inappropriate timing for shiv &mistake

we say better late than never..

yesterday shiv said the golden words to gauri after 7 yrs of married life but wat an appropriate timing nad a great mistake which will have an effect on his married life soon.....

he wants to save his relationship and dragging gauri in their bedroom and giving her lectures..gosh did the guy forget what he is preaching to gauri about destroying he already put a big daag on this relationship in this room sleeping with ipshy...confused confused guy...his greatest mistake sleeping with ex and yesterday he did a great mistake by telling gauri he loves her...gauri is happy to hear this but wat will happen when his truth will be out about his affair and ons with ipshy..will gauri believe and trust shiv's love confession to her?..

now gauri did tell him that he said these words just cos he is afraid who will take care of his small things and children..she is only his zaroorat but will never love her...we know she said this to go along with the divorce by hurting shiv but all this will come true soon...

how shiv will prove he was sincere about his love confession when a day before he slept with his ex.......he dug his own grave two times this week {ons and confession of love}so lets see how he makes gauri trust him and believe him...

shiv kapoor you are for a real rollercoaster ride and lots of begging cos that attitude that gauri is giving him will be full of hatred soon...

Khyatee, good post there...

As I see, the way the relation between Shiv and Gauri was portrayed and their beliefs about the emotion love between soulmates, it appeared that three words were not required to express that , and that their emotions execeeded far beyond what those three words would encompass. And Shiv said so, that kabhi kabhi unkahee baatein bahut kuch keh deti hain. So did Gauri believe the same. Yet she expected him to say I love you.... which only means, that somewhere she lost track of what exactly she expected out of Shiv in terms of emotional bonding, was it jus words, or more the emotion. As for the family and sahaara and all that, well yeah we know what she expected.

By saying the words I love you, Shiv yday, not only insulted his own beliefs and himself, but also... the bond they shared , he and Gauri. Infact it is not jus one person to be blamed. Both of them equally are to be blamed. Gauri , accepted Shiv knowing she was not his love, but yet always expected him to say so. She forced herself into his life, despite he giving her a chance to leave. She cannot hold him responsible at this stage. The man did try his best to lead a life with her and if she is to be believed to have sacrificed ( which I believe is completely wrong, she never sacrificed anything, nothing at all) then Shiv has sacrified far too much as well.

However, Gauri expecting him to say I love you is clearly a way of insulting his belief which she once fell hook line and sinker for( remmeber the Shiv, Gauri Vivan scene , where Shiv maharaj gave gyaan abt silent Love??!!)..

Shiv yes did utter the words, but more than cheating gauri, he cheated his ownself... by saying those words, he didnt mean, for he was jus washing his guilt. he believed saying those words to Gauri, would wash the guilt of having succumbed to the lust of another woman!

Both Shiv and Gauri deep down knew they care for each other, but Gauri by expecting him to say I love you and he jus blurting the words to assure her, were nothing but a grosteque display of how badly , a relation can be marred by such hollow words, credited to it!

As for Shiv, the words he uttered , I love you, were for a guilt wash , to ease the pain, of having given a confession of sorts to Gauri, so as to stop her from going away. He made a mistake, he cannot correct it, but he can turn away from it and so the words I love you to his wife, when he himself knows , he dosent mean a word!
Gauri is his need as a mother of his kids and a shoulder to cry on abt his jinxed fate and not the comapnion he wished. She is his soulmate so is believed, but he has not realized and not accepted as yet.

The words shouldnt have been uttered at all. With those three words, he has ruined all that was left of his jinxed life.

Kuch ehsaas, bina shabdon ke hi bayaan ho...
Unki gehraayi, lafzon mein nahin, aankhon se bayaan ho...
Dil ki baatein hai yeh, dil se mehsoos karne do...

-Sareeta

brilliant point of view sareeta... 👏 👏

yeah thats why i said innapropriate timing and great mistake and that has ruined everything and so will happen in the future..

these words were not needed at all yesterday but it will have a great impact on their relationship once the ons of shiv and his affair with ipshy is out..he will realise then wat he has done and as you said"

"Kuch ehsaas, bina shabdon ke hi bayaan ho...
Unki gehraayi, lafzon mein nahin, aankhon se bayaan ho...
Dil ki baatein hai yeh, dil se mehsoos karne do"..

so perfect sareeta and well penned down.. 👏 👏

a separation will happen and his world destroyed and gauri not in his life will then make him realise about wat mistake he has done by uttering these words...

it lacks deep emotions and feelings but it was more as you put it sareeta ,a guilt wash and to ease his pain...

shiv kapoor is still a confused guy about his heart feelings for gauri whether he is his soulmate and his love for her is sincere or not...

love reading your pov sareeta and agree with you.. 😊

ya i agree with you my heart broke the day when he slept with ipshita how could he lets se now what will happen

Yeah he was tooooooooo late!! I mean extra extra late! What did he do when he was younger and running late for school? 😳 😆

Yeah he could have said the words in front of the whole family at least then Nikhila would have heard it as well!!!!!! OMG How dumb is Gauri..she should have made him stand there and said whatever she wanted!

