Jai and Bani's Confrontation Scene!

Hi Everyone (Anu, this post is particularly for you, as I just finished watching the episode again...yawn, its midnight!)

Bani does not look happy when she goes inside Jai's Study...she has a very slight smile on her face, but it is a sad smile....it reflects the happiness and contentment of getting Pia married but it also shows the grief of letting Jai down....the moment Jai enters, her eyes turns very serene and downcast! Jai holds Bani tightly and tells her how dare she gets Pia and Pushkar married in his house and in such a manner. Bani tells him that she did not want to do such a thing and had wanted to tell that Pia and Pushkar are there at the Walia House on the day of the Party (Remember when Jai and Mohan corner Bani) but Jai was trapped in such a fury of hatred, that she couldn't tell him as much as she wanted to....this proves that Bani did not decieve him nor did she have any intentions to do so...Jai's temper always gets the better of him. If Jai had given one chance to Bani, she would have told him about Pia and Pushkar being at the Walia House! Bani tells Jai that she along with her sisters have great respect for Jai. As I mentioned before, Bani will never say something she does not mean...if she says she respects Jai, that means she respects Jai! What she did was rebellious, but not disrespectful...no one except the family members came to know of what has actually transpired between the Husband and Wife! If she had to be disrespectful to Jai, she could have easily done so....remember what the Media guy tells Jai, that he has been most supportive of Pia and Pushkar's marriage...now that means, Bani would have told the Media guys about Jai's support.....if even it was a lie, it was better than telling them that Jai is up against two helpless lovers. Bani literally pleads with Jai to let bygones be bygones but he replies by telling her that she sat with her face covered in the marriage, isn't it? Now he will do such a thing with her, that she won't be able to face herself ever....who says such things to a wife? Jai says a lot more and Bani just keeps quiet and listens to him...there is not even a trace of antagonism in her face.....but at the same time, she does not look scared of Jai....and good for her! Bani doesn't have to let go of her self-respect and honor to pacify and make-up with a husband who's ego has been crushed. All said and done, Pia and Pushkar, the two idiots have been married and poor Bani and poor Jai are stuck in the most dreadful relationship a person can ever dream of.....I think that Bani should just keep out of Jai's way, but at the same time, not take any insult or any provocation from Jai lying down...she is his lawfully wedded wife...not his personal doormat....let Jai realize this and start respecting her.....love will follow! And on an offnote, Jai has forgiven Pia....I am pretty sure of that! When he talks about settling scores or rather destroying Bani, he never once mentions Pia...whereas previously, it was always Pia whom he wanted to finish off.....I thought that Jai kissed Pia with a lot of affection and his "All the best" was so heart-wrenching....😭 And only for one instant, Bani's eyes are really hurt.....
• Most importantly, for the first time since the whole fiasco happened, Pia ran away, Bani and Jai got married, Pushkar's betrayal came to front and Bani's challenge to her husband of getting Pia and Pushkar married....Jai, alongside being furious and angry had been equally hurt and desolate, but today, not once did he look hurt, nor did he look angry....he just looked cold and full of deep hatred...the kind of emotion which only wants to destroy for the sake of destruction...and does not care to see what it leaves in the wake of its fury....it was easy and obvious for all of us to sympathize with a Jai who was broken, dejecteda and lonely (as did Bani in the bedroom sequence) but its going to be tough for us to sympathize with a man who's only mission in life is to live in his past and make others present and his own miserable!😕

All those who watched this episode and all those who have read the updates, kindly share your views and here are my questions for today:

