Iam NOT sorry about expressing my opinion - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lucky_Z

and dont ever think that members whom r elder or +senior than u , r not treating u as the others , no dear we all r equal here and everybody's opinion matters 😊 ..

so be HAPPY 😃 and ENJOY 😉 ..

Hi Lucky_Z

Thanks a ton for your unbaised viewpoint.....

But the key word on this forum seem to be " Sorry"..... Control... and DONT instead of freedom of speech....and this i will not take lying down...

Anyaways.. i ahve no problem with any new or old member but i will not take any objection simply on my seniority of lack of it lying down!... hence the calrification about my joing status... I wish people would do their homework before pointing fingers at others...

tata,
rocky25

i do agree and maybe in the midst of all this ppl have either just taken each other seriously or unseriously or taken offensive or vice versa....

when someone has sed their opinion another mite have taken offensive hence all this..its just a matter of everyone having their own opinions and views on a certain subject...and if someone agrees or disagree...everyone shud respect it whether it is good or bad and as lucky_z says...
..."BUT when u share ur opinion u should be prepared to get all kinds of responses ( agreements and disagreements )"

i as many others, wen i right something i dont intent to hurt anyone intentionally, so id like to say pls dont take it to heart.

Originally posted by: Lucky_Z

dear rocky 😊 ..

u may have misunderstood our thoughts and comments ..

c dear when we watch a scene n love the behaviour of the character in it , we sure adore n love the character ( if its jai or any other ..) and in this case we compliment the actor for carrying the scene soo well 👏 ..

and when we c a bad bahaved character , we criticise the character ( like: shameless pia , i wanna kill her , jerk jai 😉 ..) and we compliment the actor in this case ALSO for portraying the evilness well 👏 , BUT we dont bash the actor 4 what the character did , bcoz its simply not in their hand or power to change any single thing or line in the script , they r paid to do what they r told to , not for disagreeing or questioning anything .. the storyline is writen by KEKTA and she is the one to be blamed not the ACTORS ..

but YES , at this moment u can think that y didnt RAM refused doing this or rejected it .. but dear he CANT do such thing , n u should know and understand this literally 😊 ..

coming to expressing ur point of view ( in whatever u want ) .. well dear u have all the right to say and post anything u want and share it with us 😊 , BUT when u share ur opinion u should be prepared to get all kinds of responses ( agreements and disagreements ) , and as u posted ur view on a particular thing we also have the right to reply and post our opinion on what u said , don't we ?!! ..

SO us being harsh on u to NOT agree with ur take on bashing RAM 4 the character JAI , was JUST A POINT OF VIEW ALSO , it wasnt like U MUST NOT BASH HIM or something , we were just sharing our views also .. after all everything can be debated in a FORUM .. people have different views on everything ..

so plz dear dont take anything offensively an be hurt by someones reply to ur idea 😳 ..

and dont ever think that members whom r elder or +senior than u , r not treating u as the others , no dear we all r equal here and everybody's opinion matters 😊 ..

so be HAPPY 😃 and ENJOY 😉 ..

hi rockey and lucky_z

very nice topic indeed

as lucky u can see i have highlighted some portion of ur reply.(i dont know how to do selective quoting😭)

well what u said is right but unfortunately some people stop bashing fictional characters and starts bashing up fellow members for what posts they make.

i am quite sure that everyone has right to post their views but i guess nobody is forcing anyone to take part in discussion...or nobody is being forced to write their views....if u dont like some posts...read them and ignore...but when u pm that person telling that they should stop making posts which is just a discussion topic with some unharmful questions put together...and when number of such other posts doing rounds at the same time......it feels bad🤢.

if u are not interested in expressing ur views in certain post,then no one will force u...but everyone should think before they pm postmakers and ask them to stop and then request them not to take it personaly.....

equality is still a major issue here...i am sorry if i have hurted someone..but thats what i have been experiencing.....

bye

god bless all... 😊

Originally posted by: abhishah

If this were just a show - merely to pass time - this forum wouldn't have such huge response... We wouldn't have Ram Kapoor along with his wife, Prachi, Pia, Rajeev and now Naman join the group.

Hey Abhishah,

Though many celebrities have joined IF, it is still not confirmed if Naman Shaw is actually himself. It might very well be a prank too. And I don't know what you meant by saying Rajeev, but one person excluded from your list was Siddharth aka Ranveer.

