I must say, i thought of the same thing about Shiv, he values his families lives, but treated his own wife like shit! He was so mean to her.
He came very close to her and said alot of mean things, I would rather get slapped then hear all that. Words speak louder then actions at times and here it did just that.
Yeap, Yeap Yeap, too many secrets, too many.
Gauri will fix Shiv straight no doubt.