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Posted: 18 years ago
#61
Alright, I am as usual coming in late, but that has never stopped me from posting my two cents!

Firstly I think this post is called for, there is a lot of AD/JW and RK/RR more than it is necessary, though I don't think it is right on anyone's part to single JB fans/despos.
I have been a member of this forum for almost 2.5 years now, and maybe a bit active since the past 6 months. This forum has seen the most ups and downs, and survived through it. Why can't we just approach this in that manner too? If RR fans want to be heard, let them be heard but they need to realize that RR and RK are different from AD and JW and this stands for the RK fans too.


I agree that we have being using names since a while now, but they have generally been with good reason and accepted by all. We never had the problem of someone going against it. However now, people have problems and it is all of our duty to respect sentiments. Why can't we bash characters without calling them perverts or whatever else they have been called? Why can't we express our point of views without taking names and giving names? It might be hard to do that but surely not impossible! Why can't each set of fans highlight the good in their guy instead of name calling the other?


About new members being welcomed in, I think we need to improve on that arena, because though we welcome them in, in the 'hi, welcome to the forum' kind of way, we ignore posts, or topics by them afterwards. And this happens with the not so active members also. Everyone is not given a fair chance because even though they may express their point of view, if there is no response, they eventually stop. This has happened with me too, and me being a very old member, so the plight of the new members is obviously much worse!


My last appeal/request to everyone and I have said this many a times before and I am going to repeat myself. There are a lot of members who forget that this serial is a piece of fiction, a figment of imagination, unreal and not affecting a person in his life otherwise in the true sense of the word. Please realize Roshni Chopra is different from Pia, Ram Kapoor different from Jai Walia, Ronit Roy different from Aparajit Deb. They are actors, enacting the roles given to them and most of the times, they themselves are unhappy playing the parts. PLEASE KEEP THE ACTOR AND CHARACTER SEPARATE(sorry for the caps mods, but it needed to be highlighted!)


This is my two cents and I humbly apologise if I have hurt anyone's sentiments in any way.


Shruti
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Posted: 18 years ago
#62
Majumdar: Yes, i agree with that..but can we leave that for JW to say it to PD?..and not us to bash her through calling PD Dhandhewali?

We have to remember guys...KS Actors do visit this forum, even if they dont log in under their username...they might be just roaming around...also like RK said in his interview, Ekta n her cratives do come to KS and read each and every person's view

Like Shruti said above, we HAVE to remember, Pia and RC are different people, along with JW/RK and RR/AD...also dont forget PD/BD/DD....we just cannot go out on open forum like this and bash these people

yes i agree, everyone has their rights on discussion due to open forum..but personal attacks/actor bashing is a complete NO NO

you guys can call JW a Wimp as long as it is not harsh on JWs Character and if the people participating in that discussion, doesnt start bashing each other/other characters from KS

Edited by ~Pachu*n*Abhi~ - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#63
Pachu,

(but can we leave that for JW to say it to PD?..and not us to bash her through calling PD Dhandhewali?)

Sorry I didnt get u at all. Who called PD a dhandewali? 😕 😕 😕

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: babethatsme

Alright, I am as usual coming in late, but that has never stopped me from posting my two cents! welcome anyways...

Firstly I think this post is called for, there is a lot of AD/JW and RK/RR more than it is necessary, though I don't think it is right on anyone's part to single JB fans/despos. i agree...and i dont think that this particular one is called for tho...but i agree that singling out JB fans is just biased
I have been a member of this forum for almost 2.5 years now, and maybe a bit active since the past 6 months. This forum has seen the most ups and downs, and survived through it. Why can't we just approach this in that manner too? If RR fans want to be heard, let them be heard but they need to realize that RR and RK are different from AD and JW and this stands for the RK fans too. totally agree... but see shurts some people dont get that...ok we cans say that we dont like certain person but calling them names is totally diff. and i have not seen any JB fans doing that to RR...i mean calling him names...


I agree that we have being using names since a while now, but they have generally been with good reason and accepted by all. We never had the problem of someone going against it. However now, people have problems and it is all of our duty to respect sentiments. Why can't we bash characters without calling them perverts or whatever else they have been called? Why can't we express our point of views without taking names and giving names? It might be hard to do that but surely not impossible! Why can't each set of fans highlight the good in their guy instead of name calling the other? well shruts...we have been calling names but then if we didnt bash them how will we discuss...do u want to stay down if something wrong is taking place in serial and not voice our opinion? i think not...but see bashing is half calling names and if we dont do that then it is not a bash and no discussion...and u know we give names to all so no harm in that


About new members being welcomed in, I think we need to improve on that arena, because though we welcome them in, in the 'hi, welcome to the forum' kind of way, we ignore posts, or topics by them afterwards. And this happens with the not so active members also. Everyone is not given a fair chance because even though they may express their point of view, if there is no response, they eventually stop. This has happened with me too, and me being a very old member, so the plight of the new members is obviously much worse! ok shruts its better to ignore than creating a fight...dont u agree. if u dont like wat they say and dont want to respond then its better than to say anything have some verbal violence there..


My last appeal/request to everyone and I have said this many a times before and I am going to repeat myself. There are a lot of members who forget that this serial is a piece of fiction, a figment of imagination, unreal and not affecting a person in his life otherwise in the true sense of the word. Please realize Roshni Chopra is different from Pia, Ram Kapoor different from Jai Walia, Ronit Roy different from Aparajit Deb. They are actors, enacting the roles given to them and most of the times, they themselves are unhappy playing the parts. PLEASE KEEP THE ACTOR AND CHARACTER SEPARATE(sorry for the caps mods, but it needed to be highlighted!) i agree...i agree totally here...well said👏👏👏


This is my two cents and I humbly apologise if I have hurt anyone's sentiments in any way. no probs shruts babe...its ok we all do and u voiced urs and i mine


Shruti

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: majumdar

Pachu,

(but can we leave that for JW to say it to PD?..and not us to bash her through calling PD Dhandhewali?)

