Jai didnt blackmail Bani! - Page 3

Originally posted by: klueless

I have to agree with You Priya .. i also had answered to a certain Post and stated --of jai Blackmailing Bani .

Its is becuase of that Very relationship .. ( friend , Husband Employer, etc etc ) that Jai should have told Bani the Raaz . above all they are in a Husband wife union( whather he loves her or Not ) and that alone demands honesty .

I think he should have told her there and then about the Stupid Raaz , How will he stay with Bani ... in the same house .. spending Hours min sec .. when he is spending those special moments .( like giving each other those lovey dovey Looks ).. with her ... and not be haunted by this guilt ... that he has black mailed Bani not to know about it . The least he can do for Bani and his Relationship at present and for the Future . rite now is to tell her the truth then leave it to her and trust that undefined relationship that Jai says they share .. .......to follow its course . I think he is taking advantage of bani's deep Love for him . He well Knows she is head over Heels in LOve with Him ...thats why blackmailing her was easy .. he was 100 Percent sure .. when hasks Bani to choose between HIM or the Raaz .. it will be HIM she shall choose .I got to hand it to U Jai ...U ARE GOOD .

Jai the- Truth shall set You Free

What can I say… I only wish Jai would have been so smart… it surely is a compliment to a guy who has problems realizing why exactly his wife blushes when he looks at her😆! If only Jai could pull such a fast one in a blink of a moment in a traumatized state he would have wiped out the Park road episode from his life forever… No Chopra, No Dixit, No doctor, No Mechanic would have come close to challenge him.

I can bet on the fact that Jai didn't intend to Blackmail Bani, but if Bani wasn't ready for the truth, didn't want to lose him at any cost… what is he supposed to do? If he still had gone ahead and told her the truth, he would have been termed heartless… he would have been blamed for being insensitive to her feelings.. just like how Bani noticed he effortlessly told her this is the end of the path for him! Jai is far too an emotional guy to play with people's emotions. It is no secret of what he was capable of when Pia-Pushkar deserted him… he could have gone on a rampage… but he reined his negative intension… he only threatened… he never acted on his threats. If only he had… We wont be sitting here to discuss Kasam se.

I just caught the repeat at the luxury of having got to see every fleeting emotion in his eyes on his face.. I can bet on the fact he wasn't blackmailing.

If u watch it carefully, u will find the 2^nd time Jai said they would never see eachother after this… It came across as if he was saying his Final Good Bye… there was a sense of finality to the way he said it. And having gathered all the courage he could he began to tell her what happened… she stopped him!

I really don't know what the Raaz is and what is Jai's role in it. But as far as I can see the only reason he is stopping the Raaz from coming in front of Bani is coz she will be shattered. For whatever reasons it seems particularly clear that Bani's dad (may be Mom) and Jai don't want Bani to come to know the truth coz it will shatter her completely. Jai's redemption seems to be in the fact that this truth doesn't not affect Bani at any cost. He isnt hiding it for the sake of his Ego or because Bani wont respect him any longer. Yday he told her what the Raaz means to him and it effect on his life.. it scares him, it demeans him, he cant forgiven himself for it… he said it all!

And I consider someone a coward when they aren't strong enough to face the truth and accept the fact primarily to their own self, to their own conscious. Jai has accepted he is wrong and he is accepted to Bani he is wrong… He is by no means a coward… if he is allowing himself to held for Ransom just goes to prove to what extend he can go to save Bani from a heartbreak.

As far as Bani's dad goes… I refuse to believe he is all saintly. It is obvious from the fact that he drunk himself to death has something got to do with a lot more guilt for whatever happened. If he did hold Jai responsible then why is it that he turned to Jai to take care of his daughters? Jai is silent on this issue coz he doesn't want to scatter Bani's image of a perfect dad.

