Gham ka Khazana...Tera bhi hai, Mera bhi! - Page 2

Originally posted by: catcat

"When u miss someone u miss their presence in ur lives…it is more got to do with the void in ur routine life u are used to with them around. But feeling lonely without someone means a void in your very soul itself". .... very well expressed.
That was an excellent well rounded analysis and there is,nt much that I could disagree with. B has a very convoluted thought process.She has only the best of intentions but her modus operendi is highly ambiguous,dubitable.Cant blame her though, her lineage et al 😆 .Thanx Anu

lineage...as in Kiran or Nishikant catcat???😉

Originally posted by: TallyHo

lineage...as in Kiran or Nishikant catcat???😉

Both,dear,both... or maybe not ,judging by mommy dearest's lectures., mama genes win hands down😉...../CAT

Hey Thanks for such a wonderful and detailed analysis Anu! 👏 👏 👏
Will wait for the next one 😉
By the way, like u, the only thing I also have against using "Aadat" (the song by the band JAL and in the film Kalyug)is that they used the same one when Jai Walia was missing Pia! But otherwise I think it's definately an appropriate song for the situation.

😊 Love, Karisma1 xxx.

😊 Hi Anu
good write up once again ..!
Lets see what happens today .. 😛
Klue

WONDERFUL Analysis again, Anu! Like Ram beating his own performance, you are beating your own record as well! 😉 Really well done! 👏

Great poem in the beginning of the post. Loved it a lot!

Bani is surely hurting herself, but hurting Jai more effectively. 😡 But I think the only reason Bani is being so mean is because of that stupid Park Road Raaz. Otherwise, I don't think this is Bani's respose to the way Jai treated her the first few months after their marriage.

And yes....Why can't Bani blast the truth straight forward to Jai? Why does she have to act 'Mahan' all the time? It gets annoying after a long time if a person acts perfect!!

I absolutely agree with the quote Aditya stated to Bani, "insaan ka jo kadam, jiska vasta na apnoon se hota hai na dusroon se, wo kadam kisse ka bhala nahi karsakte.....ese kisse ko dukh ke alwa aur kuch nahi milsakti." Bani might be trying to save Jai from bankruptcy, but like you said Anu, it will be a BIG flop! I bet at the end, she will help Jai but using another plan. Her current plan will only break hearts....it will not help Jai!

I do agree that Jai was looking devilishly handsome in the hospital with his sleeves rolled half-way up and his first button undone! I would have fainted if I were to see him in real life like that! 😛

Coming to Tarun, I think his speech to Bani was fabulous! He said each and every sentence very effectively. His words will surely make in impact on Bani now or later.
I hope Tarun somehow finds out Bani's true plans and then persuades her back in the Walia House by his wonderful speech!!

Once again Anu, EXCELLENT Analysis!!

