DOTW: Nanhe Munne Bacche

right before i start with this, some may not agree with my views or may think its bakwas😆😆 so here is is with a deep breath..

1. How does infidelity effect the children?

well these kids are very young and yes perhaps one can argue that they dont know what is happening so it cannot effect them, i am going to disagree, children have an inbuilt radar and yes it does effect them because it makes them insecure of the world around, dont forget the their parents are their world.

Should the parents clue the children in about what's happening before leaving home or deciding to get married or getting your spouse married to another person?

indeed they should, it keeps them secured.

Why aren't Shiv-Gauri-Ipshita considering their future or how they will be treated or taunted about their parents mistakes when they grow up?

unfortunately, neither shiv, nor gauri or ipshita are thinking about the kids, unfortunately they are thinking of themselves their own agenda's which is sad and its a typical formual for our serials.😆

Children out of wedlock, multiple shaadias, infidelity is all considered normal.😆

Should Shiv and Gauri sit down and talk/explain to their children about whats going on?

its hard one to call, how do u explain a child yes i love ur mum but i slept with some one else, hmmmm that will not go down well😆

The kids don't know about Gauri's illness - is that good or bad?

one may say that they are protecting the children but in my case they should be told, now in K serials miracles always happen and illness and death is cheated so it does not matter in this case but in real life yes illness should be shared with kids.

From the situation in the show right now, do you think the adults are making decisions keeping the children's lives in mind?

no i dont think so all adults are rather selfish and are all worried and concerened about their own agendas.

but the danger in this is children who are brought up in such turbulent environment it may not effect them now but as adults, they will struggle to trust, love and yes perhaps struggle to manage a relationship.

thanks KAA for the debate, it was fun and again I will stress this are my views, i have stopped watchin it but have been reading the updates.

welldone for the updates, thanks

LadyZaib xx

1. How does infidelity effect the children?

Hmm what does that mean?? 😆😕 Umm OK I just checked on dictionary.com for the meaning 😆 I think it means disloyal 😕 Umm kids don't know whats going on so don't matter at the moment..but will in the future 😳

1. Should the parents clue the children in about what's happening before leaving home or deciding to get married or getting your spouse married to another person?

Yes! Because its their responsibility?? 😕

1. Why aren't Shiv-Gauri-Ipshita considering their future or how they will be treated or taunted about their parents mistakes when they grow up?

Because they are indulged in their own life at the moment..😳 Are they even bothered?? Society is like that..Its dumb!!!!! Who cares about society?

1. Should Shiv and Gauri sit down and talk/explain to their children about whats going on?

No because they won't understand anyway. 😆 They're too young to understand. They are seeing their parents together in the house..😕

1. The kids don't know about Gauri's illness - is that good or bad?

Neither..

1. From the situation in the show right now, do you think the adults are making decisions keeping the children's lives in mind?

No because they are worried about their own self..Their own individual person

These are my views!! Am not sure with these questions 😕 Quite hard!! 😆 😳

Originally posted by: Simply_Smart

Hello Friends 🤗do i come under frineds or enemies?🤔🤔😆

Shiv and Gauri have three children and Shiv and Ipshita might have a child.

The politics and indifferences between the adults are overshadowing the innocent lives of these kids.

The current storyline is as such:

Ipshita is pregnant with Shiv's child. Everyone thinks Gauri has brain tumor (It is one of Nikhila's plans to drive Gauri out of Shiv's life so in reality Gauri doesn't have a tumor). Ipshita is evil and has paired up with Nikhila to get rid of Gauri from Shiv's life because she wants Shiv for herself.
• Gauri finds out that Ipshita is pregnant with Shiv's child and asks Shiv to marry Ipshita.

thanx for the short and quick udpate😳

This leads to this week's discussion. Here are some questions to ponder:

How does infidelity effect the children? not too sure but i think it has mostly negative effects on them. parents are thier child's role model so if they do something then thier child would most probably follow them. Here I'm referring to kids not 15 year olds! Should the parents clue the children in about what's happening before leaving home or deciding to get married or getting your spouse married to another person? i think children should be informed if such a step is taken. If they come to know anything like this later on, its like a shock for them so I think they should be, doesn't matter how old the child is but they should be because by the time thier parent get married they are mentally prepared for everything Why aren't Shiv-Gauri-Ipshita considering their future or how they will be treated or taunted about their parents mistakes when they grow up? believe it or not, its relaity, children do get taunted about thier parents' affairs. We may deny it but it does happen... Ekta, if u say your showing reality, then why not show your characters have some common sense? Should Shiv and Gauri sit down and talk/explain to their children about whats going on? yes they should, if those 3 kids come to know of it later on they might not be able to recover from this "news" which can affect them in long term, like depression and alll that stuff The kids don't know about Gauri's illness - is that good or bad? considering thier age, i dont think they should be told about this because they don't really know what a tumour is, all they would know and uderstand is that thier mom is gonna "die" so if looking at things from their POV, i think its good they are not aware of all this "tumour" because if someone tells them (which I think Ekta would show!!!) that thier mother is gonna die, they might loose hope which isnt a good thing From the situation in the show right now, do you think the adults are making decisions keeping the children's lives in mind? nope, not at all, they are not even thinking about themselves but their "Ids" and how to get thier love
1. If you have any favorite scene with one or all of the kids please feel free to post it here. that one where that lil girl is wearing orange clothes is my fav. she looked so cute there. And then that other one when they hide Shiv's shoes😆

