Whys Jai So Cold-Hearted Towards Bani? - Page 6

Frankly speaking I don't see any guilt ( which he should have when he is around bani ) rather he is acting super cold towards her ( which she doesnt deserve)

I am a big jai & bani fan and as much as I love jai .. I dont endorse his behavior towards Bani.

The Dori scene also - it had no impact whatsoever... it was just Bani was trying too hard to get Jai to tie that for her .. so he just did it.. no feeling at all

I still remember the yellow saree dori scene although it was followed by a harsh dialogue that I wil set you free .. still it showed Jai had feelings.

and then when Pia comes.. he is just superficially smiling with Bani when they are dancing...

I feel so bad for bani .. she is being way too nice.. way too romantic .. way too wifey.. and Jai is distancing herself....

In this phase I would rather want Bani to know about jai 's so called one night stand and his momentary weakness and then she should decide whether she should have been all this nice to him.

Its actually terrible to see that... but looking at the last scene when Pia is drinking away in glory Jai is bothered by it and he excuses himself from bani.. did you guys notice Bani's expression - to me it looked like whats going on Mr. Walia.. after a long time I am trying to be romantic etc etc.. and you are least bothered.


It breaks my heart to see Pia did this to her own sister ( who did so much for her)...

bani you should make a good decision after all when you do know about this.

However I sincerely hope that nothing happened between J&P.. but it does show the momentary weakness in this mighty character... no matter what why would u drink so much that u will lose all control and not even remember what happened the night before.

Disgusting... Jai.

bani please be a good human being and never forgive this act of his.. you did not deserve this.

Originally posted by: Cordelia

hi jaanu! so good to hear from you! 🤗

he is obviously very confused and overwhelmed and horribly guilty. and the way bani's behaving is making him feel even guiltier! then along comes pia every five mins to remind him!!

i dont think he's being cold-hearted, he just cant reciprocate like she can because of his guilt. he needs to tell her and get over it before someone else does it for him and he loses her again! she is the best thing that ever happened to him, he better come clean quick! 😕

hiya hun 🤗

aww thanks hope your well?

But the fact he is not reciprocating her feelings, i percieve as being cold hearted..i mean he seems to be able to try and call out Pia and explain, look at her without even flinching...yet the least he can do is hug Bani or reply I Loe You to avid her doubts or suspicion..to me he isnt showing remorse or guilt just feels like he is suffocated by her presence maybe because he has feelings for Pia..i dont know i just get the impression hes like urgghhhh move away move away towards Bani..yet when he sees Pia his eyes kinda show attraction..i really hope im wrong and your right and its guilt, but shouldnt he be feeling bad and trying to hide the fact something happened between him and Pia yet his dancing with Bani and staring at Pia which even makes Bani glance..hes causing suspicion himself

I doubt he will have the guts to tell her..but i seriously hope she finds out..you are right to say shes the best thing that ever happened to him but unfortunately if he did sleep with Pia then he is the worst thing that happened to her..

Originally posted by: Leonine27

Frankly speaking I don't see any guilt ( which he should have when he is around bani ) rather he is acting super cold towards her ( which she doesnt deserve)

Thank you, see he is cold really cold towards her, which like you mentioned she deserves none of it infact the complete opposite i am baffled as to why Jai is not yet trying to repent???

I am a big jai & bani fan and as much as I love jai .. I dont endorse his behavior towards Bani.

I was a big Jai and Bani fan..but he ruined it all saare kiye par paani pher diya..wether they did it or not he slipped..and he slipped big time..and thats the biggest insult to his wife and marriage

The Dori scene also - it had no impact whatsoever... it was just Bani was trying too hard to get Jai to tie that for her .. so he just did it.. no feeling at all

I still remember the yellow saree dori scene although it was followed by a harsh dialogue that I wil set you free .. still it showed Jai had feelings.