Jai is guilty for whatever happened… but it is more on moral grounds. Till Jai is proven to be responsible for the accident I wont believe he is responsible even if Jai says so! I simply believe if Jai Walia's character is maintained throughout the various twists and turns… Jai cant be responsible for the accident and hide that fact for life. He is not made that way… well that is the understanding I have of the character… if anything to the contrary is shown then I disown Jai and Kasam Se!

Bye for now

Luv

Anu.

Originally posted by: Raaga_om

MY MUNNA IS INNOCENT!No sunvaai,no proofs,case!CASE DISMISSED! 😛

Raaga agar tum judge ho... to there is no need for me to be playing Jai's defense lawyer 😆... kamaka itne mehnat kiya maine... 😆

Luv

Anu.

ANU I love Jai .. and support Jai and bani as a Couple Bani Loves Jai very Much .. its Jai whose still doubtful about what Love is ...?
the Raaz affect Bani .. so Jai shouldnt be worried about How Bani will react ... If she Loves him she will Understand whatever happenned that Nite Jai didnt do it Intentionally .Acvcidents etc Happen .. an jai isnt a criminal with a Past recod .
he should have Had Faith in his undefined relationship .. and told the Raaz .. because .. she very much wanted to Know
..If Bani wasnt interested ... and hadnt reached the wharehouse on that sms message then the Raaz was concealed for Life . and there is no need to discuss about this kinda Past with Bani .

hii...well i'm new to kasamh se forum.

i completely with agree with anu's analysis of jai's character.
"I simply believe if Jai Walia's character is maintained throughout the various twists and turns… Jai cant be responsible for the accident and hide that fact for life. He is not made that way… well that is the understanding I have of the character… if anything to the contrary is shown then I disown Jai and Kasam Se! "

even i do have the same understandin of jai walia.he is neither coward nor dishonest.how can he emotionally blackmail bani when he thinks bani will leave him withina few days?its not logical enuf..atleast not in jai walia's case...he cud hav simply scolded her as he used 2 earlier but no!!..he actually cared abt her.

as anu said nethin contrary 2 jai's character n i disown jai n kasam se.
i even dont care abt the raaz or its impacts bcoz whtever jai is guilty of...he as a human being is entitled to.no one is 100% right in his lifetime n i dont xpect jai 2 b.he too has flaws n i adore him for tht bcoz its perfectly normal.

till date whtever jai has done, i think ne other person in his place wud hav reacted in tht way.he's in every way a human.

Originally posted by: PriyaS

Well I guess I do have it in for Jai Tinkerbell - he just grates my carrots! 😆 I also feel aggrieved for the poor mechanic who got such a thrashing from Jai for nothing. 😆

I feel terrible for Bani because he's hiding a huge truth from her. She put her life in danger to find out the secret in the first place. It would have been avoided if Jai told her the truth. It also helps to hear the truth from someone you love, it eases the pain.

I don't blame her for being worried/curious. Jai goes from Jekyll to Hyde and vice versa whenever Park Road is mentioned. 😆

Whatever the case may be, I can't wait for the episode tonight!

"he grates your carrots" that saying s os funny...but i do completely agree with you that jai should be honest...but i think he is scared he might lose bani and hence doesnt want to be honest with her...but in regards to the mechanic that was woah...bechaara even i felt sorry for him...you know Bani and Jai are as bad as each other...the more he hides the raaz the more she becomes nosy and wants to know...the pair of them are to funny...i was excited thinking finally the raaz will be revealed but no...have to wait longer...😆😆

Better Jai tell her since they were at that very Issue about Bani taking the risk Of her Life for the Raaz . before Bani hears it from someone else .
Then Jai wont have even the Excuse that he was protecting bani or was scared to loose her and thats why he didnt want her to Know . like priya said ...ITS ALL ABOUT JAI .
.When u love someone then U should Have Faith in that Love ..and that certain someone .

