I f u were in Bani's shoes, what would u do? - Page 4

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Posted: 16 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: suganthirani

Originally posted by BUTTERFLY12

"If I were in Bani's shoes, I would....

either change my shoes and run away 😆


or do what Bani is doing...this way at least she is able to live with the person she loves and had kids with......this way at least she is able to live with her children.....this way she has a family

Jai will definitely have to make-up for everything he did or didn't do for Bani in all these years....
shit happens 😊 in life....you got to accept the truth and move on....see what gives you maximum happiness....for a person like Bani, happiness definitely lies in Jai and her kids"

All jokes aside, Anjali, you're right! In life, it isn't easy to give up on the people we love and our level of tolerance is higher than we give ourselves credit for. We always try our best to work on our relationships because if we love someone, it isn't easy to let that person go. Its easy to talk in theory that one should walk away, but when you actually face any such situation in life, most people would fight to save a relationship.

In the JB relationship, I think, Bani knows that while she has and will face turmoils in life, a life without Jai would be much worse. All said and done, Jai isn't a bad person. Bani might be safer and better off alone or elsewhere but what use is that when her heart is with Jai and the kids? Who said LOVE is simple, its complicated and sometimes so difficult to understand and yet can give us the greatest of joy in life !!

i totally agree
but blood relations play good amount of role
here i am talking about bani and her kids
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Posted: 16 years ago
#32
first of all bani is a downright liar (baat baat pe jhut bol deti hain nd the next scene is down market background music and same old dialogue ' i m sorry to do it but its for ur own good ...i dont have a choice!' and an emotional fool like almost all other ekta show heroine which i hate most. some1 rightly said its bani's own doing almost in all the cases nd shud have been true nd sharin atleast to jai both as bani and as pronita. i dont blame them the whole prob directs me to the production house.
how thick balaji can get? i know the answer "andaza bhi l nahin laga sakte! shayyad samundar ki gahraee se bhi zyadaa"
i feel sorry for them... they have budget and all except empty think tank! with such budget ...cast..sets they cud set the hindi serials bar much higher but all they r doin is simply business. no thinkin... no
anything at all same 'ghasi piti si kahani ...n makin '
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Posted: 16 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: suganthirani

All jokes aside, Anjali, you're right! In life, it isn't easy to give up on the people we love and our level of tolerance is higher than we give ourselves credit for. We always try our best to work on our relationships because if we love someone, it isn't easy to let that person go. Its easy to talk in theory that one should walk away, but when you actually face any such situation in life, most people would fight to save a relationship.

In the JB relationship, I think, Bani knows that while she has and will face turmoils in life, a life without Jai would be much worse. All said and done, Jai isn't a bad person. Bani might be safer and better off alone or elsewhere but what use is that when her heart is with Jai and the kids? Who said LOVE is simple, its complicated and sometimes so difficult to understand and yet can give us the greatest of joy in life !!



Suganthi, I appreciate what you said here, thanks for giving words to my thoughts. Most of the people on the forum are either in teenage or early 20s. Although it is nice sometimes to see their mature take on relationships like marriage but I do feel that they are far from reality. IMO, unless you wear the shoe, it is difficult to give an opinion about the comforts and discomforts of wearing it. Hence the saying goes--only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches!
Relationships are tough and toughest is the relationship of marriage. It is very easy to misunderstand someone or something but to be able to understand and put things in right perspective requires great deal of effort and knowledge. To compromise with unexpected situations in life is not easy but an intelligent and sensible person is able to do that to honor love and relationships.

Originally posted by: Henna 786


When u look back at her life it is her fault for not talkin to her partner or anything, she made friends with the wrong ppl..


Bani may have her weaknesses but she is a very loving and dedicated wife/mother. Henna, I think Bani trusted and made friends with people from her family -- e.g. her sister (Pia) and her sister-in-law (Jigs) who are supposed to be trust-worthy and dependable....we can't blame Bani for them being bad people...any pure hearted person will trust and then forgive her sister 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
#34
If i was in Bani's shoes & my husband was the JAi Walia. I wouldn't leave him. ( then again i wouldn't have forced him to stay with meera, given away my new borns to her & stayed away from my JAi Walia).
Jokes apart when you have kids & when you love a person its hard to just leave & not ignore his mistakes. Whenver i see adultrous spouse in movies/ shows( haven't come across anyone in real life) I always think the other spouse shouldn't stay in that relation but I know it won't be that easy.
As for jai he did feel Pronita was bani & asked her but she denied it.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Once again it all comes down to "I hurt more than I hurt you"
Thats just a stupid concept...... If you love someone, you will try all that is in your hands to not hurt that person.......
Jai Walia was just stupid the whole of his adult life.... he would promise to always stay by bani's side, but eventually he always let her down......
And dont even get me started on Bani..... she is the cause of all the problems.....
The problem with these two is that they dont trust each other enough to share their problems....... They always hid everything from each other (LOL this reminds me JW in burkha)
But the harsh reality of life...... they are incomplete without each other.... and no matter what JW does, bani will always forgive him and vice versa..... coz they love each other.....
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry.... and this has always been Bani's state.....
So all in all.... if I were in Bani's shoes, I WOULD forgive JW......
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Posted: 16 years ago
#36
If i was Bani, and there was constant misunderstanding between jai and me, would have just divorced jai and take half of his property and take my three kida, Ganga, Krishna and vicky with me. After all, burahpeme mujhe kaun sahara denege? lol. or maybe i will be an old independent woman like jigyasa who will have a good friend like partho. lol.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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If i was Bani, and there was constant misunderstanding between jai and me, would have just divorced jai and take half of his property and take my three kida, Ganga, Krishna and vicky with me. After all, burahpeme mujhe kaun sahara denege? lol. or maybe i will be an old independent woman like jigyasa who will have a good friend like partho. lol.😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: candy_coated

If i was Bani, and there was constant misunderstanding between jai and me, would have just divorced jai and take half of his property and take my three kida, Ganga, Krishna and vicky with me. After all, burahpeme mujhe kaun sahara denege? lol. or maybe i will be an old independent woman like jigyasa who will have a good friend like partho. lol.😆

that was a witty answer
😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: jeenal20

hehehe
rabbit u never leave a chance to make Jai walia yours na
😉

nope lol.😆 why should I ? there are so many girls after him so have to remind everyone he belongs to me na😉
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Posted: 16 years ago
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If i was in Bani's shoes, I would have definitely left Mr Walia as he actually did torture Bani a lot and he should be punished for this. Whatever he did with her before the leap can never be forgiven. I guess that Jai's punishment should be that Bani leaves him and finds someone better....or just enact just to make our dear Mr Walia jealous. He should realise that whatever he did to Bani can never be forgiven nor forgotten...anyway guys...that's fiction...now whatever will happen in the show, will be the creatives decision...But if I was Bani, I would have left Jai forever to never come back to him. Guys, I think that in the show, Jai-Bani should be together, forever!!

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