~*What a Fab Performance by Ram-Part II*~ - Page 36

Originally posted by: aditee

PI
GO LOOK AT THE OPENING PAGE. Maine AF ka jhanda gaad diya hai wahan..............

I did Adi! GREAT JOB! 👏👏 Btw I'm not a Med school grad (thanks for making me one!) 😛 but I don't mind being one if RK comes along and happens to only look at the first page 😉

Advice to Jai and questions for Bani

Originally posted by: aditee

But Vazz,

Jo bhi woh AAJ karega, Bani will look at it with tainted glasses only. Her opinion has already been damaged.

The most striking thing from Priyanka's post was
"How come she is not trying to find who shot her hubby"

"Why didnt he tell the sisters the moment they walked into the Walia Mansion as to how he came to know them"
I posted this thing exactly the day the Mom's death raaz was revealed


Vazz its one of those Kekta's ridiculous plot twists...... I mean kaun sa banda is duniya mein apni wife ke killer ke ghar apni teen betiyon ko bhejega?

Adi the second question has always bewildered me too..I was watching for 3rd episode some days ago when JW is first introduced and all he does is reads the letter and agrees with Bani on the rent..what really did the letter contain?? he obviously knew the writer hence agree to let them stay..but Bani never questioned as to why he let them stay..without knowing anything about them

when he meets them he cooly says he met their mom at polo grounds but that's all he said😕

Originally posted by: vazz

Thanks for pointing that post of Majumdar.. that has said what all I have been thinking.
I have always questioned the fact - why did Jai not feel guilty of killing the girls' father when he first met them. How could he have wanted to marry Pia at that time... I know the answer will be that the scriptwriters did not have this twist in mind then.

I want Jai to be a decent human being and make amends by apologizing to Bani first. Just by giving looks.. nothing is going to work.. like I tell my daughter... USE YOUR WORDS!!!.
Actions always speak louder than words... if you can show you truly care for her, then show that to her in subtle ways... make up with Pushkar and show her that he had made a mistake in being absolutely mean to him and he is willing to make amends.

Good points Vazz. I think Jai, however, is only just learning to emote via words! He's slow. He never was able to express to anyone really how he felt. As folks have said.. he reacts to situations rather than people and their feelings. Now, finally, he's presented with the need to explain himself and his actions.. and he's at a loss when the other party does not want to listen. Should he give up.. probably his usual MO.. and start barking orders.. or does he pursue and express himself, even if it doesen't bear the fruit he hope it to.. just because he should. We shall have to wait and see....

With regards to what Priyanka said:

Priyanka posted--

My questions to Munni, particularly if she carries this too far would be :

You are angry with Munna for killing your mom and concealing the fact from you. But you tried to kill Ranveer once, you concealed the attachment of Pia and Pushky even after the elopement. So are you sure that you have a right to condemn Munna to a lifetime of punishment? I don't think she does. I said yesterday that two wrongs dont make a right.. she isn't solving anything....she'll relent soon. I just hope it comes about because they talk.. rather than because she finds Ranvijay or someone else is at fault. That would be trite!!
• You never punished or were even angry with Pia and Pushky for what they did to Munna, so why a different standard for Munna. Is a crime against you more worth punishing than a crime against Munna? Ohhh.. she's got me there!

Finally, is it worth punishing Munna when you end up hurting yourself as much? I sound redundant.. .but the answer to this is no. Course, Bani deserves to grieve in her own way.... she has just found out some crazy news!! Its a mind you know what. ... but they should reconcile and TALK! like aditee FF. Else I might have to send them straight to Soap's House of therapy!

Soap

Great points Adi and Kumu....pretty much left nothing for me to say...still looking for that post btw! 😕

thats a great analysis by priyanka....thanx Adi for pointing to it....

OK Gals. I have to and configure a Firewall. I am sure going to get fired. I am soooo addicted to this forum its not even funny. I will be back in few min. I am really sick today. But had to come to work to ship the firewall to the customer in time for the activation on Monday. Seriously I will be so much in trouble for this forum... Catch you gals later,. Its always fun to read all of your post...