Do you think that Bani has trampled over Jai's ego and has been utterly insensitive to him and his feelings? If the answer to the above is yes, do you think that it was deliberate on part of Bani or was it just circumstances? Do you think that Bani genuinly wanted to bridge the gap between herself and Jai today, when she goes to his study? Or was it more of a mollifying attempt from her end, because she knows that she has made a truly formidable enemy? Do you think that Bani really respects Jai, but is no longer scared of him and hence will stand up against him from now onwards, whenever he does anything wrong to her? Do you think that Bani goes against Jai only in desperate situations, when he really pushes her to the wall and that overall she is fine putting up with everything, Jigs taunts, Ranveer's evil schemes and Jai's cold behaviour towards her? Is it the dread of Jai harming her sisters that makes Bani react rather than her own welfare and safety? What do you think Jai meant by, "Ab mein tumhein Shaadi ka sahi matlab bataonga?" Please, no need to be graphic in explanations😳😆A general answer would suffice!
• What should be expect next week? Another Kutumb in the making...another Ansh-Nandini episode in the making or a truly different take on Jai and Bani's relationship?

Now I am finally signing off, because its past mid-night here and I can see lots of Owls flying from my window.....maybe Harry Potter is in town😕😆What a PJ!

Love,

MT

1) I tink Bani has hurt Jai's ego but only in reply to Jai's horrible behaviour towards her sis , herself and Pusky. If Jai wouldnt have hurt everyone so badly and would have reacted to the PUSKHY-PIA love affair in "noramal" "sane" way then Bani wouldnt have done this.

2) i have ansered the 2 ques in the first one

3)I think Bani is kind of person who NEVER RUNS FROM ISSUES AND PROBLEMS. everytime she does something questionable she faces her conseques and is not a runner from bad situations like her darling sis.

4)I tink Bani respects Jai and only stands up to him in the most DESPERATE SITUATIONS. otherwise she follows him and bears him all the time because she REALIZES THAT SHE HAS WRONGED JAI.

5)i TINK that by this JAI means that Bani married JAI WITHOUT CONSIDERING THE IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE. i TINK HE FEELS THAT BANI made fun of the word MARRIAGE WHEN SHE SAT ON THE MANDAP UNANNOUCED. i think jai really respected the meaning of marriage as he was heard sayin that "jo shaadi maine kabhi kee he nahi" and he was dejected when bani made fun of term marriage and now jai wants to teach her too bad she made fun of this word and now she has to suffer.

6)I tink i would be different from Kutumb because there the hatred between main characters was mutual unlike in Kasamh se where Bani does not hate jAI.

Do you think that Bani has trampled over Jai's ego and has been utterly insensitive to him and his feelings?

if the answer to the above is yes, do you think that it was deliberate on part of Bani or was it just circumstances?



Do you think that Bani genuinly wanted to bridge the gap between herself and Jai today, when she goes to his study? Or was it more of a mollifying attempt from her end, because she knows that she has made a truly formidable enemy?


Do you think that Bani really respects Jai, but is no longer scared of him and hence will stand up against him from now onwards, whenever he does anything wrong to her?


Do you think that Bani goes against Jai only in desperate situations, when he really pushes her to the wall and that overall she is fine putting up with everything, Jigs taunts, Ranveer's evil schemes and Jai's cold behaviour towards her? Is it the dread of Jai harming her sisters that makes Bani react rather than her own welfare and safety?



What do you think Jai meant by, "Ab mein tumhein Shaadi ka sahi matlab bataonga?" Please, no need to be graphic in explanationsA general answer would suffice!
What should be expect next week? Another Kutumb in the making...another Ansh-Nandini episode in the making or a truly different take on Jai and Bani's relationship?



It was Just Circumstance ... .. She Just wanted pia's happiness .and as an elder sister .in place of the Parents .. she did her Duty .. even though she knew .. it would hurt jai She went to the study .. to clear his mis understanding her actions ... and also .. to make a final attempt .. to make him understand .. that .. what is done is done .. and to Move on

. Yes Bani Reapects Jai .. and .. Cares for .. Him..( and is probably ..already in love with Him .. But Knowing ..bani she might remain silent about her feelings .)..She isnt Scared of him .. and will stand upto him ..

if he does anything wrong Bani .. would do anything for her sisters .. that means .. standing aginst .. 100 jai.walia's ... and Ranveer's ..Jigs etc .

