , whoes gonna be his father ? , not ranveer because raashi might not allow that .. or maybe Rano might not accept ranveer as the father , and if raashi takes him then Ranveer will have to accept Veer as the father , but why ? .. hes not the real father now is he?.. so why should Ranveer take him .. Veer can get a perfect life right there , if Bani accepts him.. sure she may not be his mother but jai is his father , and veer has the same blood as Jai , wether you like it or not.. OR wether you like HIM or not..

Yeah Veer is innocent but Bani is not wrong either. I'm not so sure if Veer would get a perfect life there if Bani is not willing to take him in as her own. I think she needs time to resolve this issue on her own and that will take time....it's not gonna happen over night.

Originally posted by: sweetangel2028

I agree with you wholeheartedly. Veer will always be a reminder of JW and Pia's relationship that caused Bani and Jai split and even worse being that Pia is Bani's real sister who she cared for and loved since she was young.
I think with time, Bani will make her own lil relationship with Veer and Pia will have something to say about it too, i.e. her own son loving her sister more than her. I bet that's what happens.
Then I am hoping it is revealed that Pia and JW didn't have a ONS at all and that Veer is her husband's kid (can't remember his name).
It'd be fab if that comes about and Jw is innocent of any wrongdoing.
Munira

Hope JW is proven innocent and Pushkar is the real father. The whole Dubai fiasco need s to be resolved soon but knowing Ekta she'll drag it to the dogs😡