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Hi Friends,
This is the last e-mail I am writing to u. I don't know the reason why the proposal was denied from ur end. I don't want to ask also, every individual has his own freedom to decide and second reason being I don't want to hear the reason of me being over weighed or black which though I am.
Any ways it was nice meeting u for the reason; your name reminds me of my Dad's close friend, ur personal life like Jai Walia (my heartthrob and hero of Kasamh se).
When I was told that a particular person would be coming to see me and if all things go well I would be wedded to him, I was quiet nervous and excited like every girl this was my first groom seeing session. I was excited over the round of personal question, though I was completely blank and had no preparation unlike my boards to answer the questions. My preparation was good in terms of enhancing my physical beauty spending good 1000 bucks on facial two days before. Getting my long and thin hair cut, purchasing all sorts of makeup kit with minimal knowledge thanks to my best friend to help me on that. The most irritating aspect in all these was to purchase dark grey nail paint for my dark long fingers which don't match properly with my sari.I hate growing nails and then colouring but I did it just for that day. Haha ha what an irony!!!!
U know I had to go to my college ( in other town) to collect my certificates for last time before joining my company at Bangalore, throughout the journey of 24 hours .I was thinking about our rishta'
The night before u were visiting my home, I was praying half the time that things should go good for both of us and then i would also think like "this marriage not happen". At 3am early morning my dad came from Nagpur, he displayed your pic to us I didn't see then just kept it aside. My parents started chatting over the preparations and after getting tired they retired to their bedroom , it was after that I peeped into your photo a sneaky look, I was scared seeing the photo I don't know y ?
Early morning onwards I was only doing facial, besan face wash, scrubbing etc to enhance my so called fairness though I know that I am not gori (fair skinned girl).
After that you people came to my home, my sister came jumping all excited into my room saying you r very handsome, my mother also '. I was getting jitters now that my screening testshall start. After such an excellent preview, i wanted to watch the full film and do get selected for it. I was apprehensive about whether u would like me at first sight?
I started doing over work on my face and after that looked at mirror and self complimented "I am more beautiful today than ever before" I was staring at my own face in the mirror to identify whether it's me .I wished god "to make this rishta final "(this is before meeting you).It was time, I was called in and then the session "my screening tes started.
I just entered the room and you were opposite to me (ur sitting position was arranged by my parents such that i could have first look of you easily.)This was my first look at you.I wished your mother and ur aunt and uncle Namaste and to you Hi i think! Your aunt's reaction was twisting her lips awkwarldy(turning face away) I knew it then and there that u would reject me. My conscious said that we were no match as a pair. You know intuition!!!I have very good prowess on it but still i hoped out of hope.
I still laugh at the answer I gave about my hobby "reading newspaper! Interested in politics!! Hahahah for me it was like my job interview and not shaadi ka rishta.
Then "that personal question round" when my dad asked u and me to go to that room for personal chat. I was dam nervous' I was looking for support ' my sister showed you the way for the room I was following you behind, that was the moment I got more scared seeing ur height oh my god 6.2 ! Filling the entrance door of the room..
U won my heart by asking my little sister to sit in the same room along with us, I was so relieved to see her.. so so'much!!
The personal question round started and at that time I asked foolishly whether u miss having a sister /bro and u said "no! because if they were any then things wouldn't be be easy for u shouldering responsibilities after ur father's death during graduation second year" It was very good of you to concentrate and attend your exams even after hearing the sudden demise of ur dad. I foolishly argued about sharing feelings with kins etc at that point of time I didn't remember about your step sister ' I asked this question because there is my dad's close friend name Jayesh who had only son Anand .Anand used to miss having kith\kin and was usually jealous of me.
I got angry when u said ur mom is naive and cannot take decisions of life and you take decisions by yourself (though I was proud of this part) and apprehensive same time whether you would impose your decisions over me i.e your life partner.
My father was joking how you were eyeing the kaju pakoda the only spicy dish in the entire menu of sweet dishes served to you but ur uncle was having it and u were watching him having it, your mouth watering..hahaha.
I still cannot have the milk cake because it still reminds me of that day when your aunty,uncle, mother repeated that you hardly have sweets.You love all HOT!!! You know it took me 30days from that day to again have any type of sweets. I could say I gave up sweets just for you.
I couldn't stop thinking about u, about me, about us for two months. It was a month after joining my new job I missed you dearly as I got my first salary. I wanted to share this news with you but didn't possess your right contact number. Ironically, I had only 9 digits of your phone number which I hastily copied before leaving my home on that fateful night.
I was asking shamelessly to my parents what the reply from you was; they couldn't break my heart and were saying positive signs. I was away from home in Delhi. My anger grew day by day thinking about best of luck.I wish I could answer you back at that instant only. It was for this reason I started searching for your ID in orkut. I got your correct name through matrimonial site. I made first attempt by visiting your profile then u also visited mine and then you messaged you offered friendship only. I was so angry I felt like I was following you though I wasn't. I told u that I also wanted just friendship. You asked my email id and gave it to add me as friend.