Now that i have replied, can i get these icecreams😳 lol

Should the parents clue the children in about what's happening before leaving home or deciding to get married or getting your spouse married to another person?

yes children are going to find out later why not give them a hint about what's happening instead of leaving everything till the end and it will less be a less shock for them

Why aren't Shiv-Gauri-Ipshita considering their future or how they will be treated or taunted about their parents mistakes when they grow up?

only if they get time out of their world...its weird they don't show this in k-shows...in real world children taunted for their parents deed

Should Shiv and Gauri sit down and talk/explain to their children about whats going on?

yes both of them talking to children together will be good thing insead giving them a shock of their life later

The kids don't know about Gauri's illness - is that good or bad?

although she doesn't tumor but still they should the children about what is happening to their mother even by giving a hint

From the situation in the show right now, do you think the adults are making decisions keeping the children's lives in mind?

nope they all are worried their own self...nobody thought about the children for once

If you have any favorite scene with one or all of the kids please feel free to post it here.

when 3 baadmash became batman,spiderman and superman

Aah, I finally got the time, to chip in my thoughts, couldnt miss this time...!! 😊

1. How does infidelity affect the children?

I agree with Iffat that children are sensitive to the energy positive or negative in their surroundings and are quick to pick on them, although at that tender age, their behavior is affected to a maximum, a craving for attention, while the parents are too busy sorting their own issues, and the kids are neglected. The partner involved in infidelity is most likely to ignore his responsibilities

1. Should the parents clue the children in about what's happening before leaving home or deciding to get married or getting your spouse married to another person?

Yes. They should. The children need to be aware of what is happening around them, and especially in their own homes. The situation can be explained to the kids in as pleasant and permissible way possible. By permissible, I mean, for their age or for their emotional capacity that the parents deem right. But the Kids have to know at the end of the day. Its as much their right to know, for its their right to the love of a bonded family, that is at stake in situations like these.

1. Why aren't Shiv-Gauri-Ipshita considering their future or how they will be treated or taunted about their parents mistakes when they grow up?

Well, on a lighter note. It's a drama and expecting such things from a melodrama at that would pushing our luck too far as viewers.

On a more serious note, it is only loathful as to how low and how irresponsible these characters are behaving towards their family and kids. A woman who has raise three kids, thinks she getting the father married off to another, is a responsible act and not even considering her responsibility towards her kids and that she is indeed answerable to the kids.

And the father, has reduced himself to a wallowing git... whining and wallowing in guilt and crying for a lost love and being as self centered as one can be, considering he is the father of three young kids. Even the act of ONS shows how irresponsible he is that not only did he not think of his wife , but his kids... his family.. and all that mattered was a momentary comfort.

Nuthin can justify the man's act of seeking comfort in the arms of another, for what seemed a tiff, that could have been resolved. Not man enuf!

The man is answerable to his kids, if not now, later, for the act that he has done and I have no doubt in my mind, that the thought never even crossed his mind.

The parents are answerable to the Kids for their actions as much as the kids are to the parents.

1. Should Shiv and Gauri sit down and talk/explain to their children about what's going on?

Yes, they should. Gauri definitely should , for she seems to be taking decisions not only for herself but also for husband and kids without as much as consulting them or making them aware of the reasons she is doing so.

All said and done it's a drama!

1. The kids don't know about Gauri's illness - is that good or bad?

Bad. The kids need to know what is happening to their Mum. Atleast that she is sick , if not dying! Keeping kids in the dark about situations in the house , while the negative energy from these situations is ever prevailing in the house is blunder to say in the least, coz it leaves the kids confused and answerless, as they grow up in this confusion… finding themselves incapable of leading a wholesome life..

1. From the situation in the show right now, do you think the adults are making decisions keeping the children's lives in mind?

No. Not once , have they thought about the Kids. Its always about Shiv's first Love or Gauri in love with Shiv and Shiv in love with Gauri. Shiv wanting to die with Gauri shows clearly, that the kids and the very thought of them has vanished into thin air.

Much as many may argue that it was proclamation of eternal love.. I stand by my point that S_G's Kids were a result of their union, their love and how come they were not even thought of? Even for the sake of a thought?

The above are purely my thoughts and no offence is meant to anyone.