The Hypocrisy of Massi the Great - Page 7

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Cordy dear wecloem back, missed you a lot.

😊

See I am not condoning what Masi did, but as one of my friends pointed out, it was an instantaneous reatcion on her part, the past was once again in front of her.

And as the senior, she had to step in. Agree it should have been Bani's call, but do you think that she is in the right condition to take any step?

Its debatable whether she did right or wrong but let me tell you, I am sure she killed herself too. This is the son she brought up, dont you think it hurt her too to throw him out?

Originally posted by: mom101

I am going strongly to disagree with you. I work with women who leave abusive realtionships. often men will comment that a woman is a woman's worst enemy because we do not stand up for each other. As a woman I was proud that a mother in law stood strong for her daughter in law. She proved to the world that her daughter in law is truly her daughter and her pain is that of a mother. As an Indian one of our flaws has been that we forgive our sons almost everything. We always like Jigassa justify that men are not wrong like she said yeaterday oh well he needed a child or he was pushed into this. We women need to move away from this kind of thinking. What is wrong is wrong. Jai threw out Bani when he thought she was pregant with another man's child. He called her a whore and now he had done the same. Same crime, same punishment. I am so glad of today's episode. I feel we women have moved o years further. I hope all mother in laws take note.

WOW..... I utterly agree with you that... and as for PIa's punishment.... She should get one equal to Jai's but we havent come to that yet...letes see what happens in next weeks epis ...

Cordy well come back hun... 🤗

And I stll think it's not him who will leave... even though if he does... there is no point to it because Bani will eventually leave WM... simply because she wouldnt be able to survive leaving inside that hurricane place... everything will remind her about him...!!!!! God I wish she leaves....

Originally posted by: lonely14

Cordy,

You are right, Jai only cried for his baby, because if he cared for pia even an ounce he wouldn't have thrown her out of the WM. Just a little care would've stopped him, but we can be sure that he doesn't care for pia, his major concern is not the child but the guilt that the child will suffer due to his mistake.

As for massi, i just want to kill her.

I'll cry with you for my baby, he doesn't deserve this.😭😭😭

Shina

Originally posted by: bharti_hi

If not maasi, then who else wud punish Jai.

he's punishing himself more than neccessary. if maasi couldnt behave like a mother before now, she has no right to start dishing out punishment now.

This is called poetic justice, and is reflective of collective judgemnt ought to be passed by soiety (or for that matter, viewers).

so where's the poetic justice for jigyaasa's wheeling-dealing, for Bani's lies, for Pia's manipulations, for Massi's own inaction, for Pushkar's initial betrayal...? all the above has gone unpunished, so why is Jai suffering alone?

And one thing dear there's a proverb that goes smthng like this "Yatra pujati nari, tatra basatah devah"- where the woman is worshipped there resides the gods. And this is India man! 😊

of this, kekta is doing a great job in my opinion!! regardless of what the woman does, she is a goddess. she is never wrong, she is perfectly justified in everything she does. in kektaland it is always the man at fault, godliness is expected from him, and any flaw is torturously punished. because that's realism for you isn't it...

Originally posted by: nian

What would Jai say to justify his actions? He has accepted Pia's child as his....is there anything else left to be said. If he had questioned the child's paternity or for once believed that he was not capable to do something like this it would have been a different ball game........So I fail to understand what justification would he have given to Masi or anyone else.....

The only reason why we would defend Jai is because we know that he did not do anythign and it was Pia reptile all the way but if u look at the circumstance and the situation in the serial itself u understand Massi's reaction. Having said that I too do think Massi went overboard with her actions today.........Disowning him would have been enough... But we should remember that this is the reel life so actions are amplified a lot by directors and Maayi.....

Nidhi

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Bani did not hear the truth from the third party, she ehard it straight from Jai.And she saw Jai kissing Pia on her forehead and saying that - I can lose everything in life but not my kid. What else does she need to know?And its so humiliating too. All these days, she had been played into a fool by everybody (cos everybody wanted her happiness) and that too concernign a woman, who is not only her sister but also the same person who had left Jai at the altar.

Originally posted by: Cordelia

i did not want to comment on Bani's reaction - hers is completely unsurprising from what I have read, especially since she saw everything with her own eyes. and in that situation i too would run from the scene and react that way. i completely agree with you in that respect!

i was simply commenting on Massi - no offence meant! 😊 she had a big part in playing her own son for a fool, and now she chooses to react - it made me very angry!

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I agree everybody played a fool of JW and Bani. Your anger is justified but I am trying to be open to everybody's feelings.