Originally posted by: Piscean

Great points Adi and Kumu....pretty much left nothing for me to say...still looking for that post btw! 😕

PI would you like me to post it here for you 😳

yeh le PI stop searching here is what Priyanka wrote

I don't exactly condemn Munni for what she is doing to Munna, at least not yet. While I feel sorry for Munna, particularly the bangles episode, he needs to atone for what he has done in the past to the sisters and I hope he takes it in that spirit. When I say atone for his crimes I do not refer to:



Kirans death- that was a tragedy and could have happened to any one, in any case Munna tried his best to save Kiran, never evaded responsibility and tried to help, not bribe ND and punished himself by choosing to give up on Rosh and remain a bachelor for several years.


Concealing his role in Kirans death- when ND chose to keep it a secret, what right did Munna have to reveal it to the sisters and further hurt them.


I am referring to his ill-treatment of the sisters even after knowing what he had done to them.


My advice to Munna:


Treat this phase as a purgatory for your sins. In fact if you really want to atone for your past, hand over half your property to Munni, make a public admission of your guilt (after all the only two people you really love and care for Massi and Bani know about it anyway), hand yourself over to justice (1-2 years at most maybe for manslaughter) and be done with it.


Now as far as Munni is concerned I will not get into the debate about the equivalence of the white shirt and Kangan, as to whether the act of a person in love is the same as the act of person when there is no love involved.

My questions to Munni, particularly if she carries this too far would be :



You are angry with Munna for killing your mom and concealing the fact from you. But you tried to kill Ranveer once, you concealed the attachment of Pia and Pushky even after the elopement. So are you sure that you have a right to condemn Munna to a lifetime of punishment?


You never punished or were even angry with Pia and Pushky for what they did to Munna, so why a different standard for Munna. Is a crime against you more worth punishing than a crime against Munna?


You are angry with Munna for depriving you sisters of their parents love. But Munnas actions were an accident. Your actions would willfully separate a child from its father. Would you be in due course willing to accept punishment for that?


You were dying to know the raaz but you have absolutely no curiosity to know who tried to kill Munna and that there could be something more about the PR Raaz. Why?


You are punishing Munna for causing your parents death. You are right – if Munna could punish you for Pias actions you are right in dishing it right back. But when (and we know it will happen) Munna is proved innocent, will you be able to face Munna and your own conscience?
Finally, is it worth punishing Munna when you end up hurting yourself as much?
Rgds

Priyanka

Tisha has started a"I told u so" conv. Its great to see Bani has her staunchest supporters too.

I miss having Tisha on the board.......
But I guess she cud not contain herself and had to come in Bani's defence

But to tell u the truth I personally have not analyzed Bani's behavior or actions even 10% compared to Jai's so my skills are sorely lacking in that department

The woman's libber in me, wants to agree with her, but then I killed her off when I started writing FF

Some times its good to live separated from reality.
Its justa TV show afterall. I dont want to be carrying on conversations or reading about sane intellectual issues ALL the time.

I have lead the women's rights parade argued and won or lost and died in the battle field many many times in real life

Sometimes its a good break from it all to just watch the show for what its worth..........

Maybe I am being an escapist here, and only wnat to support JW. But defending Bani will take more than I have to offer..........

But not to forget, JW's sexist remarks do bother me, "glorfying" pregnancies and making them out to be like a bed ridden paraplegic bothers me............

Between J and B today, I am not taking a stand. I dont approve of Bani's behavior the same way i did not approve of Jai's previously.

But like we've talked before......... What stopped Bani from getting out of Jai's concentration camp?
What cud he have done?
Found her and killed her?

I can only empathize with a woman's condition so much....... she empowers Pia and Rano to take their own life's decisions but does NOT HERSELF?

There was no ailing Dad blind Mom who needed treatmenta t home? No 5 or 7 sisters in their 20s waiting for Bani Di to bring JW's wealth homeso that they can get married. Why? Why didnt she leave him?

Pia cud have cared less if Bani paid the price for her revolt or not. So who was Bani repenting forby staying married to JW?
She did it for Maasi?

Bani in my opinion is basically NOT a strong woman, her actions of strength are not part of her personality, but just random acts of rebeliousnes..............