Exactly..the Dori scene was very fake on his part i think he touched her fingers and he stopped i dont know if he thought of Pia or guilt..but Bani deserves a helluva alot more then tying a dori as if he was forced to do it because shes his wife..he didnt even look like he wanted to...the first Dori scene when Bani was in yellow was the first scene he actually acknowledged her existence 😭😭and todays dori scene felt as if he wishes she wasnt there...

and then when Pia comes.. he is just superficially smiling with Bani when they are dancing...

he cant even look at bani,it all feels forced and just for the sake of it..his attention is fully diverted to Pia

I feel so bad for bani .. she is being way too nice.. way too romantic .. way too wifey.. and Jai is distancing herself....

but shes bound to be wifey...this the way she always was...looking ot for him doing things for him...and he was all hubby in return the only diffrence is he is no longer her hubby he has done the ultimate crime and shared himself😆ok that sounds funny but he has....

In this phase I would rather want Bani to know about jai 's so called one night stand and his momentary weakness and then she should decide whether she should have been all this nice to him.

i get the impression she knows...bur she has every right to know and he should have been a man and told her the truth the night she arrived rather than retaking his KC vows because their marriage realistically is over...it can never be what it was..it will always lack one vital ingriedient "trust"

Its actually terrible to see that... but looking at the last scene when Pia is drinking away in glory Jai is bothered by it and he excuses himself from bani.. did you guys notice Bani's expression - to me it looked like whats going on Mr. Walia.. after a long time I am trying to be romantic etc etc.. and you are least bothered.

that was the worst bit even when they were dancing and Pia walked in his attention diverted to Pia and caused bani to turn and see what her hubby was staring at...Bani must be suspicious the way he is behaving is odd...and they have reunited after along period of time and her hubby cant even spend time with her...???
It breaks my heart to see Pia did this to her own sister ( who did so much for her)...

Pia needs to be pushed off the nearest cliff i think Pia was swapped at birth she is no way a Dixit sister she has no brain...

bani you should make a good decision after all when you do know about this.

Bani im sure will forget it all..but realistically if that happened in society today its not that easy to forgive and forget..Pia is going to send bani right back into depression and suicidal mode.

However I sincerely hope that nothing happened between J&P.. but it does show the momentary weakness in this mighty character... no matter what why would u drink so much that u will lose all control and not even remember what happened the night before.

Disgusting... Jai.

the pair of them disgust me after everything she did for them, the sacrifices and the rest..and what does she get in return big fat betrayal,i dont know if they went all the way but Jai slipped by responding to Pias seducing...he was in his senses to express how much hurt the sisters had given him but yet he couldnt slap Pia and tell her where to go? just showed that maybe he wanted her as well....

bani please be a good human being and never forgive this act of his.. you did not deserve this.

No Bani did not deserve this nor Pushy..Bani needs to for once not be a saint and act like a human and do what a real person would do and kick them out of her lives...and try to sort her life out...neither deserves her😭😭

Thanks so much enjoyed reading and responding to your points😃

Hi Tink,

missed you on yesterdays post very much.....how are you ?

yaar you are right....i do not believe he can be such a jerk yaar......dono ke satth mazein liye....exactly those words......sorry to say but.... 😡 😡 😡 and then showing guilt all over the face....actually rather than guilt i do not know if it is suffocation or disgust......after this episode I think that he will go to pia and that will cause the years leap.....and pia is such a **** that she is going to really take Jai away from her own sister.....how selfish.....

I really hope to see a new entry in the serial...Tarun tha but woh to kuch kam ka hai nahi....the only hopes are now on this new business mans son...i hope he is really handsome and falls for Bani....Bani really deserves someone better.... not a JA !!!

I hope the new guy is Sagar from Dulhan. He is so hot and has a nice body and also he is younger than MR WALIA. Sagar flirting with Bani 😉 will make Jai really jealous, thats if he still has any feelings for Bani. 😕

Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

OMG Deewanee🤗

long time no seeeee i am good thanks, how are you hun?

