Whys Jai So Cold-Hearted Towards Bani? - Page 7

I feel the same way...his behaviour towards Bani is unexplainable

Originally posted by: majumdar

As far as I am concerned, I am 200% convinced that JW is in love with Bani and no one else. It is just that he is terribly ashamed and guilty of what he has done and that he cannot look his wife in her eye particularly after encountering the depth of her love for him and the knowledge of what sacrifices she has done for him.

As far as Pia is concerned, he is only feeling guilty for what he has done with her, which only shows him to be a person who has some conscience left. I dont think he is even remotely interested in her, he would just like to apologise to her, and have a talk to her with to get on with their lives.

Rgds,

Priyanka

exactly what i feel

I hope that JW does not turn out to be a hypocrite and liar above all else....The character is already destroyed as far as I am concerned but please abide by all you have said about your wife...the trust, the love u stated u had for her.....SHOW THE WOMAN SOME AFFECTION AT LEAST INSTEAD OF BEING SO COLD otherwise set her free let her go so she can at least find a man who can truly love her 100% - she deserves that....help her keep her dignity intact and tell her the truth whether you love her or not so at least she stops falling all over you like a love sick pup!!!!

Bani deserves so much better!!!!! At least you owe her that much Jai!!!!

hi guys. nice to read all ur comments.
i am kind of new...watch the shows, but never really particiapted in discussion.
KS has led me to join! that's how powerful it was...until now.
i really dont wnat jai and bani to break up.
i know he did the wrong thing, but i still want him to be in love with her.
if he is feeling guilty...good. but if he has doubts about her and some pull towards pia...NO!!!
i think that with time, bani and jai will start getting closer again...even inspite of pia thing. its like the start of their marriage again.
but i noticed on thing in today's episode...Jigs in the party seems to have noticed that there is soem tention with pia and maybe with jai also.
do you think that she is gonna pick up on that and then try to find out what is goign on and use it against bani?
i cant wait for them to go back to india...maasi will help bani. i dont knwo that bani can win back jai by herself with pia and jigs all around her in dubai.

renuka

Originally posted by: majumdar

As far as I am concerned, I am 200% convinced that JW is in love with Bani and no one else. It is just that he is terribly ashamed and guilty of what he has done and that he cannot look his wife in her eye particularly after encountering the depth of her love for him and the knowledge of what sacrifices she has done for him.

As far as Pia is concerned, he is only feeling guilty for what he has done with her, which only shows him to be a person who has some conscience left. I dont think he is even remotely interested in her, he would just like to apologise to her, and have a talk to her with to get on with their lives.

Rgds,

Priyanka

Ditto, completely agree with you. In that scene when Bani tells him about how she was trying to save him and never ever she wanted to hurt him etc...Jai's doesn't look cold hearted, in fact he looks like a guy who's trapped in a web of guilt...He knows how much Bani has done for him, he knows to what extent she has gone for him and how much she loves him and at a time when they are together again, he feels miserable for what he has done and I think whenver he looks at Bani, he just feels more guilty...

I think it's fair on his part to talk to Pia, after all he does need to speak to her once to try and sort things out, that's going to be the crucial part wherein we'll exactly get to know what's going on in his mind because till now we know what Pia and Bani feel, but at such we are still a bit clueless on what exatly Jai feels right now...

About Pia the less said the better, because she is just one selfish woman, who can't think of anyone else except herself...and is ready to trample her sister's life just for her own sake. She did that once before when she married Pushkar and she's again trying to do the same thing knowing fully well that Bani loves Jai...

There maybe a lot of confusions and twists and turns, but I am sure of one thing, Jai can't stop loving Bani just like that...even when she had the miscarriage and though it seemed he has lost everything, then also he just loved bani and no one else and that's clear from the fact when Pia tells him Bani loves Pushkar and not you...If Ekta is still adamant on showing that Jai has developed feelings for Pia, then I have nothing else to say except she's highly mistaken to consider the audience a bunch of fools...

Garf,

Pia still has a chance at redemption, if she keeps her mouth shut and leaves JW and B alone. But I doubt....

Rgds,

Priyanka

What I feel is that Jai is very guilty with what happened with Pia and he being a man who values relationships cannot accept that he did such a huge mistake! And he wants to apologise to Pia for what happened, even he did to Bani and when he felt that Bani didnt love him and it was because of alcohol he told her sorry for what happened and the passion what he had for Bani, he doesnt hv it for Pia, he is only concerned that she must be hurt and as far as his feelings for Bani has not changed, but he is not able to explain the mistake he committed, he knows very well that the day Bani gets to know about this, she will leave him and if he doesnt like Bani, he would hv told her in the first place, he wouldnt hv put the sindoor and mangalsutra on, when he could get up from the mantap seeing Bani, then why will he put sindoor if he feels anything for Pia? He is feeling bad because Bani didnt tell him the truth, I think he feels that if Bani had told him the truth earlier, he wouldnt committed this mistake, he is in too confused state to digest the truth! He has gone thru lot of pain, so give him some space to understand what exactly has happened, even now Bani hasnt told him the complete truth! And as per the article, it will focus on "Jai-Pia" angle and not love and also in Dubai Bani's true love would be revealed completely, so Jai will get to know the complete truth very soon! I m sure Jai and Bani will not break up, if it had to, then the divorce would hv happened and I think Ekta will not forget the Panditji's prediction! Somehow I hv a feeling that Ekta will not mess it as much as she has done with other serials!