Well .. I do not xpect .. Jai to behave like Ansh ... as he is the Main Lead ...so I think it could be .. anotehr Gauri /Pratham .. Battle which .. will end in LOVE heheheheheheehee

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Hi Everyone (Anu, this post is particularly for you, as I just finished watching the episode again...yawn, its midnight!)

• Bani does not look happy when she goes inside Jai's Study...she has a very slight smile on her face, but it is a sad smile....it reflects the happiness and contentment of getting Pia married but it also shows the grief of letting Jai down....the moment Jai enters, her eyes turns very serene and downcast!

I might have read it wrong, but I saw a smile with content and happiness too for her sister. Her reactions changed when only Jai came in front… does that mean she remembered Jai's state only when he came in front. (I know u r going to sighing at my childish behaviour. But I desperately want someone to convince me Bani wasn't against Jai's interest. U know na I am happy coz bani made the mistake of taking Pia's palce just coz Jai and Bani are meant to be.)

• Jai holds Bani tightly and tells her how dare she gets Pia and Pushkar married in his house and in such a manner. Bani tells him that she did not want to do such a thing and had wanted to tell that Pia and Pushkar are there at the Walia House on the day of the Party (Remember when Jai and Mohan corner Bani) but Jai was trapped in such a fury of hatred, that she couldn't tell him as much as she wanted to....this proves that Bani did not decieve him nor did she have any intentions to do so...Jai's temper always gets the better of him. If Jai had given one chance to Bani, she would have told him about Pia and Pushkar being at the Walia House!

U really believe Bani would have given it away? I mean tell Jai that Pia and Puhskar are in his house? and after she saying so what did she want Jai to do? Does she even know Jai? Looks like she knew him well that is why she kept quiet. Even if jai was calm do u think she would have told him. Na, I don't think Bani is such a fool. Not after seeing her outwit Jai 3 times in 5 hours.

Btw what if Jai had forgiven and forgotten about how Pai left him with a different bride on the day of his wedding. Do u think it is still correct to expect him to have his ex-fiance's wedding at his house? No. how fair is to say if Bani can see Pushkar get married to someone else, Jai also should be able to accept it. Both of them are tempermentally different and not to forget their situations are drastically different. Pushkar didn't leave Bani the day he was supposed to get married to her, did he? He doesn't even know about it. While Pia accepted Jai's marriage proposal.

• Bani tells Jai that she along with her sisters have great respect for Jai. As I mentioned before, Bani will never say something she does not mean...if she says she respects Jai, that means she respects Jai! What she did was rebellious, but not disrespectful...no one except the family members came to know of what has actually transpired between the Husband and Wife! If she had to be disrespectful to Jai, she could have easily done so....remember what the Media guy tells Jai, that he has been most supportive of Pia and Pushkar's marriage...now that means, Bani would have told the Media guys about Jai's support.....if even it was a lie, it was better than telling them that Jai is up against two helpless lovers.

I wont agrue on Bani's respect for Jai. I admire Bani a lot, she is one of her kind. This is the only time I will disagree with what she has done coz she much as she wont have intended to hurt Jai… that is what she ended up doing. And it wasn't as if she wasn't aware what this would mean to Jai. Btw what was the Media doing there in the 1^st place? Wasn't it called to keep Jai under control? Or was it meant for anyother purpose I am not getting? Was it any damage control for Jai??? afterall the world seems to believe he ditched Pia for he loved Bani. Was it potraying him as a great guy by getting his ex-fianc now his sister in law married in his own house.

• Bani literally pleads with Jai to let bygones be bygones but he replies by telling her that she sat with her face covered in the marriage, isn't it? Now he will do such a thing with her, that she won't be able to face herself ever....who says such things to a wife? Jai says a lot more and Bani just keeps quiet and listens to him...there is not even a trace of antagonism in her face.....but at the same time, she does not look scared of Jai....and good for her! Bani doesn't have to let go of her self-respect and honor to pacify and make-up with a husband who's ego has been crushed.