After that, I forgot totally about you, though sometimes I used to wait and wait for your one scrap. There were many important occasions like New Year, Gudipadwa but u never left a greeting
U are such a bore .your friends always left scraps like "You are very busy man with work. How is your work? Did u forget me? Bla bla.." I was like yaar yeh kaisa banda hain.I searched your friends' network and saw you hardly have a girl as friend I was like what? I myself have 70% boys as friends though I am not broad minded in girl friend boyfriend things... Come on yeh kaunse zamane ka banda hain!!
As the time passed my attention dwindled from u though sometimes I felt an urge to see u and I visited ur profile to see the pic on matrimony .com as I didn't want to be listed in your orkut visitors.
Then your birthday came, I got to know through orkut birthday alerts. I was of two minds to wish, my friend suggested leaving a scrap. I left a plain wish. Instead of replying a plain thanks, u asked too many questions.
I was like oh ok. I got a chance to reply u .Now u have it mister!
Today I am happy, we didn't get married, I was childish then, otherwise I would be like sita of ramayan or bani of kasamhse. Ab nahin.. bachgayii.
Hey, u know what, my roommate is Punjabi and I have learnt all North Indian dishes from her, I do make good, soft, fluffy, round rotis also.. Now a days, i do get a lot of compliments that i make yummy curries. Your bad luck, you cant taste them ever even as my friend.I still don't have egg but do have cakes with eggs which i lied then...
I tell you what after your seeing session , there came another one! the guy met me just like you. same preparations and lol but this time i was experienced in handling everything right from makeup,dressing,politely replying questions, everything.. but I didnt like that guy. He was mere an inch bigger, leaner than me in height and weight.This time also, I got rejected by them. Today for me, groom seeing session is a very common thing . I do everything with a flick of finger so, here i can say that i need all your good luck wishes in finding a good life partner with whoom i can build a perfect home.
P.s:Though i am very much confident in cracking these screening tests, can you suggest me as my first examiner where i need to improve, to pass in this stupid tets.
Me rose uff alekhya back with a new ff but i have competed so will be posting it in updates soon..
i hope to see some coments.
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Part:1
Hi Jayesh jii,
This is the last e-mail I am writing to u. I don't know the reason why the proposal was denied from ur end. I don't want to ask also, every individual has his own freedom to decide and second reason being I don't want to hear the reason of me being over weighed or black which though I am.
Any ways it was nice meeting u for the reason; your name reminds me of my Dad's close friend, ur personal life like Jai Walia (my heartthrob and hero of Kasamh se).
When I was told that a particular person would be coming to see me and if all things go well I would be wedded to him, I was quiet nervous and excited like every girl this was my first groom seeing session. I was excited over the round of personal question, though I was completely blank and had no preparation unlike my boards to answer the questions. My preparation was good in terms of enhancing my physical beauty spending good 1000 bucks on facial two days before. Getting my long and thin hair cut, purchasing all sorts of makeup kit with minimal knowledge thanks to my best friend to help me on that. The most irritating aspect in all these was to purchase dark grey nail paint for my dark long fingers which don't match properly with my sari.I hate growing nails and then colouring but I did it just for that day. Haha ha what an irony!!!!
U know I had to go to my college ( in other town) to collect my certificates for last time before joining my company at Bangalore, throughout the journey of 24 hours .I was thinking about our rishta'
The night before u were visiting my home, I was praying half the time that things should go good for both of us and then i would also think like "this marriage not happen". At 3am early morning my dad came from Nagpur, he displayed your pic to us I didn't see then just kept it aside. My parents started chatting over the preparations and after getting tired they retired to their bedroom , it was after that I peeped into your photo a sneaky look, I was scared seeing the photo I don't know y ?
Early morning onwards I was only doing facial, besan face wash, scrubbing etc to enhance my so called fairness though I know that I am not gori (fair skinned girl).
After that you people came to my home, my sister came jumping all excited into my room saying you r very handsome, my mother also '. I was getting jitters now that my screening testshall start. After such an excellent preview, i wanted to watch the full film and do get selected for it. I was apprehensive about whether u would like me at first sight?
I started doing over work on my face and after that looked at mirror and self complimented "I am more beautiful today than ever before" I was staring at my own face in the mirror to identify whether it's me .I wished god "to make this rishta final "(this is before meeting you).It was time, I was called in and then the session "my screening tes started.
I just entered the room and you were opposite to me (ur sitting position was arranged by my parents such that i could have first look of you easily.)This was my first look at you.I wished your mother and ur aunt and uncle Namaste and to you Hi i think! Your aunt's reaction was twisting her lips awkwarldy(turning face away) I knew it then and there that u would reject me. My conscious said that we were no match as a pair. You know intuition!!!I have very good prowess on it but still i hoped out of hope.
I still laugh at the answer I gave about my hobby "reading newspaper! Interested in politics!! Hahahah for me it was like my job interview and not shaadi ka rishta.
Then "that personal question round" when my dad asked u and me to go to that room for personal chat. I was dam nervous' I was looking for support ' my sister showed you the way for the room I was following you behind, that was the moment I got more scared seeing ur height oh my god 6.2 ! Filling the entrance door of the room..
U won my heart by asking my little sister to sit in the same room along with us, I was so relieved to see her.. so so'much!!
