Why can't we give Parth benefit of doubt??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So the latest buzz in the forum is that all this is a publicity stunt played by both Parth and VG. God knows how the rest of Parth's costars and some of the industry biggies who have backed VG openly in bullying and cornering Parth fits into this theory of an elaborate scheme for publicity by the way.

Or why would someone risk being labeled a womanizer, who talks about gangbanging grils who refers to women as wh**es, who used abusive language towards his female costar AND on top of all this, being questioned about his sexual orientation is anything other than career suicide for an aspiring actor.

One explanation being used to explain this publicity stunt theory is that if the case is settled outside the court then it has to mean that either they were both in this playing a game OR Parth is guilty and VG has proof to back all his claims. Never mind that both of these are mutually exclusive and it has to be one or the other.

Why can't settling matters outside court mean Parth has proof for whatever allegations he has put forth in the court or police regarding VG??

Why can't it mean that VG has realized that depite all his attempts at ruining Parth's career and brnging him down which he woved on twitter just about a month ago, is not working due to immense fan support and inaddition is making a big fool out of himself in the way he has continued to attack Parth on SNS and media while Parth has refrained from saying practically anything against him (heck the guy has even thanked VG for being his friend and helping him out in his career despite all this)???

The other point that is being made is that if VG and Parth and rest of Parth's costars who had actively taken part in this public bullying of Parth is seen to together partying or otherwise after all this then again it must mean it's a publicity stunt.

I personally can't see Parth being friendly like he was before with any of these people though I won't be surprised if they are seen together in events or party's as Parth has already refrained from saying anything bad about any of them throughout all this circus so he might not hold a grudge against them and might not shun them out totally even if not as close friends anymore.

But even if Parth does forgive all of them and again becomes close friends with them why does it have to mean all that all this happening right now against Parth is a publicity stunt by him. Why can't it mean that all of them have apologized profusely and genuinely and worked to make amends to him for the wrong they did during this time and Parth choosing to move one and let everything be bygones???

I can see only one glaring fact in all these arguments and that is that some just don't want to give Parth the benefit of the doubt at the least.

Niti is given benefit of the doubt that she did hear something really bad being talked about her by Parth in that private conversation which was obtained by breaching Parth's privacy.

Niti is given benefit of the doubt that she didn't mean any malice on her part towards Parth except just plain impulsive anger when she put out that statement about feeling disgust hearing that audio (which was provided by VG apparently, IF it even exists) at a time when her statement ment throwing Parth's career under the bus literally as his character was being badly assassinated on the public platform in front of the whole TV industry.

VG is given benefit of the doubt that all his accusations or atleast some of it are true even though the way he is bullying Parth in Public is not appreciated by some.

All of Parth's costars who are taking part in this public bullying of Parth is also given benefit of the doubt that they might be supporting the truth being on VG's side.

Ekta, and other TV celebrities who are in support of VG is given benefit of the doubt that they might not know fully the issue but is just showing support for the person they know or that they know for a fact that Parth is the one in wrong.

The ONLY person who is not given benefit of the doubt is Parth. He is either doing this for publicity stunt, or he is lying or he is playing with fans emotions or the very minimum consideration he gets is that this is just between him and VG and we have no business in taking either of these people's side as they are TV celebrities and thus unworthy.

Parth might have been arrogant, a jerk or whatever in the past, but does that mean he is not a human being at the least and at a time when we all see him being cornered and mob lynched publicly, his character assassinated mercilessly, his career jeapordaized, the most he deserves is just apathy?

I'm assuming as this is KYY forum we are all fans of Kyy, and seriously this apathy and hatred is the most the leading actor deservs from some of us? Even if there is a minute chance that he might be mercillesly harassed and undergoing depression and what not right now and his whole career ruined, the fans who are trending and supporting hims is his only chance to survive in this industry.

What if positions were reversed and Niti is the one going through all this?? Would you guys be talking about publicity stunts and questioning her sexuality and showing apathy too???

