Bani's Behavior and Pia - Page 2

Oh please Klueless, plz do not justify Bani's doormat behavior. I mean, she is more worried about Anu than her entire clan? Oh Heck! she is not even related to Anu

I didnt see her give any crap to Anu when Anu was pregnant, in fact she drove her marriage down the drain.
But when it comes to Rano, she is ready to give her the death sentence for just loving Sahil?
I JUST DONT GET IT!

I mean uski ma gaayab hai, but Dad, bro, Jai Uncle itne saare log hain to care for her. They are sooooooooooo rich they cud find another loser for her. I mean aaj ki date mein India mein seriously who really gives a crap about teen pregnancy, tell me?
I know its a show and Ekta is the most ridiculous of them all.
But I happened to spend 6 months in Blore between last yr and this, let me tell u, morality has a new definition even for the middle class.

I personally feel that Bani "chooses" her battles.
Dont know why. Coz with ammo down as far as Pati and SIL go, means, its disiaster for her.

Originally posted by: aditee

Oh please Klueless, plz do not justify Bani's doormat behavior. I mean, she is more worried about Anu than her entire clan? Oh Heck! she is not even related to Anu

I didnt see her give any crap to Anu when Anu was pregnant, in fact she drove her marriage down the drain.
But when it comes to Rano, she is ready to give her the death sentence for just loving Sahil?
I JUST DONT GET IT!

I mean uski ma gaayab hai, but Dad, bro, Jai Uncle itne saare log hain to care for her. They are sooooooooooo rich they cud find another loser for her. I mean aaj ki date mein India mein seriously who really gives a crap about teen pregnancy, tell me?
I know its a show and Ekta is the most ridiculous of them all.
But I happened to spend 6 months in Blore between last yr and this, let me tell u, morality has a new definition even for the middle class.

I personally feel that Bani "chooses" her battles.
Dont know why. Coz with ammo down as far as Pati and SIL go, means, its disiaster for her.

Today I felt Bani is on cloud nine literally and has forgotten her own complicated love saga...and the complicated relationships she's in...otherwise she would've given Rano's situation sisterly consideration as opposed to simply Walia parivaar ki bahu etc.

Guys, I think Bani was able to scream and shout at Rano because she has a right over her. Rano is her younger sister, and therefore her responsibility. That gives her every right to reprimand Rano severely. If you remember, Bani also initially refused to support Pia's engagement with Jai, she was also harsh with her, so I don't think she's being unnecessarily harsh to Rano.

Bani has no right over Anu. If anyone had to reprimand Anu over her behaviour, it should be her parents. Already Bani has no real status in the house, she still calls Jai Mr. Walia 😆 , imagine if she berated Ani for falling pregnant!

I agree Priya. I know most of us are troubled with Bani's behaviour yesterday, but as u have said it, she only has control over her sisters life and can interfere there. Of course, I don't want her to do that, because both Pia and Rano are nature enough to take their decisions themselves.

What I feel is that Bani has become very insecure once again the moment she saw Rano and Sahil in an embrace. Mostly b'cos, its too late and any changes that she tries to make in the settled equations will literally bring down the entire house on her head. 😕 She knows that although she loves Jai madly, she is not sure of his reactions and also that she really doesn't have any decision-making right in her husband's house.
Yes,she's also concerned about Anu and the unexpected pregnancy, and like everybody else in the house, she doesn't want to take a chance. If Rano had told her earlier, I don't think there would have been much difference, but at least it would have given her some time to think about the issue.
And, by God's grace, doesn't she have anough right to think about her life, her love and her future for once? She doesn't need to put her head in the guillotine all the time and she's scared of losing Jai's love and trust once again. God, she's behaving normally for once, I think.

I did not find anything wrong with Bani's behaviour with Rano yesterday, but yes, her whole attitude towards the issue was surprising. Bani has gone through the exact same thing a while ago, something which changed her life along with Jai forever (For Good or Bad is another issue). Just imagine, if Bani had only told Jai once about Pia and Pushkar.....

Now, she is repeating the same mistake again.....Considering that Jai and Bani share a good relationship now (Comparitively) she could have just gone and told him about it.....But Bani kept quiet knowing that Saahil and Rano are in love.....And when they elope, this fact will tumble out of the closet.....Bani will herself tell this to everyone.....and naturally the whole family will breath fire on her, including her staunchest supporters Aditya and Massi!

But Jai will be the only person to support her, I wonder what will make Jai support Bani, though?

MT