Originally posted by: armana
I agree she has been selfish and all, but is it really her fault?
er....she is the one who forced herself onto him, he distinctintly said "No" and "This is wrong"
But when in love do you really think about anything else? Isn't love another type of drug where you can't think beyond it? i mean i know love is also sacrifice, but that comes later on, first it is selfishness.
I mean before the KC episode, pia didn't know that her di and jiju were in love with each other did she?
only beacuse she did not want to believe it! Rano TOLD her in so many words!!! And she never asked Bani even once!!! I don't think an affadavit signed by both J&B would convince her! she believes only what she wants to!
Was bani in the condition to ask? come on bani left JW, and filed for divorce, claimed alimony. thinking it from pia's perspective isn't that proof enough that bani doesn't love jai? Pia did confront jai though, even though he gave an indirect reply, but pia needed a direct reply.
She was still under the illusion that JW somewhere still had feelings for her. You can't really blame her for that. if you think about it from her character's point of view.
I'm sorry but was she blind to JW desperately trying to get Bani back? what was that or did she think it was only for a child? Even if that was the case, she does not Understand Anything about one sister- Bani and does not want to believe anything the other one-Rano- says? bas, jo Pia khud sochte hai wahi theek hai? Weird!
Probably she thought JW wanted JUST the baby(even though we know that's not the case, but thinking from the character's perspective). well isn't that how our minds work generally? what we see we believe, but what others say we can't comprehend that?
and the line "i'll reveal it when the time is right" i completely agree with her, the truth has to come out, and Pushkar NEEDS to know.
If she has decided anyways that she does not want him back in her life, then NO! she should keep quiet. Anyways, she says she wants "Pushkar's happiness" So, in Pia speak that means not only dumping him but also hurting him?!
but doesn't pushkar deserve to know the truth to move on? i mean he is so in love with her, may be after the truth, he will be able to move on, and instead of hurting him, she'll only be helping him by telling him the truth.
If we expect JW to tell bani the truth, then why shouldn't pia do the same?
Because we want the J&B relationship to survive, their marriage to work, and that is what both J&B also want! Pia no longer wants to be with Pushkar. She willingly committed Adultery! she did not have even the fig leaf of having signed divorce papers to hide behind!
yeah see, since Jai and bani are the main leads we expect that. and since we know pia is going to turn "negative" we expect her to be quiet? why is that? a negative character can't speak the truth? as i said earlier when in 'LOVE' you don't think about anything else. and she was technically "seperated" from pushkar.
Think about it from her point of view, everything she has been doing, is a normal person's reaction.
Define normal: if u mean what has always behaved like, then yes, you r right: she is self-obsessed and selfish to the point that she only cares about what she wants never about the price others have to pay for it. there is no balance, she takes, others pay.
while being all that, she did care about her sisters too, in her own weird sort of way. we can't expect everyone to be mahan like bani is now can we?
Pia's character is the only one besides JW that is close to reality
I'm not sure that reality is what ks is about, or what some of us watch it for. In any case all the bloopers/blunders are enough to make it worse than reality!!! and i'm not sure of either: that JW's character is close to reality or that the others are so far from it.
hmmmm😕
Shina
Great questions btw. i loved responding to them! thanks.
Armana
thanks!!!! nice points by you too!!!!!
