blaming pia.....right or wrong.....

everybody is blaming pia, oke till some level I agree...

but is she really wrong....I'm not sure...

1. pia wants bani to get a divorce... her sis is away from her husband so why not divorce him... straight think but pia vergot about feelings... not even sure if she knows about bani feelings...

2. getting abortion Bani.... she was clearly thinking about bani being helpless and forced to sleep with jai.... she didn't know what happened between them... but don't verged the moment she knew that bani was keeping the baby she didn't said a word...

3. pia and the job... what's wrong with that, she is helping her hubby, who is supporting also his fly... and she is earning money for the luxurious things in live.....

4. jai is her boss wen she when for this job she didn't know.... she look at it professional and in this personal opinion doesn't matter.... and she loves pushkar.... nothing wrong with working for jai... But she had to tell pushy who is was working for... even if she wasn't planning to tell bani ... and she was considering bani feelings....

5. telling bani to back off..... she was in a fight with her husband, it was something private and personal between them... bani had to stay out off that... bani could had spoken with pia later.....but at that moment bani had to stay out....

6. pia abortion.....( ouch everybody is going to hate my now ) pia has her right to decide what she wants to do... ( it her body ) pushy knows that she is a modern woman, and accept that... she want a career and enjoy life, nothing wrong with that... but pia if didn't wanted children so soon.. she had to use protection.... also if she wanted a abortion, she had to talk to pushy first even if they were fighting.... they are innit together....

oke I know a lot off you are cursing me for this but these are the points witch were bugging me because I dont think pia is totaly wrong... I don't like pia but I don't think she is a bad person....

Well i agree with most of the parts. But i really think before getting an abortion she should've told pushkar. I don't think Pia is wrong in doing any of the things because well she is right. Most of us do that in our lives. We don't want our sisters to interfere in our private lives even though we love our sisters a lot. Bani and Jai's divorce well itz a natural reaction, a marriage based upon nothing and she doesn't know that both of them are falling for each other. So itz not her fault. Her talking about Bani's abortion was right in a way too, why would you want your sister to keep a baby when you know she was drugged when it happened? Obviously we see Pia as a bad person because we know what jai and bani feel for each other but pia doesn't so she is right to some extent. The only thing i didn't like about Pia was that she didn't tell pushkar about her abortion other than that she is not to be blamed. I hope that made sense.

Her getting an abortion is wrong, especially when she didn't even talk to Pushkar about it. It may be her body, but it is Pushkar child she was carrying, he had a right to know. I do agree however, in regards that Pushkar is wrong to give money to his family when he knows how rough things are for him and Pia, her wanting her own money and thinking about what her future holds is right and I am glad she is working now. But I still feel she is wrong.

Yes i think the way she handles things is wrong

1. Bani's divorse & abortion- Like Rano she didn't ask Bani how she felt about Mr. Walia & being pregnant with his baby, didn't ask about the situation in which she got pregnant.

2.Job.... If she didn't think it was wrong she would have mentioned it to Pushkar if not BAni.That's what Pushkar says so too.

3.Abortion... that baby was Pushkar's too. Even though its her body she could have at least discussed with Pushkar before going ahead & having an abortion. As Bani keeps telling marraige is about trust & the marraige doen't mean much if there is no trust.

my dear friends,

I do agree with you all... but we don't have to verged that pia is a modern woman, this is her way off thinking...

(just picture her being preggy and a belly off 5 month's... it doesn't fit her.....it's spoiling pia image....big time. 😕 😆 ...)

Originally posted by: shali

everybody is blaming pia, oke till some level I agree...

but is she really wrong....I'm not sure...

1. pia wants bani to get a divorce... her sis is away from her husband so why not divorce him... straight think but pia vergot about feelings... not even sure if she knows about bani feelings...

2. getting abortion Bani.... she was clearly thinking about bani being helpless and forced to sleep with jai.... she didn't know what happened between them... but don't verged the moment she knew that bani was keeping the baby she didn't said a word...

3. pia and the job... what's wrong with that, she is helping her hubby, who is supporting also his fly... and she is earning money for the luxurious things in live.....

4. jai is her boss wen she when for this job she didn't know.... she look at it professional and in this personal opinion doesn't matter.... and she loves pushkar.... nothing wrong with working for jai... But she had to tell pushy who is was working for... even if she wasn't planning to tell bani ... and she was considering bani feelings....

5. telling bani to back off..... she was in a fight with her husband, it was something private and personal between them... bani had to stay out off that... bani could had spoken with pia later.....but at that moment bani had to stay out....

6. pia abortion.....( ouch everybody is going to hate my now ) pia has her right to decide what she wants to do... ( it her body ) pushy knows that she is a modern woman, and accept that... she want a career and enjoy life, nothing wrong with that... but pia if didn't wanted children so soon.. she had to use protection.... also if she wanted a abortion, she had to talk to pushy first even if they were fighting.... they are innit together....

oke I know a lot off you are cursing me for this but these are the points witch were bugging me because I dont think pia is totaly wrong... I don't like pia but I don't think she is a bad person....