Sorry I didnt get u at all. Who called PD a dhandewali? 😕 😕 😕

Rgds,

Pri



I meant BD..Bani...not Prachi...sorry

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#67
Mamat,
plz plz i beg of you to close this and take this biased warning back...i know u like AD but plz you know us..we have been doing it for a while and singling us out is not good plz plz take this back and close this it really is uncalled for...
im begging u and i u want i can go down on my knees and beg u and then take a pic and send u so plz close it!
you are bing biased and u know it so plz close it! plz plz plz! pretty plz with cherry on top!
plz with godiva chocolates!
plz!
rooj
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Posted: 18 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: rooj-i

Ok Mamta, Hey Rooj I am back before making my opinion I will tell you few things I have been a member of I-f for almost 2.5 years , and in the entire time I have not seen a forum that is obsseive about the leads like ks fourm is. Many of my friends have known me has a JB supporter and Jai fan but I am being fair to everyone.


this is really uncalled for...you are being biased here.. this is not called for rooj this is need, I am not being baised I think I am being fair to both everyone. As a viewbie my job is to be a peacemaker in this forum and not take sites, as I have to admit that I was letting members and groups slide by. As a viewbiew and as member I also felt that KS forum is becoming a war zone and its not welcoming as the other forums. Saarthi, Kyunki, WRMK, KGGK are some of the nicest forum on I-f maybe some are not active like Kasam Forum but the members are all welcoming and friendly. In Kyunki when you go there if you are tripit fan or Ansh members still welcome you with a smile and let you give your opinion with members of others characters ganging up on you.just because there is a majority of JB fans here doesn't mean that we are creating a havoc all the RR fans are doing the same...
i haven't seen and JB fans name calling an actor or actress but RR fans have to RK... here is a example i have taken the members name out but see where is the fairness in this


and you are singling us out Mamta...i agree with Sammy, Rivs, and Megs on this...this totally is uncalled for. Rooj I am not signaling anyone out, and I am thinking for everyone. I was remaining silent on the injustice being done to the RR fans, so I took a discussion which might be harsh on JB despos/Rk fans, but too me its justice. It looks like too me and too many of the members who have become silent and the member who love AD and Bani's pairing along with JB or love AD with Jai that when agree with JB fans or certain members we are good and get claps, hugs but when we don't members come attacking in groups or even some members have gotten personal attack by like RR/AD through pms. When the members voice our opinions or go against the JB/Munna/Munni campers they get harsh words and hatred and get attacked. (Do not say this is not true because many other members know this is the truth and there is thread in it) Where is the justice? Where is the fairness? When RR/Ad or AD/Druga. Pia Supporters or when they get bashed left right and center by the group. We just seat there and read and wash a member or fans getting bashed or encourage another group or members.
i agree whenever us JB fans try to say our opinion the RR fans just attack us too in personal terms at time... Doesn't that thread get closed by a viewbie or a mod? I have closed some threads regarding attacks whether its RK ya RR fans.
and not to mention we have told them that they should really stay off the topic if they know that we are not going to agree with them.. I thought everyone has the right to voice their opinions whether the other party agrees or not! We are all mature adults and we should be mature to understand each other and respect each other point of view. JB members also go and do the same thing but some stay out and some ignore the post .i have overlooked some... and plus we are welcoming them and from day one we gave them warning that we call names to all our characters and if they dont like it then they have to suck it up...but mamta we all know we call all the characters names yahan tak ke JB too..so if they dont like it then they need to suck it up...because we call all the characters that and you know but this warning is uncalled for...we dont attack them but in fact they do attack us everything is fair and square, neither of the side is innocent as they say ek haath say tali nahi bhajti.
and besides we are voicing our opinion...and if u think voicing our opinion is attacking then im sorry but your wrong.. There is a limit with voicing opinions and saying stuff, and also with name calling no matter who you are whether you are an RK or RR fan or coolbie or dev team member. .and plz RR fans are not less either so plz close this warning coz it is uncalled for.. Rooj I am not closing the warning, and I am not allowing this warning to be closed by any of the KS Dev Team members this thread will be opened and members will post their opinions, whether most members agree with this thread or not. Some of the I-F Dev Team Members agreed with the warning most they thing is necessary and is needed. This thread will only be closed when we get a red or green signal from the big bosses.

Sorry piku and others but this is my opinion and it is night time so sorry if i offended anyone...
and i did welcome RR fans but they are taking it a wrong thing... We were all harsh in welcoming the RR fans even myself I had realized my mistake.


rooj




Edited by ziddi - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Shruti,

(yes but then when we ignore, and im speaking for all of us, they are bound to get disheartened, and some new members are JW supporters, so why not JW supporters welcome JW supporters and AD supporters, AD supporters. Why can't we make this forum a bit more welcome and a bit more friendly?)

On the friendly part:

I won't comment on AD supporters v/s JW supporters. But I will comment a bit on Munna campers v/s Bani Briagdiers. Some of us campers (Mahim, Ash, Arch, Me) have been having a running gunbattle with some of the Brigadiers (Simi, Meena, Swati) ever since the PR days ( sometimes using the most twisted logic to attack each other's idols) and yet we have remained the best of friends. In fact u wud most often find us hanging out on the same thread, exchanging friendly banter.

I am afraid that it is some people who can't seem to distinguish between the character and the actor who plays the role who have spoiled things on this Forum.

Rgds,

Pri

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