I for one has no hesitation in saying I would be just as supportive of Niti as I am of being Parth right now and I would choose to give the benefit of the doubt to both Niti and Parth than either VG or anybody else considering even the little we know about them.

It seems that for some when it comes to Parth,

a)He is guilty until proven innocent and even then I'm sure there would be things that could be said about him to say he was guilty nevertheless.

b)He is guilty even if the matter is settled outside court.

c)And I can see that he would have been considered guilty even if he had commited suicide after going through all that harassment and his suicide attempt would have been used against his as proof of his guilt instead of the tourture he is being put through.

Hatred is not only blind, but it also sucks away humanity.

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aina123 thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey very nice post but change the heading as it sounds negative. I thought of not reading it thinking it is against P, but when read it I got your point.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So let me get this straight u think parth should be blindly believed and if we arent we are haters?
stop victimising him almost all kyy fans are with him against Vikas we might choose sides when it comes to niti but always against Vikas..Yes some of us are saying that vikas might have proof or something because he seems very confident but not supporting him. We are not blind to see thats its parth vs tv industry.

PS: whats with everyone writing so long essays. give me ur power i need it when i write my assignments

Edited by Paytonlee - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paytonlee

So let me get this straight u think parth should be blindly believed and if we arent we are haters?

stop victimising him almost all kyy fans are with him against Vikas we might choose sides when it comes to niti but always against Vikas..Yes some of us are saying that vikas might have proof or something because he seems very confident but not supporting him. We are not blind to see thats its parth vs tv industry.

PS: whats with everyone writing so long essays. give me ur power i need it when i write my assignments

It is not about believing someone blindly, it is about how some people have dealt with his personal issue publicly on sns. P didnt bring it in public. We as viewers actually are not interested in these celebs personal grudges. It should have been sorted between the two parties. But unfortunately VG had other plans and that is affecting everyone, even us.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why do you even make such petty posts? There are more important things to discuss like how hurt Niti is. How Parth needs to apologize to her. How she has been bashed by fans.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shibz

Why do you even make such petty posts? There are more important things to discuss like how hurt Niti is. How Parth needs to apologize to her. How she has been bashed by fans.


didnt u just come after posting in another post that u hate people who victimise the stars. what is she doing here. Her post makes it seem like no one believes him and fans are against him lol 😆 and i agree this is a petty post. It wasnt a niti fan who posted that twitter compilation here but another parth fan who wanted to create fanwar here.
Edited by Paytonlee - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏👏👏 Bang on dear...He will be guilty no matter what but we will support him all the way.
If we are blind supporters then Parth also has blind haters.So let's just leave it at that.
I have never said Parth could never have made that whattsapp group,he could never say anything wrong about Niti... I'm against this whole thing against Parth being made into something bigger than it is. We all do stupid things with our friends we all bitch about people we don't like behind their back in private but that should stay that "Private" There was no reason for other celebrities to butt in and give their 2 cents about all this especially those who will win the award of hypocrisy.Cornering and individual and lashing out at him with out knowing full facts is called bullying and we fans are not gonna sit back and watch that happen.
All these so called proofs are proof in themselves that a big game is being played against Parth and we all very know what kind of a person that VG is. Never liked that guy even when Parth deffended him cuz VG has given us enough reason to dislike him.
If talking crap about the opposite sex with friends and b****ing is a hanging crime then more than 60% of the population would be hanged.
If VG and his clan left it for the court instead of mopping it on sns we fans would have stayed out of it also.We followed our heart and supported Parth and I don't think we have to justify to anyone.
#WeStandByParth

