in the 27th June's episode after giving unwanted and unimportant explanations AD asked Bani that where he and she are different? may be Bani won't reply ever but let me reply for her-
whatever Bani is doing to seek revenge from Jay Walia is because she felt betrayed. she had witnessed how everyone went against her. it has been forcefully presented to her in such a manner that she lost her little hopes. thus there is a transformation in her.
but AD assumed everything in his obsession and even after being enlightened by the truth, he doesn't feel guilty. he is against the Walias beyond any valid reason. he didn't even regret of doing whatever he did instead he is stretching his side of enemity beyond limits.
if Bani would have been in his place then she would have felt guilty. we have seen when Rano saves Mr. Walia from a situation when Bani thought that there was someone else in his life then Bani felt so bad for him. she regretted and somewhat i can say punished herself for that.
how could AD compare his attitude with that of hers??? it's meaningless.... only because their actions were similar in revenge doesn't mean that they are similar. no way it can happen. never ever......