Originally posted by: klueless

ANU I love Jai .. and support Jai and bani as a Couple Bani Loves Jai very Much .. its Jai whose still doubtful about what Love is ...?
the Raaz affect Bani .. so Jai shouldnt be worried about How Bani will react ... If she Loves him she will Understand whatever happenned that Nite Jai didnt do it Intentionally .Acvcidents etc Happen .. an jai isnt a criminal with a Past recod .
he should have Had Faith in his undefined relationship .. and told the Raaz .. because .. she very much wanted to Know
..If Bani wasnt interested ... and hadnt reached the wharehouse on that sms message then the Raaz was concealed for Life . and there is no need to discuss about this kinda Past with Bani .

I wanted to get at Anu's post but couldn't hold back after I saw yours! Well you're saying that if Bani loves Jai she will understand and so Jai should tell her the raaz but does Jai know if Bani loves him? I mean you know and I know and Bani knows and every other person who watches KS knows but we've been through this before and Jai our very own duffer doesn't! 😊 He's completely oblivious to Bani's love and even though he has an inkling that she's fond of him he doesn't know if she LOVES him coz she hasn't said it in those words yet! So to Jai she's still the girl he's married to and whom he's fond of but isn't sure of how she would react upon hearing the raaz. He doesn't know her inside out (at least in that episode) so definitely is afraid of her reaction to the raaz. He can't just blurt it out to her if he doesn't know how their relationship would face it. He can't just risk his understanding, his fondness, his comfort with Bani for the raaz.....at that point he didn't know it was love but he knew that he couldn't lose Bani and that thought occupied his mind. BUT in spite of knowing that he would lose Bani even if he told the raaz he was going to tell but it was BANI who stopped him so I wouldn't blame Jai for not telling it to her. He couldn't have insisted on stopping her and telling her the raaz if she didn't want to hear it and plus after having said what she did Jai wasn't exactly in his senses either. She took him by surprise saying that if she were to lose Jai to the raaz she would pick Jai! So again here's a confused man...confused about his feelings for his wife, confused about her feelings towards him, confused about their relationship and where it stands so amidst all that if Jai could think manipulatively then well we HAVE to clone this man coz how many guys do you know who think so clearly amongst so much confusion....I don't know many who think clearly AT ALL! 😉😆

wow......wow....wow!!.......👏

as alwayz.....amazing analyzation anu......SUPERB.......keep it up hun👏......n i luved every bit........

infact i m still smiling.......😃...n crying😭..........oh! yea also blushing😳........😆😆😆.........bless u hun!!😊

luV,

*LiSa*

PS:

oppppssss sry......i also forgot laughing as well😆....hehe😛

Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

"he grates your carrots" that saying s os funny...but i do completely agree with you that jai should be honest...but i think he is scared he might lose bani and hence doesnt want to be honest with her...but in regards to the mechanic that was woah...bechaara even i felt sorry for him...you know Bani and Jai are as bad as each other...the more he hides the raaz the more she becomes nosy and wants to know...the pair of them are to funny...i was excited thinking finally the raaz will be revealed but no...have to wait longer...😆😆

hahahahahahahaha.....LMAO😆

Originally posted by: anushka_5

What can I say… I only wish Jai would have been so smart… it surely is a compliment to a guy who has problems realizing why exactly his wife blushes when he looks at her😆! If only Jai could pull such a fast one in a blink of a moment in a traumatized state he would have wiped out the Park road episode from his life forever… No Chopra, No Dixit, No doctor, No Mechanic would have come close to challenge him.

I can bet on the fact that Jai didn't intend to Blackmail Bani, but if Bani wasn't ready for the truth, didn't want to lose him at any cost… what is he supposed to do? If he still had gone ahead and told her the truth, he would have been termed heartless… he would have been blamed for being insensitive to her feelings.. just like how Bani noticed he effortlessly told her this is the end of the path for him! Jai is far too an emotional guy to play with people's emotions. It is no secret of what he was capable of when Pia-Pushkar deserted him… he could have gone on a rampage… but he reined his negative intension… he only threatened… he never acted on his threats. If only he had… We wont be sitting here to discuss Kasam se.

