DOTW -Is Gauri Rite ?

Hello KAA-ians

The invisible gal whos very much visible of lately is back with the wacky DOTW's 😛

But i have a complain last time the DOTW posted we got a very low response 😒which was equal to nil 😭😭

Hope this time thats not the case 😍

Well lets do a quick recap😳

A nice gud family is shown afer a 5 year leap shiv loves gauri n is happy with his small family 😃

But later we come to know gauri is devoted wife n mother but somewhere the devoted wife is being overshadowed by a devoted mother

Shiv starts missing his past n confronts ipshita

Ipshita is back n ok but somwhere has the desire to be back with shiv

Gauri is away from shivs social circle but on his insistance gauri has to get ready n attend a party which unfortunately she cudnt make it

Shiv is angry with her n this time is in mood for no exuse

Nikhila is back with her evil plans

Finally our much antisipated couple Kaya n Vivan are hopefully getting married soon

Now Discussion Time!!😃

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?😕

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?

Finally what do think about this leap ?

Was it needed?

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

Are u happy with the track rite now ?

What are ur predictions for next week ?

Hope u enjoy it 😳

will eagerly await n appreciate ur participation 😛

love

anu

Originally posted by: anu_thegr8

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?

well i think gauri is right anf wrong both...as being a mother of three children she is doing he duty really good but that doesn't mean she should stay home all day and have no life outside the house...first of all she need to have good makeover

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

she is probably making some evil plans to ruin gauri's life...now ippy is back she will try to make shiv and ippy back together

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?😕

i guess maybe she wasn't able accept anupam as he husband and they only live like friends...i am also confused about this thing

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?

kind of as gauri should also go out of the house and be like true mrs. shiv kapoor

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?

yah it will be her fault also

Finally what do think about this leap ?

i really didn't expected a leap so soon but soon only thing i like about leap is the kids they are so cute😳

Was it needed?

no not really

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

truth coming out and gauri leaving the house and making her own image well i would have liked this to happen

Are u happy with the track rite now ?

no its kind of same as it was before

What are ur predictions for next week ?

i really can't say anything

nice DOTW it was fun 😊

Originally posted by: anu_thegr8

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ? No , I don't believe that Gauri is justified in her actions and her expectations from her husband as well. Its not enough jus to stay stuck in a marriage , a lot goes into making it work , Gauri , once who vouched for her love for her husband and faced death , seems a disinterested wife and a full time mommy lost in a different world.. living in a illusion , refusing to see the glaring and seeping cracks in her relation with her husband…

Post the 5 year leap, its only too apparent that Gauri has satisfied herself having stuck to Shiv and is making no effort whatsoever to be the wife or a partner to him… but jus remaining a mere maid and not a mom… to his kids! Shame!

Shiv on the other hand seems to be more interested in making the marriage work and leaving a life… and compromising more…

Gauri deserves no empathy forget sympathy for the situation that she is , for as I see, she has never made any compromises to get what she has got to day.. where as Shiv Kapoor despite all his intentions, has given up on a life he so envisioned for himself, for the sake of a woman who vouched her so called selfless love for him and no seems to remain a mere maid servent and mommy for namesake to her kids.. living in a illusionary world!

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

Yes, 100 percent ! Every relation needs , once bonded , needs to be nourished and cared for , and not meant to be a passing obsession as it has for Gauri. Gauri has only treated her love for Shiv as an obsession to be with him… and she has , call it destiny. But the woman has never been shown to care for his interests or his likes or his dislikes or his need for her time and attention as a husband!

For me Gauri has been the most selfish person … of the entire lot… and she deserves no sympathy…

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

Nikhila's entry back , post the five year leap , is only an obvious indication that she has not given up…on her intentions to get Shiv and Ipshita tied in a wedlock to get what she wants…

Ironically… the Saans and Bahu are both lost in a illusionary world that seem to belive is real. One, thinks her marital life is bliss , when it wasn't , and the other believes that her son is not happy when he is with his life… wow, that what makes a perfect saas babu pair eh?!

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?

Well Ipshita to me seems to have comprised on her marriage to Anupam and is here in India to promote her book and her new venture to start a book store …

Well her entry , by the creatives in the story only would mean , that the growing distance between Shiv and Gauri , emotionally would make shiv look for a shoulder to cry and what better than a childhood friend who has been close to heart . Well Shiv will not stray out of his marriage for he has made up his mind, but the fact that he needs comfort and constant need for comfort … from a friend , his friend Ipshita , would lead Ipshita to believe that he loves her and well… so the triangle starts off again... the creatives seem to be heading the same way though.. and I hope for the sake of the mental health of the viewers, that it wouldn't be illogical , melodramatic twist in the tale… amen to that!