Love,

Anjali

Hey Anu
👏 👏 awesome analysis as always..you killed it with the "Psychiatric Ward..i swear Jai that would be money well spent..because lately thats where Bani belongs..actually if i had enuff money Anu i would open a psychiatric ward dedicated to Mr and Mrs Walia..both are a pair of headcases..trying to figure the pair of them out we will surely end up there as well 😆 😆 Bani needs to quit being a martyr because in this fight BOTH sides are fighting for the SAME cause LOVE ..Tarun cracked me up when he pointed this out..
😆 😆 i really am starting to take aliking to Tarun i swear its the background music 😆 😆 i always used to think Bani wins the award for flooding the telly with tears..remember she used to cry over everything..but nope Bani, Raashi has surely outdone you (great i can see alot of rhona dhona coming in the near future from Raashi) 😆 😆 moving on Pia is gonnna get a slap..i cant stand her, i swear she is just as irritating in KA..i cant stand her roles..Ekta has left no stone unturned in making Pia appeal as annoying as hell...hello why was she trying to hold Rano's hand? she usually spouts her mouth off saying "Bani di koi ho na ho mein hamesha tumhaara ssath doonghi!"...why on earth did she not go down and defend her sister?ahhhhhshe she irritates me more and more day by day 😆 😆 ok now to Jai it is so heartwarming to see Jai still has his trust in Bani regardless of her leaving him in the fire to burn......plus wow Jai looked buff yesterday wooo telly was sizzling(its obvious SOMEONE has been reading Aditees FF and telling his KS stylist 😆 😆 )i loved the scene in the docs office... 😭 😭 so sad these episodes are too heartwrenching to watch...i guess because we have all seen their love blossom and grow its heartbreaking to see them apart...i have always sided with both Jai and Bani equally even when both are being jerks BUT Bani really is annoying me she has so many people she can confide in so why not just tell Mausi?Dadi?Sahil?Tarun?i wont say Aditya cuz he strikes me as still a bit dodgy...i guess Ekta has already sowed the seed of doubt and now it wont go i bet all his family are in on it except for Anu and Sahil..Tarun was awesome 😳 😆 😆 im glad he resorted her to tears because it made her think and duh if you know your fighting for the same thing wouldnt you stop?but no bani is going to destroy them both at this rate 😡 i dunno seeing her do this makes me wanna sing "Aap ke Khathir.." 😆 😆
you can tell im bored today..gawd i have wrote loads...im gonna stop now before i put you to sleep..all in all you covered everything i was thinking 😆 😆
Take care
Becky 😆

Anu, that was superb! You surprise me every day... 👏

Hi Anu

great analysis as usual. I always look forward to reading it everyday but missed it while I was in India. 👏

Now coming to the episode first Ram looked damn good. 😳 I haven't read Aditee's fanfic I guess now I have to 😊
Bani ka kya kehna..she really is making me upset with her way of doing things. I was holding on to my patience for so long but now I loosing it. The last dialogue from her 'Main shayad apse nazar mila nahi paoungi… lekin mereliye itna kafi hai ke apke nazar kabhi na jukhe' I really had problem with it.. Didn't she realise this when she insulted him in the party and asked for the divorce.. There the poor guy was defending her so much and she coldly told that yes indeed she wants a divorce.. tab kya hua.. tab toh ankh mein aakh milakar bath kahi thi in cold heartless way. Didn't she realise what he must have gone thru at that time. She made a fool out of him in front of everybody. tab jai ki nazar nahi jhuki thi sabke sammne..

What is she going to achieve by hurting both of them I really fail to understand. At the end of the day she has to reveal that Jigs and Ranveer were trying to get hold of his empire so why cause the pain unnecessarily...Is this the way to find a solution to any problems. I don't think so.. If you really think calmly there are always other means to get things done. I really don't agree with her saying that this is the only way she has...

But I liked that Tarun made her realise how much Jai loves her. I love this guy. He is a true friend. I just hope now atleast she will start using her brain cells in the right direction.

Inspite of the episode being so emotional I couldn't help but laugh when I heard that a ward has been named after Bani. That was funny. Both Jai and Bani are one of a kind..unique species worthy of a museum.

Gham ka khazana tera bhi hai mera bhi

yeh nazarana tera bhi hai mera bhi

Apne gham ka geet bana kar gaa lena

raag puraana tera bhi hai mera bhi

gham ka khazana tera bhi hai mera bhi

Tu mujhko aur main tujhko samjhaaoon kya

tu mujhko aur main tujhko samjhaaoon kya

dil deewana tera bhi hai mera bhi

dil deewana tera bhi hai mera bhi

gham ka khazana tera bhi hai mera bhi

shehar mein galiyon galiyon jiska charcha hai

woh afsaana tera bhi hai mera bhi

Maikhane ki baat na kar waiz mujhse

aana jaana tera bhi hai mera bhi

gham ka khazana tera bhi hai mera bhi

yeh nazarana tera bhi hai mera bhi

gham ka khazana tera bhi hai mera bhi

Nice song, you seem to have an endless selection of poetry and verses for almost all the episodes!😃

Y'day's episode was high on emotional appeal… all were on an emotional high. Jai-Bani, Tarun, Aditya, Massi-Dadi, Rashi and may be even Jigyasa 😕😆! Everyone's heart went out to Jai-Bani's relationship… everyone having their own prospective about it… but the bottom line was the same… they wanted Jai-Bani to be happy and Together! But Bani refuses to budge from her where she stands. 😡

Yes, it was a superbly emotional kind of episode, but really, don't you guys think that Bani cries way too much...I mean once in a while is alright, but all the time?😒 That way Jai scores in emotional scenes because he express's his pain through his eyes and face and doesn't have to resort to glycerine all the time!