Gauri will be dejected and she will obviously be betrayed to the maximum when she finds out about the ONS! 😳

Yep he only needs her to do his jobs, what a user and loser! 😆

And yeah he dug his own grave so he can go and lie in it now! 😳😃

totally agree with you sareeta...

love this lines you have penned down and well said...

"Taali dono haath se bajti hai... par afsos ki baat ye hai ki jab taali ki goonj sunai padti hai, tho aakhen kise dekhti hai....Ke aankhen na dekhen jo kaaan sune, aur kaan jo sun na sake, dil ki awaaaz"!

so perfect sareeta.... 👏 👏

Originally posted by: sareeta

Khyatee, good post there...

As I see, the way the relation between Shiv and Gauri was portrayed and their beliefs about the emotion love between soulmates, it appeared that three words were not required to express that , and that their emotions execeeded far beyond what those three words would encompass. And Shiv said so, that kabhi kabhi unkahee baatein bahut kuch keh deti hain. So did Gauri believe the same. Yet she expected him to say I love you.... which only means, that somewhere she lost track of what exactly she expected out of Shiv in terms of emotional bonding, was it jus words, or more the emotion. As for the family and sahaara and all that, well yeah we know what she expected.

By saying the words I love you, Shiv yday, not only insulted his own beliefs and himself, but also... the bond they shared , he and Gauri. Infact it is not jus one person to be blamed. Both of them equally are to be blamed. Gauri , accepted Shiv knowing she was not his love, but yet always expected him to say so. She forced herself into his life, despite he giving her a chance to leave. She cannot hold him responsible at this stage. The man did try his best to lead a life with her and if she is to be believed to have sacrificed ( which I believe is completely wrong, she never sacrificed anything, nothing at all) then Shiv has sacrified far too much as well.

However, Gauri expecting him to say I love you is clearly a way of insulting his belief which she once fell hook line and sinker for( remmeber the Shiv, Gauri Vivan scene , where Shiv maharaj gave gyaan abt silent Love??!!)..

Shiv yes did utter the words, but more than cheating gauri, he cheated his ownself... by saying those words, he didnt mean, for he was jus washing his guilt. he believed saying those words to Gauri, would wash the guilt of having succumbed to the lust of another woman!

Both Shiv and Gauri deep down knew they care for each other, but Gauri by expecting him to say I love you and he jus blurting the words to assure her, were nothing but a grosteque display of how badly , a relation can be marred by such hollow words, credited to it!

As for Shiv, the words he uttered , I love you, were for a guilt wash , to ease the pain, of having given a confession of sorts to Gauri, so as to stop her from going away. He made a mistake, he cannot correct it, but he can turn away from it and so the words I love you to his wife, when he himself knows , he dosent mean a word!
Gauri is his need as a mother of his kids and a shoulder to cry on abt his jinxed fate and not the comapnion he wished. She is his soulmate so is believed, but he has not realized and not accepted as yet.

The words shouldnt have been uttered at all. With those three words, he has ruined all that was left of his jinxed life.

Kuch ehsaas, bina shabdon ke hi bayaan ho...
Unki gehraayi, lafzon mein nahin, aankhon se bayaan ho...
Dil ki baatein hai yeh, dil se mehsoos karne do...

-Sareeta

Second paragraph is definetly true! She married him and then SHE started loving him! He only realised her truth worth now..7 years late! 🤢 She shouldn't have expected Shiv to have loved her 7 years earlier.

Yeah I also agree with the third paragraph, she could have asked him straight up "Do you love me?" 😆

Yeah he is saying those words to kind of like reassure Gauri that he loves her..God pathetic needs to get over himself! Needs to tell her the truth and what happened between him and Ipshita..if they are gonna get divorced he might as well tell her! 😆😳 After all a husband wife relation is about trust? Or is it? 😕

Great post Sareeta!! 😃 I dunno why but the song Beete Lamhein from The Train reminds me of them two! 😆😳 Such a good song 😃

Originally posted by: Anisha7

Yeah he was tooooooooo late!! I mean extra extra late! What did he do when he was younger and running late for school? 😳 😆

Yeah he could have said the words in front of the whole family at least then Nikhila would have heard it as well!!!!!! OMG How dumb is Gauri..she should have made him stand there and said whatever she wanted!

Gauri will be dejected and she will obviously be betrayed to the maximum when she finds out about the ONS! 😳

Yep he only needs her to do his jobs, what a user and loser! 😆

And yeah he dug his own grave so he can go and lie in it now! 😳😃 - yeah and we can help him , go lie there forever, may be Ekta maiyya is even thinking abt it, kock off SHivvy and get Samar to the guilt act, coz the man sure loves to act eh!!

User and a loser......... Anisha, that was fab and yeah so true, so very true... I couldnt control it, I burst out laughing reading that and also the way it rhymed so well!

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Originally posted by: sareeta

User and a loser......... Anisha, that was fab and yeah so true, so very true... I couldnt control it, I burst out laughing reading that and also the way it rhymed so well!

🤣

Thanks Sareeta! Glad u enjoyed it..But its true and had to be said! I just woke up and found this post, enjoyed reading your reply as well!! 😆 Makes you think if Shiv is a man!! Goshhh 😳