Edited by shahz - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Heyy u have penned it really nice. I've shared it on twitter. Bt pls change the subject its a request..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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what is with victimising either parth or niti time to time...why can;'t they be human and at fault...
whatever the outcome of this fight between vk and parth..one has to be blind not to see how parth benefitted from his association with vikas...if we fans can make out that vikas is a dbag right from the kyy days just from noticing his behaviour with parth on sns or from the pics..then parth has to be a first class idiot or an opportunist to not to see it too...the thing about karma which everybody loves to chant these days is that it applies to everyone regardless...one should just accept the truth that parth might have been seriously at fault too and the fact that he was needlessly bullied on sns because of it shouldn't get him off the hook



about niti...recording or no recording ..her ranting on sns was totally uncalled for..if anything she did most disservice to herself than anyone by getting herself involved in a controversy which had nothing to do with her



however twitter world is not the real world...niti's message was aimed at parth is only known to those in kyy fandom and whoever who has any interest in this circus on sns...so saying she ruined his career is seriously laughable..verbal abuse or not ..it can't be taken seriously until niti actually files a case against him...if it was then we would have had parth giving explanations everywhere like he is doing with vg's accusations which i have to add is serious because of the legal notice and not because of the accusations hurled on twitter..the fact that parth is not even bothered abt niti's rant shows it.i am nt holding that against him btw...

abt giving benefit of doubt to vg...no one is saying that he is a saint either...he looks like a creep and acts like one and his turning this whole thing into a personal vendetta on sns has only backfired on him

the bottom line is both parth and niti are young actors ..both new to this industry...they will keep on doing such mistakes..that is part of growing up..only because they are celebs doesn;t mean they are not humans..the most disservice we are doing to them is by treating them as if they are above everything or as victims...nobody is a victim...everyone has to bear fruits of their actions regardless who they are...

parth got the support of his fandom because he was true to his craft...not because they know the actual truth..no one still knows..but still people are taking sides regardless...

and when we talk about standing for humanity..i am sure there are more deserving cases about inhuman behaviour in real world which require our attention...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First thing stop bashing this forum
Many in thus forum has stood for parth has has given him more than benefit of doubt
This forum is a platform where anything related to kyy can be discussed
If ppl can discuss here the possibility of the WhatsApp page n recording both being fake
N ppl can reply to them In a polite manner
Then ppl also can represent their views against parth too
N u any other can keep their views to them in a gud manner rather than jumping on them like this
In normal condition any toipc related to sns would be closed in thus forum by mods
But recently we all discussed everything n no one closed it
So be thankful to this forum

I always said Parth is at fault in thus also
No one us saint here
He was at fault for creating whatsapp GRP n the recording too
But that doesn't mean it was just his fault n everyone else is innocent
In this parth n VG battle most of the forum stood up to parth
N these ppl were not just parthians
What I disliked the most in this war is how parth lyf was dragged on sns
Parth fault was not that much that he could be humiliated in public
Other part I believed very strongly was that parth is not gay at all
But if we can count the possibility of VG being gay then why can't anyone else count the possibility of parth being in a compromise
U also want to discuss every detail abt this issue till parth was knee deep in this mess
Then why can't anyone else discuss how he came out of it now

Just some days back VG was after Parth for his blood like a psychotic creep
N ekta called him gay publicly
N don't give the excuse that ekta didn't sat it n media misinterpreted it
Ekta called Parth n VG gay in public n this clear statement was on paper
N now in a lil tym VG is all silent ready to do out of court settlement n ekta is patli maar from that big a accusation
Off course it will rose many eyebrows bcoz it happened really fast
N it can Also be discussed in this forum
Out of court settle is gud for Parth as vg n his clan is powerful
N seems too confident
But that doesn't mean ppl r not happy with him coming our of this mess
It is a relief that he is out of it now
Parth n VG or uttu being frnds again why not Parth can be frnds with anyone
Even with those psychos who humiliated him backstabbed him recorded his convo when they were frnds n what not
I mean no problem
But parth nnvg being buddies again after this
I suspect what would those ppl feel abt it of took parth side even me who called VG n uttu aastin k saap

Why drag niti in every matter connected to parth
Does it make the post more spice
I mean ppl discussing Parth after him coming out of mess has nothing to do with niti


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