What a fab performance by Ram!! - Page 133

Originally posted by: soapbubble

I'm so with you guys - they have these two wonderful characters... this proud, lion of a man and on the other hand this silent strong woman..
they've squandered everything... made out Bani to be this silly woman without maturity or fairness and Jai Walia looked such a sorry figure today.

And what's all this sudden hating business - it was an accident for god's sake. And it's NOT 'only human' to hate - I had an accident when someone crashed into me... i hurt my spine and was bed ridden for a while.. but not once have I blamed the driver of that car for what was a freak occurance.. and that man was a perfect stranger.
Ok, her mother died, but it was seven years ago and you LOVE this man, Bani, remember?
Gosh, I'm so upset, I want to make a serial myself 😃

Aww...sorry to hear about your accident Soap Glad that you're fine now! 🤗
But yea I know what you mean! Bani completely chose to ignore the "accident" part of it! I mean I can understand Jai's guilt coz whether it's an accident or not a human life was lost but Bani playing the blame game is very low! It's very unlike Bani's character to blame someone for something that happened as an accident.....but maybe she was caught by the moment! 😕 (I can give her that much but that's about it!). I think though that Bani will go through an inner turmoil of knowing that she is madly in love with the man who ACCIDENTALLY killed his mother! I think she will eventually realise that her love for him surpasses her "hatred" and will succumb to it but I don't see it happening any time soon!

Btw Chicas (hehe Soap stole your word again! 😉) here's a reply of mine to another post that babita put up. I thought I'd share it with you guys coz it seemed like a brainwave that came through while reading something that she wrote. Definitely comment!
"He was wrong for not telling her in the beginning".....well was he really? For one her own father didn't tell her how their mother died. And to top it off he packed her and her sisters off to the very same man who "caused" the death of his wife! So really how innocent is Nishikant Dixit in this situation! I mean Jai knows that Nishikant hasn't told his children about the real cause of their mom's death (at least he can assume he hasn't from Nishi's statement on the fateful night) so how was he supposed to bring it up with Bani and tell her that for 7 years she was living under the misconception of her mother's mode of death! I think it's unfair for people to assume that Jai should've told her esp since he was honouring the word of a deceased father, maintaining the father's respect in his children's eyes and saving the woman he's in love with it from further pain! I know I'm being fiercely defensive of Jai but I think him hiding the truth to a certain extent is justified!

Originally posted by: soapbubble

I'm so with you guys - they have these two wonderful characters... this proud, lion of a man and on the other hand this silent strong woman..
they've squandered everything... made out Bani to be this silly woman without maturity or fairness and Jai Walia looked such a sorry figure today.

And what's all this sudden hating business - it was an accident for god's sake. And it's NOT 'only human' to hate - I had an accident when someone crashed into me... i hurt my spine and was bed ridden for a while.. but not once have I blamed the driver of that car for what was a freak occurance.. and that man was a perfect stranger.
Ok, her mother died, but it was seven years ago and you LOVE this man, Bani, remember?
Gosh, I'm so upset, I want to make a serial myself 😃

I am happy buddy of your views. I have also been through an accident where our family was hurt but never pressed charges on the driver ok here she lost her mother but has far has I remember the girls only spoke about their father never mentioned mother and now suddenly Bani feels her mothers absence kind of strange😕 and blaming your hubby just after you have passionaltely shared ahug with him did you really love him I doubt now.because acording to me love means sacrifice and forgiveness specially because Bani showed to epitome of love and forgiveness suddenly her chandika roop towards JW is kind of odd and unacceptable😆😆

Originally posted by: Piscean

Btw Chicas (hehe Soap stole your word again! 😉) here's a reply of mine to another post that babita put up. I thought I'd share it with you guys coz it seemed like a brainwave that came through while reading something that she wrote. Definitely comment!
"He was wrong for not telling her in the beginning".....well was he really? For one her own father didn't tell her how their mother died. And to top it off he packed her and her sisters off to the very same man who "caused" the death of his wife! So really how innocent is Nishikant Dixit in this situation! I mean Jai knows that Nishikant hasn't told his children about the real cause of their mom's death (at least he can assume he hasn't from Nishi's statement on the fateful night) so how was he supposed to bring it up with Bani and tell her that for 7 years she was living under the misconception of her mother's mode of death! I think it's unfair for people to assume that Jai should've told her esp since he was honouring the word of a deceased father, maintaining the father's respect in his children's eyes and saving the woman he's in love with it from further pain! I know I'm being fiercely defensive of Jai but I think him hiding the truth to a certain extent is justified!

I agree totally after all her father has hidden facts from the children why does she blame Jai her husband who know what type of person was her father though I dont mean to be harsh but that man drinking and debts surely showed he was not such good person

hey guysssssss!!!! im bak!!! btw wat the hell is wrong w/bani? pehle to she just ran in his arms nd now she says god will punish u??? thank god she's preg or they wouldnt have a bahana to stay together...

Pi,
MY POINT EXACTLY
Her Dad conceals the fact, she doesnt bother digging it up any other time, now when her sexy hubby is actually trying to protect her from hurt and pain she gets all mad at him?

I seriously doubt if she has any brains at all

I think its a script flaw

Here we are vehemently defending J &B and their so called "true love triumphing" BS

This is just a show bus without a driver!
We are just wasting our time theorizing and rationalizing Bani's behavior, we just ahve to come up with an excuse so that we can continue to fool ourselves into thinking theirs is eternal love

Jai is SO MUCH MORE BELIEVABLE........... emotional, sensitive, real, impulsive...............

He just gets lovable by the minute

Originally posted by: mayona

I agree totally after all her father has hidden facts from the children why does she blame Jai her husband who know what type of person was her father though I dont mean to be harsh but that man drinking and debts surely showed he was not such good person

hey mayo..jus read this n had a question.. u kno d letter d girls brought when they came to live with jai..well had they read the letter? cz their dad might have written in there not to say something..rite?

Originally posted by: aditee

Pi,
MY POINT EXACTLY
Her Dad conceals the fact, she doesnt bother digging it up any other time, now when her sexy hubby is actually trying to protect her from hurt and pain she gets all mad at him?

I seriously doubt if she has any brains at all

I think its a script flaw

Here we are vehemently defending J &B and their so called "true love triumphing" BS

This is just a show bus without a driver!
We are just wasting our time theorizing and rationalizing Bani's behavior, we just ahve to come up with an excuse so that we can continue to fool ourselves into thinking theirs is eternal love

Jai is SO MUCH MORE BELIEVABLE........... emotional, sensitive, real, impulsive...............

He just gets lovable by the minute

I know eh Aditee? I think it's a good thing in a way that they are making Bani's character so ridiculous....makes us appreciate Jai all that much more! 😃 You're right he's so much more believable with his reactions and rationale! No wonder we can relate to him a lot more easily than with Bani even though she's the woman 😛

Arey, JW se to galti hui hai (do I sound like him now 😉 ) aur woh maan bhi raha hai. Pia ne jo uske saath kiya in COLD BLOOD uska kya?

Did JW go stalk her and give her Bhagwan ka vasta and give her shraap. What Pia did was a bigger sin, usne ek achhe khaase zinda aadmi ko maar daala in full consciouness.............(Main kitni biased hoon na? I LOVE IT 😃 )

Jai may not have even killed her Mom............

Originally posted by: nsb416

hey guysssssss!!!! im bak!!! btw wat the hell is wrong w/bani? pehle to she just ran in his arms nd now she says god will punish u??? thank god she's preg or they wouldnt have a bahana to stay together...

Welcome back Noor....well you can read back and see our frustration over the episode! 😡