The personal question round started and at that time I asked foolishly whether u miss having a sister /bro and u said "no! because if they were any then things wouldn't be be easy for u shouldering responsibilities after ur father's death during graduation second year" It was very good of you to concentrate and attend your exams even after hearing the sudden demise of ur dad. I foolishly argued about sharing feelings with kins etc at that point of time I didn't remember about your step sister ' I asked this question because there is my dad's close friend name Jayesh who had only son Anand .Anand used to miss having kith\kin and was usually jealous of me.
I got angry when u said ur mom is naive and cannot take decisions of life and you take decisions by yourself (though I was proud of this part) and apprehensive same time whether you would impose your decisions over me i.e your life partner.
You asked me about my decision making capabilities and then about my working in company. Though i wasnt working at that time I poured my heart giving a long speech saying "as and when need comes i shall be giving up my job,shoulderering all family responsibilities and when proper time comes i shall go back insearch of work. Today , same question posed i would please the person with a short and sweet answer "as you wish" though the reality is "I shant leave my job".
We were talking and talking and your uncle called u twice, u disconnected first time and then 3rd time u stood up from chair half heartedly, i felt like laughing inside. Then while leaving the room u said best of luck to me i was just behind you , following you out of the room. I felt deep hurt. I don't know the reason probably my brain already comprehended that i had failed the exam but my heart not accepting it.
After you people left, my entire family was discussing and everyone wished a positive response from your side though I was dwindling from yes to no to yes. I told my dad that u said best of luck. He dismissed it as a saying but I couldn't..
My father was joking how you were eyeing the kaju pakoda the only spicy dish in the entire menu of sweet dishes served to you but ur uncle was having it and u were watching him having it, your mouth watering..hahaha.
I still cannot have the milk cake because it still reminds me of that day when your aunty,uncle, mother repeated that you hardly have sweets.You love all HOT!!! You know it took me 30days from that day to again have any type of sweets. I could say I gave up sweets just for you.
I couldn't stop thinking about u, about me, about us for two months. It was a month after joining my new job I missed you dearly as I got my first salary. I wanted to share this news with you but didn't possess your right contact number. Ironically, I had only 9 digits of your phone number which I hastily copied before leaving my home on that fateful night.
I was asking shamelessly to my parents what the reply from you was; they couldn't break my heart and were saying positive signs. I was away from home in Delhi. My anger grew day by day thinking about best of luck.I wish I could answer you back at that instant only. It was for this reason I started searching for your ID in orkut. I got your correct name through matrimonial site. I made first attempt by visiting your profile then u also visited mine and then you messaged you offered friendship only. I was so angry I felt like I was following you though I wasn't. I told u that I also wanted just friendship. You asked my email id and gave it to add me as friend.
After that, I forgot totally about you, though sometimes I used to wait and wait for your one scrap. There were many important occasions like New Year, Gudipadwa but u never left a greeting
U are such a bore .your friends always left scraps like "You are very busy man with work. How is your work? Did u forget me? Bla bla.." I was like yaar yeh kaisa banda hain.I searched your friends' network and saw you hardly have a girl as friend I was like what? I myself have 70% boys as friends though I am not broad minded in girl friend boyfriend things... Come on yeh kaunse zamane ka banda hain!!
As the time passed my attention dwindled from u though sometimes I felt an urge to see u and I visited ur profile to see the pic on matrimony .com as I didn't want to be listed in your orkut visitors.
Then your birthday came, I got to know through orkut birthday alerts. I was of two minds to wish, my friend suggested leaving a scrap. I left a plain wish. Instead of replying a plain thanks, u asked too many questions.
I was like oh ok. I got a chance to reply u .Now u have it mister!
Today I am happy, we didn't get married, I was childish then, otherwise I would be like sita of ramayan or bani of kasamhse. Ab nahin.. bachgayii.
Hey, u know what, my roommate is Punjabi and I have learnt all North Indian dishes from her, I do make good, soft, fluffy, round rotis also.. Now a days, i do get a lot of compliments that i make yummy curries. Your bad luck, you cant taste them ever even as my friend.I still don't have egg but do have cakes with eggs which i lied then...
Hey, how many more girls home,you made a visit in search of your bride? is this appropriate way to question ? no i think, i reframe the question , how many more girls heart was swayed by your charming sophisticated manerisms.
I tell you what after your seeing session , there came another one! the guy met me just like you. same preparations and lol but this time i was experienced in handling everything right from makeup,dressing,politely replying questions, everything.. but I didnt like that guy. He was mere an inch bigger, leaner than me in height and weight.This time also, I got rejected by them. Today for me, groom seeing session is a very common thing . I do everything with a flick of finger so, here i can say that i need all your good luck wishes in finding a good life partner with whoom i can build a perfect home.
And for you ,All the best to you in your search for perfect life partner.
Bye Bye.
P.s:Though i am very much confident in cracking these screening tests, can you suggest me as my first examiner where i need to improve, to pass in this stupid tets.
P.P.s:I apologise if i hurt your sentiments anywhere in between. This elaborate experience letter was just for fun to reminsce our past experiences!
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