But daksh an shaila's relationship is different from gauri an shivs. As far as we know daksh an shaila willingly married each other an by all means had a husband/wife relationship wit each other, as they hve children. On the other hand gauri an shiv never wnted 2 marry each other. Shiv was forced 2 marry gauri, an she was helpless cos her father's reputation was on the line. Now gauri is resigned 2 the fact that her life is destined 2 be entwined wit shiv's an accepts him as her husband. But still shiv does not accept this an wnts nothing 2 do wit gauri as he doesn't view her as his wife. He will do anyfing 2 get rid of her, an he might jus hve an affair or a series of one nite stands jus 2 make her leave him.