Bani bashing :( - Page 2

Originally posted by: troy

Agree with Rosh above. She is not mature enough to handle the problems she takes on. Besides the character is portrayed to be lacking in basic good manners, she goes snooping in others' rooms, she has no respect for others' privacy. In her haste to get justice done to Pia, she completely blocks out best friend Pushkar and his feelings. Doesn't she realize the anguish all this will bring on Pushkar? But I guess, she has tunnel vision, cannot see beyond her blood relations. So while everyone labels her very sacrificing and "mahaan", I tend to think she is very opiniated and selective in her good deeds. KS would have ben better off without her "greatness".

she has no manner she has more that her sisters shes the one who fufills her roles..snooping why should she not ..people in that house are not so great lying all the time..are they not all doing something wrong thats not the worst thing..well pias the one shes looking after ..and like i said sees her has a daugther....pushkars not pregneat he can get on his life..bani wants pias kids to have a father...shes not opinionated at all ..All the times shes done jassoosi has been because your mahaaaaaannnnn Jai has lied

Originally posted by: rosh-06

rosh-06 wrote:
My question will be what good has she done.

To list few of her so called good deeds

Her so called crusade to save Jai's property lead to her divorce, demise of her child, ONs bet jai and pia which further distroyed her life, pushkars and her sis's too. She did it to save his property...either way that divorce would have happened....say she did not save jais life ..what life would the kid and her have without the father she went with her gut instint..it was jais stupidity that ruined her life

It would have been saved otherwise also if she would have maturity to talk it out to people concern. How was he stupid when he didn't knew anything. No but i mean if he had not had the ons his property would have been saved by bani like it was and could get on with his life but he did if she told him what would that acheive hes lied so much banis honest most time

Her so called stand for her mother's accident turned to be a totally hypocritic and stupid act. Why was it hypocritical and stupid

Because when it was rashi's mother it was accident and Jai was not culprit but when it was her own family it was a major crime. Where was her trust and sense of justies. Why didn't she try to find everything before leaving him. It was childish act. Tommorow if there is an accident will the person invloved in accident be resposible. It is called accident for a reason. No what could she say if it was someone elses mum she would have left him either way ..obviously if its own family she was gonna be more shocked ...why should she ...he lied to her and got married to her and engaged to pia despite thinking he killed her..it was a accident but its the afterwards that makes it worse...any whethere on purpose or not would you forgive someone who supposedly ran down your mum

Her forcing pia to marry lead to her running. As much as i like pia even at the time i thought that was a stupid decision...bani was only trying to get her to do the right thing

Than she should have told Jai truth and done right things. Well she probably would have if his own sister had not manipulated her into it..also jai should have had sense to refuse but he went ahead as well

So problem here is that she lack maturity to handle things. Another thing is she is not fair in her dealings. When it comes to her family all is fair. Maturity jais the one lacking that lying all the time bani tries to do the right thing..her family =her sister .. she is fair but you see her has a sister but she is more a mother ...if you look from that prespective it is fair

I don't say he is mature. But she is not mature at all. She is still more worried abt who distroyed her sis life what abt pushkar whose life her sis distroyed. That shows how fair she is. whats so unfair pia needs her more than pushkar what can she do or say to him..her main priorty is finding the father of kid

Curiousity killed the cat- bani is perfect example of that. She is too curious in everybody else life rather than manage her own. No its not ...people should not like simple has..i am gonna admit something ..i am very suspicious person so tend to know when people lie..and i hate that so i do tend to want to find out..banis i guess is the same ..she usually has her reasons for wanting to know


Because when it was rashi's mother it was accident and Jai was not culprit but when it was her own family it was a major crime. Where was her trust and sense of justies. Why didn't she try to find everything before leaving him. It was childish act. Tommorow if there is an accident will the person invloved in accident be resposible. It is called accident for a reason.

Originally posted by: troy

Its high time she starts seeing her sisters as adults rather than underaged minors who need to be handheld all the time. If they are old enuff to sleep around outside marriage, they better be ready to take on the consequences. Give me a break!!! What is she going to do when she "finds" the father? Its not her place to ask him to accept PIa and the child. Pian and Pushkar need to sort things b/w themselves, Bani needn't interfere and make things worse. Who knows, maybe Mrs. Shukla's stepping in will help both move on. Jai's deceit is not being condoned and I can write reams on it. It is a separate issue and he deserves to be bashed up for all his lies. HAving said that, Bani is also not someone who can be placed on a pedetal and worshipped. It can be quite sickening for normal people to live with her on a continuous basis.

Well she is older to pia and has a older sister she probably feels responsible ...we do not know why she wants to find him yet...whats wrong if she does wanna talk to him ...she has every right has a older sister /carer for them to..does a parent give up caring when the kid grows up?? same goes for bani..its not sicking just because she trys to do the right thing.

Originally posted by: troy

If that is the case and she feels both Mr. Walia and she are parent figures in her younger sisters lives, why cant she be upfront with JAi and tell him the real reason for her going to Dubai. Both husband and wife are playing this cat and mouse game with each other.. I guess in the next episode they will show Bani going to the temple to beg forgiveness for lying to her Ram like husband !!!!!!

he probably will stop her ....they both do really ! but banis not at fault she does it for right reaons....😆 do not know why ! hes not even close.