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ? Yes I do, coz he aint asking for the moon , when he is asking his wife to be a part of his life , to give some time , to him, to the relation they share , albeit by accompanying him to parties not ever so often…

Gauri denying him pleasure of being with his wife…a wife he has so willing chosen to stand by… when he had a chance to leave her in the doldrums… a wife , for whom he gave up he so ever wanted….

Destiny we say that they were meant to be… so it is, but taking for granted every blessing is in everyway insulting that which we have been blessed with .

And I think Gauri is doing nothing but taking for granted what she has got, Shiv's love and compassion for her.

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ? It is entirely her fault. She has not only taken for granted what she has got., but also refuses to given her husband an ear when he wishes to talk her. What kind of a self proclaiming perfect partner would sleep on her husband who is venting his heart out…Shame.!

As for Shiv, its only too obvious, as the creatives have shown us that Shiv will not stray and that he has buried the past and is hapy with his life and come to terms with it, but harbours a wish to be more with his wife and time and attention from her , which in no way seems demanding, as Gauri seems to see it!

Finally what do think about this leap ? Was it needed? If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

A much required leap , for we are able to the true essence of all the characters, be it Ipshita a self confident woman, a talented writer, and respecting woman! , Shiv , the perfect father and husband and a responsible business man, and Gauri , the ignorant , muddle headed, wife, who has no time for her husband and lives in an illusionary world thinking all is hunky dory and refuses to see beyond her own pain, her kids, and her feelings and never beyond the words , "Main" "Meri"… its never "Us" or "Hamaari". And that is to me a shame to her… as shame, to the word wife and mother!

As for the story with out leap, it would have been a pathetic drag… a disguting love triangle and the bird brain Gauri still being blind to all that is happening right in front of her eyes. She is a classic example of she sees all that she wishes to see and nothing else and that is in no way, acceptable , coz it denial of the real and reality is all that matters!

Are u happy with the track rite now ? Yep, and I do not sympathisw with that petty , bird brained woman!

What are ur predictions for next week ? Shiv distancing himself further from Gauri, and Gauri being ignorant and refusing to be with Shiv and worrying sick over her perfectly sane kids…!

Sorry to have been quite harsh about myopinions on Gauri , but she commands no empathy, let alone sympathy and understanding from me as a viewer, for the spineless woman , who takes her family , and husband for granted and cannot think beyond her ownself and who vouches her love, but can never stand by it! She is no wife, she is no perfect partner, she is no mother, for she cannot discipline her children, she is nothing but a glorified maid, who does not what she wants and she believes she is living well! Shame… jus a god damn shame!

sareeta dii, well put in words.👏 .actually i wanted to be tht harsh but again just couldnt be...ur so right. she is loosing every aspect.

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?
Gauri is very much still in the dark and infact in my books is still living a lie, she thinks that hubby dear loves her and only her...but infact he still holds a candle for ipshi...

Gauri to me was always shown as a strong character, she has infact become quite week and clingy...

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?
A woman will always have to juggle relationships, career, family and children.. there is so much responsiblity on one shoulder to bear.. Dadi's thinkin is exactly how our grandmothers think and perhaps advise us too....but if you have your hubby's support that the task can be manageable but gauri does seem to handle it on her own....

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?
Nikky, I am too sexy to be a sass 😆will definately be up to her old tricks to seperate gauri n shiv....bring ipshi back into shiv's life 😡

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?
Anupam seems to have definately gone awol or perhaps run away with his mother in law😆..onlt time will tell where our shair is....

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?
Man are from Mars.. Me Tarzan U Jane.. this is always have been a men's thinkin.. he wants her to attend a party but at the same time.. what about the kids.. how about you help her and then she can attend with you....

What is important the kids or a social gatherin.. which happens every other day in Ektaland

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?
It will be both their faults.. Shiv's inability to move on with life and love for that matter.. Huni get on with it please and stop moaning.... Gauri Grow a backbone.. and take the karam in your hands

Finally what do think about this leap ?
I am gonna be quite brash here, the story line is the same and truthfully nothing has changed.. the leap has not achieved nothing rather than confused the viewers......

There are so many unresolved plots.... its impossible to piece this jisgaw together .

Was it needed?
Absolutely not! its a total waste of theirs and our time too.😡

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?
I would have much prefered if we could have followed the track of ipshi n anupam's relationship and gauri's and shiv's... and develope it rather than the usual saas-bahu-sauten crap....

