Quiting is NOT the answer - Page 24

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

I would like to add that all this seems like a big conspiracy against khoo and monix~


sima

I also agree with you Sima,because the points Khoo and Monix are trying to make some people are trying to make them sound like a villan or negative person!
Instead of finding a solution to all this events, people are just arguing back and forth saying the same stuff over again and sounding like broken record we should be mature enough to handle the situation.
Mamta

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

I would like to add that all this seems like a big conspiracy against khoo and monix~


sima

Yuor posts are consistently negative. You seem to be very close to Khoo & Monika. But please don't add fuel to the fire.

i don't even know wat to say.. im so lost its not even funny.. we're NOT following blindingly that i can assure u.. we want this to end.. wit a positive solution. we want our mods back - cuz wit out them.. ks parivaar is just not a parivaar - i think i've said that a lot of times now

Originally posted by: jaysp

Ok, the consensus is that every body wants Khoo & Monika back as viewbies and would like this forum to return back to normal.

The IF Dev. team - Minnie, Sree & others have also said that they want Khoo & Monika to come back.

Now the issue is that Khoo & Monika are taking a stand that they will be on KS but not as viewbies. I understand somethings didn't go the way it should have. Somewhere I got a feel that they too erred slightly by not letting the IF Dev. team know whats going on here. If I read Sree's post correctly the closing of AF thread was discussed in the moderators section where regular members like me don't have access. Wish Khoo & Monica had openly talked about what the problem was right there and resolved the issue.
But somewhere in Khoo's post I got a feel that they are not exactly comfortable there because they don't feel that they are wanted and liked by the MODs/IF Dev. team. This could be a misunderstanding. I hope I didn't say too much here but I am just trying to write the picture I get from both parties.
From the posts of Minnie & Sree it feels that they are not against Khoo & Monika and they would really like to see them continue.

So, the bottom line is what is the solution to the problem ?

The best solution I can see is that - Khoo & Monika let bygones be bygones. There is no way of changing what happened. I understand that you were hurt in the process by a few people but I hope the outpour of love & affection from all the other members should override the hurt/insult caused by a few. I hope you give this a good thought. Please come back as viewbies it is nice to have you both here.

In the future if there are any such problems (I truly hope there are none) please talk it out with the IF development team and resolve the issue before it gets this far.

Khoo & Monica I know you have spent lots of your time doing the job of being a viewbie. And it is not even a paid job ! Hats off to you for your dedication. Hope you continue being a viewbie of the KS forum.

And to all the IF dev. team I am quite surprised that even you all are not paid. I have seen Sree & Minnie's posts in other sections and always found them both to be very balanced people who are ready take up an issue and resolve the problem. Hats off to you guys/gals too. You do an amazing job of keeping track of so many forums and deal with thousands of people from all walks of life.

Hoping we achieve peace here and Khoo & Monika change their mind & come back.

Jayanti

Exactly, Jayanthi, i have been saying the same thing from yesterday - Forget the past, yes, few things have happened which has hurt all. Both the sides were affected at one time or the other... Now, let us leave the past and move on to the future... "Let us noe live and let live"... Come on yaar, at the end of the day, we all have learnt bitter lessons... So why not we apply it and move forward?

Originally posted by: ziddi

I also agree with you Sima,because the points Khoo and Monix are trying to make some people are trying to make them sound like a villan or negative person!Instead of finding a solution to all this events, people are just arguing back and forth saying the same stuff over again and sounding like broken record we should be mature enough to handle the situation.Mamta

i agree we want a solution. i swear this is like fight fight fight .. all we're missin is some jootas and belans - no offense cuz that's wats happening so far.. we want a solutionnnnnnnnn that's it.. we want our mods back.. that's it..

Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

Many have a confusion that monika and khoo are letting this get to their ego...i just wanted to clarify there is a fine line between ego and self respect....

Ego- your idea or opinion of yourself, or a great feeling of your own importance and ability:

Self-Respect- respect for yourself which shows that you value your own integrity as a person

Monika and khoos self respect was hurt not their ego..so i hope that clears any confusion.

Thanks 😃

Well said Becky!

Originally posted by: nyzbabigyal

i don't even know wat to say.. im so lost its not even funny.. we're NOT following blindingly that i can assure u.. we want this to end.. wit a positive solution. we want our mods back - cuz wit out them.. ks parivaar is just not a parivaar - i think i've said that a lot of times now

I agree with you hun, very well said
For people who think we are following blindingly I can also assure you leaving the KS Forum and Parivaar is our own decision because we can not be in a Parivaar where their no Khoo and Monika our backbone, my siggys and avis really express how i feel.
Mamta

Originally posted by: ziddi

I also agree with you Sima,because the points Khoo and Monix are trying to make some people are trying to make them sound like a villan or negative person!
Instead of finding a solution to all this events, people are just arguing back and forth saying the same stuff over again and sounding like broken record we should be mature enough to handle the situation.
Mamta

U know what, I have to agree with u too...

These days I find myself agreeing with most people...

But in agreeing, I must compliment you on the brilliant observation you made.

Some people here want to make KHOO and MONIKA the villan. We also believe the same theory. Can you please elucidate on who you think is trying to make Khoo and Monika the villan?????

Again a brilliant observation We are all sounding like broken records.

i wonder how many records got broken today taht we are so influenced by it since over the weekend 😕

WE should be mature enough to handle the situation - The only SENSIBLE suggestion which we have been saying since long which you now agree with us.

Thanks Mamta for agreeing with us. Can we now have some solution

Originally posted by: pmtwist

Its interesting to see that none of the AF ( Tisha you say there are more than four members there but the name of the thread never seemed to change...thats really wierd.....not to mention "so called" ram6000 also said four people and ......ofcourse from my point of view ) have put on any views even though so many people refer to them.

pmtwist, I am not sure the so called 'ram6000' will be a happy person to read this comment.......AND I am not sure the message you wrote for him so lovingly and requested me to read would be taken in high spirits after all the effort the poor guy makes to come here and share his views.....I won't even go into other things anymore.

We are not ignoring anyone,but please do not use pressure tactics ......no matter how many times,you say,right does not become wrong and vice versa.......as long as a topic is in the realms of IF discussion rules, they stay,no matter how many of them,no matter what they say.Let us be a judge of what is and what is not permissible in the forum.......that is the reason we are here.