My heart really goes to Bani, esp coz she is all alone when she needs to be with everyone. But what can anyone do about it? She refuses any help and love and concern that reaches out to her😡 She wants to destroy herself… which is why I get angry at her. She is inflicting pain on herself and it is becoming a vicious cycle… she wants to save Jai, so hurts him by hurting herself… Jai gets hurt and she is hurt even more and this keeps going round and round! Where is this going to end? 🤔

It is a vicious cycle, I think I wrote quite a lot regarding this in response to Tisha's post! Bani's notion about what is good for Jai is definitely not what he has in mind!

The general notion is that Bani has always been the giver in their relationship… while Jai hasn't cared enough… I do agree that Bani has gone one step ahead… but that doesn't mean Jai hasn't contributed to this relationship. The mere fact that Bani acknowledged that without Jai around she is lonely, a loneliness that she has never experienced shows that Jai has in his own silent way, may be even unaware filled up her life with Love and care she has never experienced before. Bani has been alone all her life… then what is that about being away from Jai that is making her lonelier than ever😔? Missing someone and feeling lonely without someone are two different things. When u miss someone u miss their presence in ur lives…it is more got to do with the void in ur routine life u are used to with them around. But feeling lonely without someone means a void in your very soul itself. With Bani admitting she is lonely without Jai she is acknowledging the love that Jai has for her… she is acknowledging those unspoken words and silent gestures of Jai's love.

I loved that dialouge that Bani sprouts.....Unke bina mujhe ek ajeeb se akelepan ka ehsaas hota hai...For the first time, we get to hear that Bani is as lonely and alone without Jai as he is! It was really heart-wrenching! I agree that since the story has been told more or less by Bani's POV, we always feel that she is the giver in the relationship, which she has been till now, but with the scales changing, Jai is equally giving as Bani! I think Tarun expressed this very well yesterday!

Now coming to Jai… (As if I spoke of anyone else till now😆.) My 1^st reaction to Jai sitting on the sofa with a drink in his hand and a far away look in his eyes was… How can someone look so handsome even when this devastated😳? Jai looked amazing today with his sleeves rolled up and his shirt buttoned down…. I guess we should be thanking Aditee for Jai's look😃. Uff ho Jai, why do u drink so much😡? The only reason i am ok is that drinking so much has made u rock steady even after u have emptied the entire bottle... that is a boon in any Ekta serial😕😆

Need we even say how totally cool he looked yesterday!😳 How on Earth can Bani even resist him yaar?😆

What do I say about this Man and the trust he has in Bani? She has tried in every possible way to convince him she is after his money and he refuses to even acknowledge the hard work she has put in. He plain refutes it saying 'I trust you coz I trust myself!'.. it is was simple and uncomplicated as that. I love the way he said 'Bani kuch bhi karle wo mere vishwas ko nahi thod sakti👏'.

Loved Jai for finally placing his complete and blind faith in Bani, especially when he has the least reason to do so! Just shows how much they have grown in their relationship, atleast Jai has!

I have to go and cook, else I would have replied to the other stuff that you written too....Will try and do that later!

As usual, a superb analysis......Some of the reasons why the Forum rocks!😃

Love,

MT

Originally posted by: TallyHo

another good one....Boy I admire ur eye for details....and all the others as well...MT, Sangita and all the rest who analyze it so well....wonder if Ekta's writers even think of the things you write here....

I have almost stopped watching KS...one coz we are behind India...and second coz the updates and analysis are sooo much better...

keep going.... 👏
love
Tally!

My sentiments exactly. The updates and analysis are the Jaan of KS.