With reference to getting over the past, he said he will provided she will return the Jai who was at peace with himself. When she said she couldn't do that, he said it isnt possible for him to forget. Why blame Jai for not being able to forgive? He would forgive everything and everyone one day. But for that give him the space and time. From the time he has known the truth, he has only reacted to a situation coz it has ended up in infuriating him more. Everytime Pia-Pushkar's happiness seems to be placed before his troubled heart. WHY?

I don't expect Bani to stand by Jai just coz she is married to him and is his wife. All I expect from Bani is to be compassionate towards Jai and a Human Being, as a friend and as that person who has always turned to Jai when in trouble. I am not saying she doesn't care… but somehow it isnt serving the purpose. We all know when Jai saw the concern for him, he didn't retaliate or hurt Bani, in his own silent way he appreciated the gesture. No one in this world is worth so much that u give up ur self respect. Jai is not worth Bani losing her self respect… I would never want that.

• All said and done, Pia and Pushkar, the two idiots have been married and poor Bani and poor Jai are stuck in the most dreadful relationship a person can ever dream of.....I think that Bani should just keep out of Jai's way, but at the same time, not take any insult or any provocation from Jai lying down...she is his lawfully wedded wife...not his personal doormat....let Jai realize this and start respecting her.....love will follow!

Jai respects Bani a lot. Can anyone forget how he appoligised to her for questioning her integrity? He knows to value someone's self respect and esteem. He makes sure he never insults her in front of the world. What turned this situation upside down is the fact that Bani broke his trust so many times the same day(btw I still have my doubts abpout Mohan). Remember he placed the trust he had for Bani above the love he had for Pia. He said ek ne mere vishwas ko thoda, dusare ne mere dil ko, aur teesre ne mujhse mere pyar ko hi cheen liya'. I agree Bani should keep away from Jai. let him cope with the situation on his own. Jai wont treat Bani as a doormat, he treats her his equal in many ways.

His confrontations with Bani are always rude which gives the picture of him abusing her, but more than that it is Jai pouring out his heart to her. Tears well up in her eyes not coz she is hurt by Jai, but for Jai's hurt. If Jai's hurt moves her so much, then why does she forget about it when she sees Pia? Not that I care, but has she ever told pia that what she did by walking out of Jai at their wedding was wrong? I have never seen Bani say so… I wonder why? There is no point discussing it, I agree but doesn't Jai have the right to know why Pia agreed to his proposal and betrayed him so badly. You want a solution to this problem? It lies in Pia having the guts to tell jai she said yes to him coz of his Money and walked out on him coz she didn't loved someelse more than his money. Does Pia have the guts? Or Bani for that matter to face that truth??? Does Bani have the guts to shake up Jai and tell him that Pia doesn't deserve him coz she never loved him, it was just his money and power?

No point in dweeling on Pia-Pushkar. Pia is going to walk out of this wedding coz of her ambitions. Jai shouldn't even give a damn now. Trust me, if I could have my way I would stop Jai from wasting time over Pia and Pushkar.

• And on an offnote, Jai has forgiven Pia....I am pretty sure of that! When he talks about settling scores or rather destroying Bani, he never once mentions Pia...whereas previously, it was always Pia whom he wanted to finish off.....I thought that Jai kissed Pia with a lot of affection and his "All the best" was so heart-wrenching.... And only for one instant, Bani's eyes are really hurt.....

Jai forgiving Pia??? This is not going to happen till the day he is hopelessly in love with Bani and he is thankful for Pia walking out on him on time. I saw him bite this teeth when he stood in front of Pia. Balaji's patented secial effects(the faces becoming red) only proved Jai was all flared up. That kiss was an act for media who was standing by same as when he hugged pushkar. Bani's reaction was that of a normal wife… and I am glad to see that. It remained only for a moment coz she had understood what it meant. Pia-Pushkar's eyes were popping out. Jai is over with the feelings he had for Pia, he is not done with Pia. Not as yet. I still say Jai allow them to rot to hell on their own, u just sever ur relationships with them.

All those who watched this episode and all those who have read the updates, kindly share your views and here are my questions for today:

• Do you think that Bani has trampled over Jai's ego and has been utterly insensitive to him and his feelings?

