Pia the Abuser/Jai Walia the Victim

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Jai Waila's Fatal Attraction

An analysis from the context of story and character progression.

Five years later Pia, Jai Walia's one time bride to be, his SIL, his rapist, his
wife's "murderer", one of his debatable parentage child's mother is still at
the Walia Mansion, and has acquired as Rano puts it hesiat and izzat and
all she ever wanted in life. Jai Walia's Fatal Attraction.

The real Dhandhewali right under his roof.


So, how did it get to this point in time?


Let's start from the beginning.

First of all Jai Walia and his attraction towards women... He seems to have
gone after the type A personalities in his life—Roshni, Sonali, and Pia—
His sister Jigyasa belongs to that group also… He was attracted to women
who knew what they wanted, they were
beautiful from the outside, and were go getters…they looked good on his
arm and were social in nature, well, in the party socialite scene at least.
There is nothing wrong in that, it's the world he belonged to.


Pia—Pia according to me is one of the vainest characters ever. She can be
characterized as an abuser. Abusers are generally very needy and
controlling; the abuse escalates when they feel they may lose their
partner,-their object of affection or when the relationship ends. From the
beginning she was shown as selfish and vain, (these characteristics just
got more obvious as the character progressed). The word, Vanity, which
derives from the word vain, is the excessive belief in one's attractiveness
to others. It is one of the seven deadly sins in Christianity.

It's her vanity that leads to her self absorption and her self obsession. It
is this one characteristic that leads her to covet the things in life that are
not hers but she thinks she deserves them because she is worth it. Her
looks are worth it and she deserves it because she is beautiful…she is
truly vain….this vanity in her breeds negative emotions like reed, envy
and obsession. She is obsessive about the things she desires and will go
to any lengths to get them as we have witnessed what she did to Bani. I
have always mentioned that this character will go into Bani Killer Mode
and she did. Pia was never going to let
Bani come out of the MA (going by her character progression) She would
have made sure that her sister died in there before stepping out after the
5year period. (And Jai Walia in his prayer to God stated that he is unable
to help Bani and only God can send someone to save her) This obsessive
behavior can indeed be classified as psychotic, she is a dangerous enemy
of Bani—there can be no redemption for this character ever because she
is aware of what she has done has no remorse over her actions—As she is
shown in the current track without remorse than she cannot be redeemed
at all...all she is good for is going to the loony bin—most vain, self
obsessed characters in drama have tendency to go mad—or die. Its better
that they die… Go into a MA or DIE---maybe that will be her end.

Now Jai Walia had said to Pia he loved her, wanted to marry her and
proposed marriage to her and even when Bani was married to him, he had
said to Pia that "Pyar tune kiya, Shaadi Usne"—powerful words for an
obsessive woman's ears (despite the circumstances under which these
words were spoken, they were spoken and that cannot be denied). Pia left
no stone unturned to get her personal property Mr. Walia. She has never
seen her own sister, Bani, as Mrs. Walia—she has always seen herself as
Mrs. Walia. And regarded Jai Walia as her personal property. To her, Jai
Walia is hers and hers only. For one mistake that she made of running
away from her own marriage, which she has never been able to overcome,
she wants what she considers to be hers and hers only. Recently her tone
has changed to one of love for him but she has been consistent in that –
in Dubai she said she loved him and currently she says she loves him—
that is one thing consistent in her. She says that she gave up everything
for his love even her sister. Her obsessive love for him has turned her into
a monster. She needs to see a therapist badly. She needs help. Pia
will always be there in front of Mr. Walia not as a protective shield but as
a no entry barrier. So, Pia is Jai Walia's fatal attraction that he can do
nothing about. She took away his beloved wife, his sanity, his self, his
identity, his everything, yet he is unable to overcome her.


A good question to perhaps ask here to the creatives of this male
character would be what is the reason behind JW to be cremated
in this way by having him be with this monster, his fatal attraction...
Is it the nature of the attraction???

---Over this past five years, he never had the inclination or thought of
trying to get the full custody of his children. (He could have hired a
private detective and shown the court her gambling, drinking alcohol,
prove her to be an unfit mother. but that has not happened in this past
five years. If anything happens to him tomorrow how is his children's
future secure…he is a father now –how are Bani's children going to be
treated by their own mother's enemy, murderer? Jai Walia has not thought
about that yet?


---It never occurred to him to try to investigate Sahil's murder case by
hiring private detectives and trying to find the real culprit. At least for
Bani's sake, bring shanti to Bani's atma.

Finally, it is fair to conclude that
this is an abusive relationship, the problem here is that the victim is
unable to free himself from the grasp of the abuser. In all abusive
relationships this is a common pattern that the victim accepts the abuse
because
they see no way out. However, the way out can only manifest if the victim
becomes aware of what the abuser is doing. Awareness is a very
important issue, the recognition of the abuse, it's the first step and then
comes the desire to free oneself out of this abusive situation…sometimes
with drastic consequences…like the victim will finally kill the abuser….