Cheers,

Anjali

Originally posted by: sirigina

I concur with you Rocky - are we dim nitwits to sign paens to these actors - dont we have intelligence and a mind of our own - how can we not express our free opinion - what is the problem with negative opinions - it is like they want us to be like timid cats with our tail hiding between our toes -

very well said.....especially cat analogy...

HI rocky,
I think u are getting us wrong. The main posint of this forum is to post ur viewpoint and i agree with that and i also agree that if an actor is not doing his or her part well enough we can tell them. The thing is that sometimes what our vewpoint might be it may conflict with another persons viewpoint. Some ppl may be dead straight for Ram or Jai. no matter what u or anyone says and may take these thought to heart. So if u dont mind i suggest that criticizing actor for not reaching a standard that u like is ok but plz refrain from blaming Ram abt how KS's story line is changing these days and how the character of Jai walia is changing. HE is only an actor and is doing his job, he does not have control over anything ekta or her creative team do or say. So if u are angry with KS as a whole then u should bash up ekta not Ram.

PLZ , do not get me wrong and if u still thing u r doing right and we are not understanding ur viewpoint then by all means do what u usually do, i do not want to limit ur viewpoint or tell u what to say or what not to say. I was just telling what i thought abt this situation and if u felt bad then i am very srry.

Cheers, candydandy

Hey Rockster,

First, I would like to thank you for opening this post.👏 This gives a lot of the members the opportunity to express their feelings and state what they want to say.

Now coming back to the point...I would like to say what the majority of the members are saying. We criticize only the characters of the serial. By no means do we have a right to criticize the actual actors. After all, the actors are doing their job. Sometimes the actors don't want to act out the scenes they are ordered to, but they don't have a choice. They have to do what they are told, otherwise they will lose their job. And being fired is the last thing they would want, after all they need to take care of themselves as well as their families.

Now about stating your opinions...this forum is created just to do that. IF is here to give an oppertunity to everyone to say what they feel....whether good or bad. The members' status does have nothing to do with it. Everyone has the equal right to say what they feel...regardless whether they are a Newbie, Coolbie, Viewbie, or even a Moderator.

But then some regular members ask Why is my topic closed then? Well, there has to be a system of organization too. The mods mostly close topics because they are repeated. A similar topic might have been started already, so there is no need to start innumerous threads after that. Members can state their opinions under the first created topic...this way everyone is heard without a disorganized forum. Posting similar replies under the same topic also enables a quick and easy access to other members. They don't have to go through hundreds of threads to decide which topic is appropriate for them to reply under.

Himali, I second you too. Not everyone has a brain that functions in the same way. There are always agreements and disagreements. And it's absolutely NOT bad if someone disagrees with you. People need to start looking at both the sides: the positive AND the negative...they simply just can't leave out one side. Everyone has a point and everyone needs to listen to what the others say. So all I would like to say about it is, PLEASE RESPECT OTHER'S OPINIONS. This is an open discussion site, there will always be disagreements.

One last thing, I absolutely find it wrong if someone does not like a post and sends a PM to the author. This is not the way it's supposed to be. If some members do not find the post worthwhile, they are welcome to ignore it. But it's certainly not right to personally humiliate the author via PMs and ask them to stop making such posts. And again the equality comes in. EVERYONE is this forum has the right to be heard, no one can stop them from saying what they feel!

These are just my thoughts....please feel free to agree or disagree!😉

Looking forward to your replies!

Cheers,

Anjali

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Arrey Rocky Ji!!!
You are being very emotional.I really agree with you and your thoughts but think for a second
"What is the role of Jai walia in your real life?"
"What is the role of Ram Kapoor ji in your real life?"
The answer may sound harsh but neither Jai Walia or Ram Kapoor has nothing to do with our real lives.We are watching or discussing about Jai or Ram Ji just for fun.Similarly we are not part of the serial kasam se or Ramkapoor's life.We don't have any moral right to criticize the actor becoz it makes no impact on them,becoz they are matured ,they might have seen several ups and downs in lives.BTW TV actors,Film actors should be adored but only to one extent.Never worship or abuse any actor ,its just stupidity.BTW Ram is not our classmate or our neighbour.We were never part of his success or failure.He knows better what to do,what not to.See if the story of kasam se deteiorates in this fashion,TRP's will fall ultimately they close the serial.No person with grey cells will allow his/her work to go on destructive path.At anycost we should'nt become emotional for TV characters.
Cheers,
Mythili

Hi Mythili,

Just one thing..... if you are not emotional....then what are you doing replying to my post... simply sit back and enjoy and have your fun....( I wonder is fun is related to emotions....)

tata,
rocky25

i agree whole heartedly with rocky...