Only this time around, Yes. It didn't matter to me much to see his ego being trashed… what really bothered me was Bani going ahead with it despite knowing it will hurt Jai a lot more. I know the argument is going to be so what, Jai does it all the time, Jigyasa does it… why not Bani. The point is it Bani's nature to overlook someone's feeling for another person's happiness. I am talking about 3 individuals here and not Bani's Husband, Sister or Friend. Pia-Pushkar had her favour cause she loved them more… so be it.

• If the answer to the above is yes, do you think that it was deliberate on part of Bani or was it just circumstances?

It was circumstantial. But that doesn't take away from the fact that it left bani having to make a choice of overlooking Jai's emotions. I still believe this wasn't the best way to solve problems. The Problem here is Jai… he has to be solved first. Once he cools down, situation would have cooled down as well.

• Do you think that Bani genuinly wanted to bridge the gap between herself and Jai today, when she goes to his study? Or was it more of a mollifying attempt from her end, because she knows that she has made a truly formidable enemy?

Even if she intended too… it was the wrong time. Did she expect Jai to listen to her and say 'he is ok with it'? She knows jai well enough atleast not to expect that from him. My point is if she knew she was making a formidable enemy, why did she go ahead with it? As much we hate it, Jai will go on a rampage and worse he will be the one who will suffer more along with Bani.

• Do you think that Bani really respects Jai, but is no longer scared of him and hence will stand up against him from now onwards, whenever he does anything wrong to her?

U said it, she respects him but is no longer scared of him. My advice to Bani be cautious dear, he will catch u unaware and this time he will make sure he hasn't underestimated ur moves. She should stand up against anything he does wrong, but just wish she handles with care and ensure she doesn't end up flaring the devil in him.

• What do you think Jai meant by, "Ab mein tumhein Shaadi ka sahi matlab bataonga?" Please, no need to be graphic in explanations A general answer would suffice!

I really cant say what he meant, but one think is sure he wont resort to claiming any 'maritial rights' against her wish. Jai cant do that, HE WONT. (I really hope Ekta doesn't spoil Jai's character. If that happens… I will disown Jai) I feel th etag of Being Mrs Jai Walia will weigh her down. He will put her in situations (just like Mt Abu Casino project) where she wouldn't have an option but support Jai. The boardroom is going to be the battlefied… in all probability he will make her one of the directors of the company.

• What should be expect next week? Another Kutumb in the making...another Ansh-Nandini episode in the making or a truly different take on Jai and Bani's relationship?

Ansh-Nandini episode is OUT. Pratham-Gauri story will look very immature for Jai and Bani. So lets see what is in store for us… all I can promise is some brilliant acting from Ram Kapoor and Prachi.

I am done answering ur questions MT. It has been a bad day for Jai-Bani fans without a doubt, we are busy taking up stands for/against Jai and Bani. As far me the only thought that brings a smile on my face is Bani exercising her right over the Walia House. She so confidently went ahead and arranged the wedding in that house, being the lady of the house. Only wish her husband could tolerate this act.

One thing I will clarify… I am not against Bani, but against what she did today. Only Today! I support Jai and probably will till he gains his composure but that definetly doesn't mean I approve of anything and everything he does. At the end of the day, I want these two to realize they are meant to be together. Pia and Pushkar were just mere catalyst who came into their lives to get them together else, they weren't even looking at eachother when god had planned to make them fall in LOVE.

Nothing really matters to me more than Jai and Bani leading a happy life together. I am so sure the minute I am going to see Bani looking at Jai with care and concern, I will yelling at Jai for being blind. I cant see the two in distress. And if today I reacted strongly(very 'jai'ish behavior) in Jai's favour and against Bani that was coz they had just grown apart… making it impossible for either of them to reconcile.

I am sorry if I offened anyone.

That was long... really LONG

Bye bye

Luv

Anu.