1. The way Pia does not want Bani to interfere between her and her husband Pushkar, she cannot interfere with Jai and Bani's matters especially without knowing the entire details of their situation, feelings, other facts, etc. (talk about double standards)

2. Pia cannot make decisions about Bani's pregnancy, it's between Bani and her husband Jai (in her own case she did not even involve her own husband Pushkar... talk about double standards again)

3. Nothing wrong with Pia working if it's with integrity and not secretively. She is entitled to make decisions on what she wants to do and achieve in life

4. Pia didn't know about the employer which is fine though she should not go to extremes to hide things from her own family

5. The matter was between Pia and Pushkar but there was a way to communicate that to Bani without being so rude. Besides, she interferes in Bani and Jai's matters in such extremes (without getting all the facts) that she has no right to ask Bani to back off. She should have established the boundaries and kept her distance with her own actions i.e. If Pia does not want Bani to interfere in her matters she should not be interfering in Bani's matters either. As for Bani, she needs to be more assertive about her own stand and also she needs to stop treating Pia like a kid and expect Pia to be more mature and take responsibilities for her own actions

6. Pia's abortion... in general if she knew what she wanted (i.e. no children in the near future) then she should have taken the appropriate birth control measures along with discussing it with her husband so that he could also do his part in terms of contraception. Now knowing that contraception is not 100% successful and given the circumstances (P&P love each other and are married) I don't agree with Pia's decision... that's sad, she didn't even think about it or involve Pushkar in the decision making process.. the circumstances did not involve any rape or health complications or anything for such big decision...

(looking on the bright side (to lighten things up) another devil is not born but then the baby could have been an adorable and caring being like Pushkar..... please don't pounce on me for these comments)

well this is simply my opinion and not to be taken offensively.....

😊 Peace! 😊

pia pia pia!! 😡 if she is that modern than why did she marry pushy the first place!!!child is a part of marriage....she should've told pushkar once!!!!but no she didn't cuz she is one selfish women..who only loves money!!! 😡

1. pia wants bani to get a divorce... her sis is away from her husband so why not divorce him... straight think but pia vergot about feelings... not even sure if she knows about bani feelings...
Pia is selfish..for her it is so easy to say get a divorce...how about talking to your sister for a change and asking her what happened...why has she left Walia house...what does she want to do..but no everything is always about her....what happened to all her chats to Jai of u and di with time will get to love each other etc etc - she said all this when she was over at Walia House leaving Pushy...Being away from your husband doesnt mean u dont love him and the only way out is a divorce..no way

2. getting abortion Bani.... she was clearly thinking about bani being helpless and forced to sleep with jai.... she didn't know what happened between them... but don't verged the moment she knew that bani was keeping the baby she didn't said a word...
how could she even think of abortion..its not a bad teeth that u can just cut and throw out of ur body...its a living being in you...damn Pia i hate her...and thinking about Bani...oh pahleez...she only thinks of herself..i have not once seen her hug Bani and ask her how she is and what she wants

3. pia and the job... what's wrong with that, she is helping her hubby, who is supporting also his fly... and she is earning money for the luxurious things in live.....
whats wrong with that..hello its like spitting it out and than licking it...Jai is the guy she left and he is her sisters husband...has she forgottn what all Bani went thru because of her...she should atleast keep in mind that at one stage he wanted to marry her...and her sister being away she can create problems...gosh doesnt she have that much brains....and than she didnt even tell her own husband...what kind of wife is she...earning to support herself..thats what she is doing....not to support her husband

4. jai is her boss wen she when for this job she didn't know.... she look at it professional and in this personal opinion doesn't matter.... and she loves pushkar.... nothing wrong with working for jai... But she had to tell pushy who is was working for... even if she wasn't planning to tell bani ... and she was considering bani feelings....
if she loves pushkar she would have told him....Bani's feelings..if she had considered it she would have left that job site and interview once she found out Jai was the owner..she should think like "i dont want to creat more problems for Di"

5. telling bani to back off..... she was in a fight with her husband, it was something private and personal between them... bani had to stay out off that... bani could had spoken with pia later.....but at that moment bani had to stay out....
practise what u preach is what i would say...she cant mind her own business when it comes to Bani than what right does she have to say shutup to bani....besides if u want privacy talk in private place....

6. pia abortion.....( ouch everybody is going to hate my now ) pia has her right to decide what she wants to do... ( it her body ) pushy knows that she is a modern woman, and accept that... she want a career and enjoy life, nothing wrong with that... but pia if didn't wanted children so soon.. she had to use protection.... also if she wanted a abortion, she had to talk to pushy first even if they were fighting.... they are innit together....
im sorry i am totally against abortion...if u dont want a baby than work ur way into getting the necessary precautions....the govnt is even giving out free condoms for crises sake...if u can enjoy the pleasures of life than learn to take responsibilities....such a huge decison and she didnt even tell her husband....

just my views..no offense to anyone

Originally posted by: sweet16_aragon

pia pia pia!! 😡 if she is that modern than why did she marry pushy the first place!!!child is a part of marriage....she should've told pushkar once!!!!but no she didn't cuz she is one selfish women..who only loves money!!! 😡

i agree with you!!!

looks like mine and Rania's views match 😊

cool.....