Originally posted by: Garf

Ditto, completely agree with you. In that scene when Bani tells him about how she was trying to save him and never ever she wanted to hurt him etc...Jai's doesn't look cold hearted, in fact he looks like a guy who's trapped in a web of guilt...He knows how much Bani has done for him, he knows to what extent she has gone for him and how much she loves him and at a time when they are together again, he feels miserable for what he has done and I think whenver he looks at Bani, he just feels more guilty...

I think it's fair on his part to talk to Pia, after all he does need to speak to her once to try and sort things out, that's going to be the crucial part wherein we'll exactly get to know what's going on in his mind because till now we know what Pia and Bani feel, but at such we are still a bit clueless on what exatly Jai feels right now...

About Pia the less said the better, because she is just one selfish woman, who can't think of anyone else except herself...and is ready to trample her sister's life just for her own sake. She did that once before when she married Pushkar and she's again trying to do the same thing knowing fully well that Bani loves Jai...

There maybe a lot of confusions and twists and turns, but I am sure of one thing, Jai can't stop loving Bani just like that...even when she had the miscarriage and though it seemed he has lost everything, then also he just loved bani and no one else and that's clear from the fact when Pia tells him Bani loves Pushkar and not you...If Ekta is still adamant on showing that Jai has developed feelings for Pia, then I have nothing else to say except she's highly mistaken to consider the audience a bunch of fools...

Garf and Priyanka,

Beyond guilt I think Jai is still very angry with Bani. She has not explained everything to him. I think he might still blame her for the baby. I noticed how he shut her up when she was talking about loosing the baby. If Pia had not happened, Jai might not have taken bani back so easily. Not to say he does not love her. He does, but he is very upset with her, hence the detachment we see. For Pia i don't think he feels anything but regret and self disgust. I think he wants to talk to her to straighten things out and tell her to keep her mouth shut and being the gentleman maybe apologize (thought she does not deserve it)

Meghna

Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

hey Rose

😭😭😭i dont feel consoled because seeing is believing but sometimes eyes are decieving...so im all confused because what i saw was heartbreaking and i do not see guilt at all...and at tthe end Jai seemed as if he couldnt get away from Bani fast enough and he kept staring at Pia especially when she entered he diverted his attention towards Pia which even caused a stir in Bani to see what the commotion was..he certainly does have tthe best wife in the world, as viewers we got bored of Banis mahaan act but from a wife's perspective Bani fulfilled every possible duty to protect him.And its sad to see he couldnt do the same by fulfilling his duty to atleast be faithful...

i know ... it was not near any where to console our minds... for his expression was not of guilt but more of conern... no anger... too... how pity that he couldn't even look at Bani at least once with little longing in his eyes... this is the same person he was preaching over to tarun about to have a soul-soul rishta... kya hamara ears are cheating us... or did he forgot about those words he told... he could brush off roshini... so we know he is capable of... but then now... the soft corner is al ready created for her hearing her akelepan blurtings to him.. all those glittering is not gold... when he is going to find it with pia... how pure is bani in her thought is pushkar is somewhat same kind of person... then what pia saw in jai walia better than his in jai...

if jai throw away or pushed bani out from his room i wouldn't feel bad like this... but this is too much... giving her hope of a life and looking at someone else.... no this will not do... i wouldn't be surprise if i release a sigh if bani walk out of him... she better be left alone to live the rest of her life... she certainly deserve to be insulted as a woman like this, before it was verbal now his in full scale action...

i feel this somehow..... she may, like she tried to keep jiggy's and her sons backstabbing away from his to save him from a family split up or d eep pain, to keep his name and integrity in public she may decide to continue under one roof, just as those days as they did after their marriage.... how horrible it is going to be... there is very little chance of walking out of marriage since pia is not divorced... may be after this she may proceed to divorce pushkar but again jai may not want to leave her... again for him and for his family she will stay in that house, just living a life of woman with a mangal sutra... she herself told he trusted her for staying one n ight with pushkar didn't break his trust... she told him mistakes are not big enough to overlook the one u love...

the word red herring still not fully dead in me... the flame is very weak though still alive

Originally posted by: pmtwist

Hi Tink,

missed you on yesterdays post very much.....how are you ?

yaar you are right....i do not believe he can be such a jerk yaar......dono ke satth mazein liye....exactly those words......sorry to say but.... 😡 😡 😡 and then showing guilt all over the face....actually rather than guilt i do not know if it is suffocation or disgust......after this episode I think that he will go to pia and that will cause the years leap.....and pia is such a **** that she is going to really take Jai away from her own sister.....how selfish.....

I really hope to see a new entry in the serial...Tarun tha but woh to kuch kam ka hai nahi....the only hopes are now on this new business mans son...i hope he is really handsome and falls for Bani....Bani really deserves someone better.... not a JA !!!

Sonaliiiiiiiiiii🤗

im good how are you hun?

well i hope this new guy is Eijaz i think him and Bani will rock..i have no faith in ekta and i hope theres no leap it just ruins everything...neither Jai nor Pia are excusable for what they did and if both decide to reside together i think both need to be killed off i mean seriously ewww who is going to watch them two make out in every episode ewww once was bad enough but over and over again...🤢🤢like i have said many a times it WAS jai and Bani all the way however after his betrayal (if?) he does not deserve bani she can do so much better..i dont know what he feels im just going by the impression i got..and it looked more like suffocation than guilt