MT....great analysis...kudoos to u & ur excellent writing abilities.....and thanks for defending my sweety honey bunny[bani]....i couldnt have said it better myself....thanks!! 👏
-ur questions/my answers 😊

Do you think that Bani has trampled over Jai's ego and has been utterly insensitive to him and his feelings?->yes she has trampled over his ego...but she didnt want to hurt him on purpose she was " majboor "...she was NOT insensitive at all....she did the right thing...jai has crossed all limits...and sometimes u have to go to extreme extent to achieve ur goals for the better good...and i think bani did exactly that and she shudnt get accused of being insensitive...b/c she is the most caring and loving person in the show...and she always put others feeling before her....and this case pia and pia's future was more important to her than jai...she is a parent to pia and if bani's parents were alive in KS then they would have done the same thing...they must be proud of bani b/c she went against her own husband...basically ruind her married life for her sisters' future...she is truely a "mahaan" person!

If the answer to the above is yes, do you think that it was deliberate on part of Bani or was it just circumstances?-->it was definately circumstancial...just like bani said...she really had no other option....some extreme circumstances make ppl do things they dont want to...it happens...i support bani and always will!!!!!!!

Do you think that Bani genuinly wanted to bridge the gap between herself and Jai today, when she goes to his study? Or was it more of a mollifying attempt from her end, because she knows that she has made a truly formidable enemy?-->i dont think she cares about jai being her enemy...she can take wat he has planned for her...i think bani's main concern was jai being hurt...she knew it would kill him[emotionally] and she didnt want to hurt him....but she really had no choice...i think she just wanted to explain to jai the whole issue n calm his anger down...like bani said...she wanted jai to let bygones be bygones...its tooo bad jai has got nuts in the loss of his love...!!


Do you think that Bani really respects Jai, but is no longer scared of him and hence will stand up against him from now onwards, whenever he does anything wrong to her?-->i think bani geniually respects jai b/c she knows how much jai helped her n her sis in the time of her need[poverty] and she understands where he is coming from and she is trying to help him get out of his revenge mode...n help him emotionally heal!...i think once in a while she will stand up to him...but it has to be really extreme though...otherwise she will endure all the torture quietly...i personally think that bani will throw herself to be jai's doormat willing....so he can walk all over her...and get his frustration n hatred out...maybe once all of the venom is out maybe there is a chance for love....keep the hope alive sweety....ur hubby will come around! 😃


Do you think that Bani goes against Jai only in desperate situations, when he really pushes her to the wall and that overall she is fine putting up with everything, Jigs taunts, Ranveer's evil schemes and Jai's cold behaviour towards her?-->i think she goes against jai when he backs her into a corner...i dont belame her though...heck who wouldnt....btw she could care less about jigs n ranveers taunts...bani's knows they have nothing better to do...poor losers 😆

Is it the dread of Jai harming her sisters that makes Bani react rather than her own welfare and safety?-->i think when it comes to her sisters...bani turns blind n she goes to any extent to protect them....bani doesnt care wat happens to her,as long as her sis are ok!

What do you think Jai meant by, "Ab mein tumhein Shaadi ka sahi matlab bataonga?" Please, no need to be graphic in explanationsA general answer would suffice!-->i think he will tell her wat it means to marry the monstrous jai walia...😆...actually, i really dont know wat he is up 2....like u said...jai walia is very unpredictable...but watever it will be...it'll be huge...and something that will hurt bani n break her completely!



What should be expect next week? Another Kutumb in the making...another Ansh-Nandini episode in the making or a truly different take on Jai and Bani's relationship?-->u know KS seems to be very different from previous kekta mai's shows...so i really dont know wat will happen next week...b/c whatever happened so far...happened very out of the blue...but i think will be a love-hate realtionship for a while... 🤔


Now I am finally signing off, because its past mid-night here and I can see lots of Owls flying from my window.....maybe Harry Potter is in townWhat a PJ!--> 😆...u r hilarious MT....u have a great sense of humor...keep it coming 😉

Why do u think Jai has forgiven Pia???and does Jai still really love Pia & WHY???PLS elaborate on that...thanks!

~ take care, and let me know wat u think of my views ~