In order for the JB equation to progress in the future, the JP equation
has to be completely annihilated first and foremost….Pia has to be
obliterated from Kasam Se


well even now he is using her help to get to AD….so
much for hatred he has…….. Finally after reading all this and writing
more……. We can safely come to a conclusion that final nail on the coffin
of the character of JW was nailed today………….kudos to creatives for
being a pea brain………..We hope they continue the saga in this JP way
which will help us lose our addiction………………………………….
---

this post by MJ & AP
(thank u all who contributed their thoughts in making this text, u know
who u are)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Anju, I agree with you and that is exactly what many of us have been telling...Creatives always destroy one character to develop another...Be it Jai, Bani or even Massi...Now for AD, Bani is totally being made a spineless and brainless girl...If you compare that to the start of KS, Bani was one of the dignified characters...Same with Jai - lot of loopholes and butchering...

Now, AD...i am not sure for how long he is going to remain strong - going by history it's not going to be too long 😕
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Posted: 18 years ago
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OH wow BAvie!!!
i can't believe this but you are absolutely right!!!
they have butchered Jai's character so much that he is unable to become the same JW that he was before...
and Pia...well she's the same but she has lost her true identity and she won't be redeemed at all...
i can't believe that the lurkers or so called creatives would go to this extent...a ten year old kid can think better than them!!!
i solely and fully blame the kreatives for all this!!!
i mean where is the old team? they were much better but the new one...they are horrible to the 'e'...i mean they are going to no where...their destination is nothing with this plot!
i've said it before and i'll say it again if they don't realize their mistake then they are going to loose whatever is left of KS!!!
KS means JB and JB means KS!!!
rooj
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: laal_mirch

ok well to be frank.............. i dont think bani is dignified character.....she is more like the person who hides things.............. first about pia love from JW then kiran death from pia and rano....( the murderer).......then she was moving around with tarun with a secret...........

ok i am not telling u JW didnot hide things............... well.............he did.......... becoz he is grey but bani is more white............ when she does such things the dignity goes.........................

so what i am trying to tell here is...........Only JW character is butchered..........other characters are phir bhi ok.................... but as a main character.............. he is sacrified everytime.............which becoz annoying after sometime



Dear, I am talking about Bani in the start, like really in the start even before Pia's issue came about...When the three sisters just landed Mumbai...But yes, JW has been butchered a lot...and is till being butchered and will continue and it really very difficult to get back the charm of JW back..mainly because JW has to throw Jigs, Pia and Karuna out of Wm and give it back to them and that would be at least a little bit justification to JW but that would never happen cos Jigs and Pia has to stay inWM for the story to continue...SO more JW butcher in happen

PS : Anju'kka dont you think the mere fact that they made Bani hid PP love from Jai is butchering of Bani's character since she had to be white.🤔😕
Edited by Je_aime - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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for once anju i agree with you! 😆
they really need to pull this off the air before it's too late...its better to end on a good note than a bad note and may it be early or late but its much better to end it on a good note!
and that is exactly what should happen...
i agree!
rooj
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: laal_mirch

ok well to be frank.............. i dont think bani is dignified character.....she is more like the person who hides things.............. first about pia love from JW then kiran death from pia and rano....( the murderer).......then she was moving around with tarun with a secret...........


ok i am not telling u JW didnot hide things............... well.............he did.......... becoz he is grey but bani is more white............ when she does such things the dignity goes.........................


so what i am trying to tell here is...........Only JW character is butchered..........other characters are phir bhi ok.................... but as a main character.............. he is sacrified everytime.............which becoz annoying after sometime


Right on. To add to the list. She never( NEVER)talked sense into pia..When pia away with Pushkar, she became the sacrificial lamb and sat on the mandap... when pia had her abortion, she just asked her once and let the matter rest. common, she didn't even try to clear the misunderstanding pia had during the diverce-alimony fiasco, that she loved jw. Pia used this to her advantage in Dubai & compltely turned tables against bani. Bani believed Pia every single time & always chose her over jw. bani let her remove her mangalsutra during Pia's amnesia natak. It was only Rano who really saw what Pia was upto.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: laal_mirch

true........but to bani it was done less number of times.......than it is done to jai......thats all .................

and rooj beta............

yeah then they can start kasam se 2 after like 3 or 4 months

with younger RK..........and nice praci.......no pia plz.........



Amen to that Anju'kkaa....would so love it...😃 and no AD also for the sake of my own sanity...😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Je_aime



Amen to that Anju'kkaa....would so love it...😃 and no AD also for the sake of my own sanity...😉


OMG me too anju and meena!!!
i would love to see that!!
rooj
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Bavi I feel The same too why hasnt JW kicked the Witch out of WM and got sole custody of the kids . it seems he has no Influence Power , connections to help him rid of a annoying Rodent PIA ..?
When Atharva was kidnapped .. How promptly had JW called the Commisoner ..then he hired Goons ..which he could have done previously and framed pia in Sahils murder instead ..of his own wife .
I think this Jai as dukhidass is a temporary phase and soon jai will be the lovey dovey ..mr lova Lova - Daddy Cool ..etc etc .
I had hoped to see Raging Bull in action after the leap .. But ...Alas . J the Victim u can say that agian ..
Edited by klueless - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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like i said klue...these creatives take us for fools...which is not good at all!!!
i think they need to rrealize their mistakes...
a little kids is much better than them 😆 😆 😆
rooj

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