Are u happy with the track rite now ?
I think if you have read my comments above, you have probably figured, I am not happy....😭😭😭

What are ur predictions for next week ?
I am gonna call it I might be wrong... Gauri will perhaps continue strugglying with her responsibilities and give shiv an excuse to chase Ipshit...with his usual moans......Nikky will start to plot her evil plans... and as for us we will either 🥱 or 😕 .

yo anu! for an invisible gal.. you sure made me type a lot! my fingers are hurting.....

these are only my opnions, sorry if i sounded harsh.......😉

exxellent views yaar rockstar sareeta hansam n yamulyaa 👏

n sareeta completely agree with uon that well written 👏 👏

n iffy thats ma style u know 😎 😉 😆

hope to get more responses
love
anu

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?

do you mean with being with her children. somewhat i guess

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

yea, but i kind of skipped that part, if she said to give more priority to hubby i guess kinda

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

arrgg! i dont care, obviously splitting shiv and gauri. she makes no sense, shes giving money to others and wants more money, by getting shiv and ishipita married. arent they already rich!😳

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?😕

i thought cuz of her book but maybe it has to do with nikhila

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?

yes! he wants to show people his wife. and he wants everyone to compliment her, pretty wife😳

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?

yes! she isnt with him, shes always busy with her children. it might be her fault

Finally what do think about this leap ?

well, i knew it was comming the show was getting a bit boring😳 but i like the children!😛

Was it needed?

yea

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

they would have dragged ishipita and shivs story more

Are u happy with the track rite now ?

kinda, but not nikhilas part😳

What are ur predictions for next week ?

well, maybe vivan jail? more mischief by the children. ishipita and shiv meet

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?

Not really, she not being a very good mother or a good wife.Seriously, she is tottaly spoiling her children and the other people in the house are enabling her.Where as Shiv and his sis actually think the children need discipline and I completly agree.All Gauri does is make excuses for her children's behaviour,which is wrong!

Gauri is too busy spoling her children...that she has no time for her hubby.Shiv is trying to be a good companion by trying to take her out,being close with her etc. But she never seems to want to go out and have any fun.Specially with Shiv.

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

Yes, she is right! She should keep a balance between all her relationships. Yea,because Shiv was her hubby and then she had kids.

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

Something bad, obviously! Grr. She is so selfish.

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?😕

I'm not really sure. Something to do with her work?The book?Not sure...

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?

Of course,I know of many men, who neglect thier wives and don't want to be seen with them in public, then that's why they never take them out. Shiv is being a good guy by wanting to spend time with his wife.

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?

Every person needs love, both emotionally and pysically and if they don't get it from thier partener, then that's when they cheat!

Finally, what do think about this leap ?

It's really dumb basically,it wasn't needed at all.It's just showing that this whole Gauri-Shiv-Ippy thing is never gonna come to an end.😕

Was it needed?

As I said before, it wasn't really needed. KAA would have been good without it.

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

I really am not sure.I guess we'll just never know!😛

Are u happy with the track rite now ?

What do you think?After reading everything I've written?😆

What are ur predictions for next week ?

Hm...it's already 'next week'. Too late for me to answer this question now!lol😉...

Love,

Roohani

Do u think Gauri is right at her part ?

She's completely busy with her kids,not good from the husband's point of view,needs to sit down and sort her life and pick up from there........

Do u think Dadi is right when she say a wife shud jugle both her relationships n specially the one which is the reason for the new ones ?

Yes, she is right!Being a woman is like it or not doing the balancing on the tight rope and specially when u have a khaai like Nikhila beneath you!!!

What do u think Nikhila is upto ?

This woman needs to grow up,come on man after 3 grandchildren,5 years of marriage and a happy-well-settled family,if u keep on harping the old music eithor she is mad or the serial's director think we are mad to watch a repeat show with kids in background!

Why do u think ipshita is back from london leaving anupam in london ?

Ipshita is harping on the old pain, cannot be true to her present relaionship or eithor being Ekta's serial I think Anupam is in some sorry state like in wheelchair or bed-ridden and she's fed up with the work etc and back in search of a lively relationship to see if Shiv can take off again from where they left off.

Do u favour shiv as a man ie his want to get gauri into his social circle ?

Of course,He loves his wife and would love to spend his time and life showing her around his friends and society,afterall they r MARRIED!!!

Do you if this time shiv slips it will be partially gauri's fault ?

If Shiv slips its entirely his fault, the kids donot belong to Gauri alone,if he is having problems with his wife they both need to sit down and talk and sort things out like mature human beings and not slip into another relationship!

Finally, what do think about this leap ?

The story was not going anywhere,still is the same khichdi,if repeats again,the serial and the director-writer-producer all need to grow up and come with a new look, style and move ahead in life,come on guys!!

Was it needed?

Would come to know when watch where it leads to......

If it was not there What do u think the story wud have been like ?

Ekta's serials..totally unpredictable,I am happy she has not yet been inspired by the Ramseys on her serials........like some of her films have been!!!

Are u happy with the track rite now ?

No

What are ur predictions for next week ?

Can give a rough outline on what to expect.....Some prob in Vivan-Kaya's relationship.......Nikhila up with her STUPID SILLY ANTICS.....Shyla's crying.....Gauri busy with her kids......Ipshita slipping towards Shiv...leaving hubby Anupam in some sorry state....Alok worried abt his daughters..usual story..I mean the same recepie served in new dinnerware everytime!!!!!

Love,

Smritisara from UK