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Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

i am afraid i have to beg to differ on this occasion...Jai is doing what any normal male would do when it comes to his child...men get very possessive when it comes to chldrenn...i think they should bring this child up together..imagine the effect it will have if they don't...they both love each other they both love the child...it's just the past that is holding them back from sealing this life long bond...yes i agree that Bani is pregnant and he stressed her out but i dont see it as a prank i see it as him trying to find his loved one...can you imagine what he was going through, knowing that she might me dead...it was his only solution... i agree he can be arrogant but Bani is just as bad!!!i.e remember when she got Pushkar and Pia married in Jai's house..the only reason Jai was a arrogant jerk in the beginning was understandable...he was jilted at the altar and tied in an unwanted marriage with a womsn he did not love.... 😆 😆 don't get me wrong i think look at the bigger picture and adding up exactly why jai is the way he is...i mean personally his life is quite bad...and Bani and this kid are the only good thing he has got going, therefore he will do all he can to keep them by his side 😃 😃

I agree with u ..

Now about pia beieng agreived ... I feel that Pushkar is Bani's friend way before he married pia .. now just coz he married pia .. he doesnt have to break his trust that a friend has put on to him that too at a delicate time in the friends life . . and at this momebnt that friend happens to be Bani ... his wifes's sister .pia should understand that if her sis wanted to tell her about her whereabouts she would have come staraight to her for consolation .

in short i dont feel pushkar did anything wrong at all .. and pia is just being plain immature .she has just got used to throwing tantrums on bitsy things .. well this isnt a situation with her in laws ..but her very own sister who is going thru a difficult time .

...yes i agree that Bani is pregnant and he stressed her out but i dont see it as a prank i see it as him trying to find his loved one...can you imagine what he was going through, knowing that she might me dead...it was his only solution... i agree he can be arrogant but Bani is just as bad!!!i.e remember when she got Pushkar and Pia married in Jai's house..the only reason Jai was a arrogant jerk in the beginning was understandable...he was jilted at the altar and tied in an unwanted marriage with a womsn he did not love....

Even if I were to agree with you with regards to the fake death plot, it does not explain the" I'm perfectly normal ,dear" look he gave Bani when she came to see him. If he was relieved to see her, he certainly didnt look surprised to see her alive either!!!!!!!

Go on, Tink,admit it! 😉 the character is a jerk! If he wants his child and its mother back ( in that order, methinks) instead of using his wiley ways he should, if he really loves her and wants her back, turn over a new leaf, say he's sorry like he means it, eat lots of humble pie (no calories so it's healthy! 😆 ) and pursuade her with genuine love. 😳

After last night's episode, he looked like he was determined to close an important business deal, rather than get the love of his life and child back!

😡 Maddy 😡

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

Afternoon all!😉

Well I think I am the only true feminist amongst us.😔

All you girlies, Mistletoe, Raaga et al, still love the selfish cad that is Jai Walia and are still inexplicably attracted to this arrogant (granted - gorgeous 😳) self-centred, pompouse SOB!😡

Well I'm pretty fed up with Mr Flippin Jai Walia and his eternal smugness! The confidence of this man really has no bounds.!😲

After concocting a plan to fake his own death just to get Bani running to his bedside (no thought for his baby at that time, due to the stress being put on its mother 😕) he apparently seems to have decided to spare no means of getting Bani back because of the as yet unborn child. Great!

Now I know and appreciate Ekta may well be portraying him in this way deliberately, but I dont like what I see. I also didnt take kindly to how Pushkar thought it was none of Pia's business as to what was said/agreed between him and Bani. You gat that one wrong, dude!😕

Pia was right to be aggrieved.

So was Bani.

So I would like to give my tuppence worth and say that I would dearly love to see Bani really make our Mr "Icanmakeanythinghappen" Walia sweat! I want to see him on his hands and knees begging Bani to come back, I would like to asee Bani say "Up yours - I can manage" even if its only for a little while.

I would rather they were apart and Bani's self-respect intact, than to witness some connivery on Mr Walia's part which makes her helpless and majboor to come back (using Rano, for example)

All you girls drooling over the arrogant MCP that is Jai Walia, where is your pride?

I would like to see the women in control and taking all the decisions for a change. I'd like to see our young (often dim-witted admittedly) but principled Bani that she can rear her child herself - will this ever happen in an Indian serial???

😡Maddy😡

Well I agree with you to some extent, i mean jai walia can be childish and stubborn sometimes, but I gues thats what makes jai..well jai.
And pushkar was wrong in not telling pia i mean its her sister.
BUT what i can say in jai's defence that every character has their own style, and different shades to their character.

As far as the fact that u want a woman to be in control for once goes, well I think in all the serials, well ekta serials the woman is in control, and most of them do end up giving birth on their own etc. For once im happy that a man has a dominant role, rather than the woman being everything, I mean even today this world has patriarchy. Jai is a man of his words, he likes getting what he wants, like we all do, his character is realistic, as he has shades of good and bad. HE is not a goody too shoes, even bani, she's very nice, but she is a person thus hearing the fact that jai accidently killed her mother she left. sooo basically ks has a fair share of both sexes dominating eachother in one way or the other.

Anyway I would like to see bani rule over jai though, and i think she does since he is soo dependant on her now.(nightsuit even remids him of her)😆

Anyway I would like to see bani rule over jai though, and i think she does since he is soo dependant on her now.(nightsuit even remids him of her)Rox_zy

See! 😆 Just another pathetic example! 😆 Instead of remembering the romance of 19th June (which to some extent Bani did -except for the insipid alarm clock medication reminder! Ugh!!)he remembers the menial chores she did for him and her sleeping on the floor like some skivvy!!!!!!!!!! 😡

Jai...................you are such a Duffer! 😭 😕 😆

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

All you girls drooling over the arrogant MCP that is Jai Walia, ?

Hi Maddy! That was very well written! Thoroughly enjoyed reading a different POV presented very nicely.

Yaar, dont even complain. These gals are self-confessed MCPs!😆

As for me, I not an MCP but I dont mind sticking up for ma Jai here and there (read everywhere!)!

He's bewitched us, Maddy. But glad that you had the courage to come up with your opinion! You are right about certain things....I do agree that Pia has every reason to be upset with Pushky.

Thats it for now, have spoken too much on this issue, since the week began!

Luv, Jojo

uff, i'm torn on this one!!!

i think the way to please both sides would be to have jai really really have to work to get bani back - this jai walia who has the world fall at his feet is gonna have to surrender to his wife!! as long as they get together at the end of it all i would LOVE to see THE jai walia being tortured a little - considering what he's done to bani so far!!!

but to make it work they're going to have to find her a more solid reason then this park road cr*p!! All said and done this accident was just that - AN ACCIDENT!! It is against bani's character, nature, and attitude to hold this against him!!

I do agree that BAni shouldnt go back to Jai just because he says so or let him manupulate her.

But I think she should go back & make him pay for what he did to her. Show him who is the boss. Its good for her baby to be in the mansions to get pampered by all dadi's maasi's & cousins strting from his moms womb. Maasi is all ready with badam ka dudh & all. Arams se nokro se aur ghar ke sab se khas kar pati se seva kar lo. Why does she want to live alone, do job, tire herself out when the baby has such rich dad.

well u cant blame him i mean any man would do that but jai he hasnt had one child yet so hes really happy hes gonna become a father so he wants his child and his wife safe he loves both so u cant blame him

and also why has he earned so much money for his child rite and also he doesnt want his child to be fatherless

Very well said Maddy!!! 👏