I just caught the repeat at the luxury of having got to see every fleeting emotion in his eyes on his face.. I can bet on the fact he wasn't blackmailing.

If u watch it carefully, u will find the 2^nd time Jai said they would never see eachother after this… It came across as if he was saying his Final Good Bye… there was a sense of finality to the way he said it. And having gathered all the courage he could he began to tell her what happened… she stopped him!

I really don't know what the Raaz is and what is Jai's role in it. But as far as I can see the only reason he is stopping the Raaz from coming in front of Bani is coz she will be shattered. For whatever reasons it seems particularly clear that Bani's dad (may be Mom) and Jai don't want Bani to come to know the truth coz it will shatter her completely. Jai's redemption seems to be in the fact that this truth doesn't not affect Bani at any cost. He isnt hiding it for the sake of his Ego or because Bani wont respect him any longer. Yday he told her what the Raaz means to him and it effect on his life.. it scares him, it demeans him, he cant forgiven himself for it… he said it all!

And I consider someone a coward when they aren't strong enough to face the truth and accept the fact primarily to their own self, to their own conscious. Jai has accepted he is wrong and he is accepted to Bani he is wrong… He is by no means a coward… if he is allowing himself to held for Ransom just goes to prove to what extend he can go to save Bani from a heartbreak.

As far as Bani's dad goes… I refuse to believe he is all saintly. It is obvious from the fact that he drunk himself to death has something got to do with a lot more guilt for whatever happened. If he did hold Jai responsible then why is it that he turned to Jai to take care of his daughters? Jai is silent on this issue coz he doesn't want to scatter Bani's image of a perfect dad.

Jai is guilty for whatever happened… but it is more on moral grounds. Till Jai is proven to be responsible for the accident I wont believe he is responsible even if Jai says so! I simply believe if Jai Walia's character is maintained throughout the various twists and turns… Jai cant be responsible for the accident and hide that fact for life. He is not made that way… well that is the understanding I have of the character… if anything to the contrary is shown then I disown Jai and Kasam Se!

Bye for now

Luv

Anu.

Now moving on to what I originally wanted to comment on 😃......couldn't agree with you more Anushka! JW def isn't the brightest of men....I mean if he was we wouldn't have anything to watch! He definitely is emotional....he's like a coconut....hard from outside and soft from inside.....he's a big softie and rarely lets that emotional side of him creep out but when it does he just becomes a big baby and you just wanna go and give him a huge hug.....ok def digressing from the topic!
Jai's voice modulation and tone showed me a lot more of his protective nature than his actual dialogues and actions and you could sense the fright and anger in his voice when he reprimands Bani for coming to such an isolated place at an odd hour all alone! I completely agree that if there's anything on his mind it's just protecting Bani from the pain that the raaz will cause her and also from finding out Jai's role in it. I'm with you when you say that Jai prolly is a victim himself....I for one have been predicting for days that Jai's role in the tragedy behind the raaz is prolly distorted and Jai is prolly living under someone else's guilt. But of course that's for Kekta to know and us to find out so hope the next 3 working days put our speculations to rest!
I agree that Jai is no coward.....he wouldn't have owned up to his guilt if he was. He wouldn't have been able to tell Bani that he'll distance her from his life for the sake of protecting her life if he was a coward! Yes he did hide the truth but not because he's a coward but because he's in love! He can't bear to see the object of his affection in pain and would do anything to protect her.....even disgrace himself in her eyes! Man as I write it I think I love his character even more! 😳
Bani's dad def seems like a sketchy character to me.....I can't form an opinion on him other than that he held onto a secret all his life and yet lead his daughter right to the middle of it all after his death! I'd rather reserve my comments on him after I found out about the raaz!
I def think Jai's character is well etched with grey shades but making him completely black isn't in Kekta's plans....or so I think so I truly think that Jai's being harder on himself than necessary....oh well 3 more days to go and we'll know it all! But until then I'm still a staunch supporter of the JnB campaign! 😃