Yep i can see your avi brings back the memories of the good old KS days..👏👏well done to Pia and Jai for ruining it all🤢

I hate the way he looks at Bani its disgusting..as if he doesnt want to be with her anymore..and he isnt showing any guilt ir remorse..i mean hes not even paying attention to her instead hes gawping at Pia, the poor girl poured her heart out and he just stood there no words of love or affection..what about when she hugged him and said i love you..he didnt even bother to embrace her oh gosh bless her..i hope him and Pia suffer big time for this

I am ok too... I think I started to post today or a day earlier.....oh yes...the old days....was wonderful....wasn't it......gosh, I miss the old days so much...😭 but anyways it's good to be back, missed u 🤗 and of course missing other's!😭

anyways no use of talking about the old memories..let's try to create new memories(eventhough they won't be as good as before😭)

but coming back to Jai....u r so right...what the heck, when Bani was telling him about how much she was in pain and how much she was suffereing...did u see his face...as if he didn't even want to hear about it! As if Bani is wasting his time!😡 And the minute he sees Pia, his face glows as if he was praying for her to come.... Not once did he told Bani that he loves her too...or hugged her tightly or hold her close to him and say something really sweet like "Bani, I don't want to loose u ever again!" or "Bani, I love u so much, I can't live without u"

I am just so angry at Jai...yeah u r right...I do hope both Jai and Pia will sufffer....they deserve it!😡

Originally posted by: pmtwist

....the only hopes are now on this new business mans son...i hope he is really handsome and falls for Bani....Bani really deserves someone better.... not a JA !!!

hey Sonali🤗 I did say hi to u in other forum...I think it was BMTD or JLH....how r u?

yeah, I really hope the son of the business man would be really handsome and would fall in love with Bani and would want to have her at any cost!

Because right now the way Jai is treating Bani....just disgusting! How many times did she tell him that she loves him, not a single time did he say it back to her...how many times did she hugged him not a single time did he hug her back....and when she is telling him about his pain, he loooks as if he don't care and he is very annoyed!😡 as if he is saying in his mind..."gosh Bani, can u shut up, I am waiting for Pia to come"!😡

He better change his attitude towards Bani, or else, that's it....he can't have Bani😆

The jAI WALIA that we knew has died after the dreadful night in dubai on the 3rd of october. the new jai walia is too disgusting, shameless and characterless creature.
he ahs no respect and love for his wife Bani. h ehas not even hugged her to say a big thanks for doing so much for him and his family.
Let him liv ehis life with the selfish, money-minded and bitchy pia.

Bani deserves a new man in her life who will love and respect her.
EKTA NOW PLEASE BE HAPPY. YOU HAVE SUCCEEDED IN KILLING THE PERFECT MR. JAI WALIA.
WE ALL HATE THE NEW JAI WALIA AND LET HIM ROT IN HELL WITH PIA...............................

Originally posted by: Dewanee

hey 🤗 I did say hi to u in other forum...I think it was BMTD or JLH....how r u?

yeah, I really hope the son of the business man would be really handsome and would fall in love with Bani and would want to have her at any cost!

Because right now the way Jai is treating Bani....just disgusting! How many times did she tell him that she loves him, not a single time did he say it back to her...how many times did she hugged him not a single time did he hug her back....and when she is telling him about his pain, he loooks as if he don't care and he is very annoyed!😡 as if he is saying in his mind..."gosh Bani, can u shut up, I am waiting for Pia to come"!😡

He better change his attitude towards Bani, or else, that's it....he can't have Bani😆

Hi dear... i did reply back to you in the other post.....yeah you are right he is changed in one night.......as if Bani why did you come back...i was going to enjoy your sisters company day & night 😡😡 and that woman Pia....god she is so down market !!! apni hi behen mili thi use saree duniya mein ????????????? Disgusting !!! I wonder what Rano will think when she hears abt her sisters karnama !!!!

As far as I am concerned, I am 200% convinced that JW is in love with Bani and no one else. It is just that he is terribly ashamed and guilty of what he has done and that he cannot look his wife in her eye particularly after encountering the depth of her love for him and the knowledge of what sacrifices she has done for him.

As far as Pia is concerned, he is only feeling guilty for what he has done with her, which only shows him to be a person who has some conscience left. I dont think he is even remotely interested in her, he would just like to apologise to her, and have a talk to her with to get on with their lives.

Rgds,

Priyanka