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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

I don't promote or diss pre-marital sex. Each to his own but it goes against every character trait of Manik Malhotra for him to be a virgin and nullifies 246 episodes of character building.



THIS !

I told them exactly this, but they still had to throw that stupid challenge at me , that too in bold letters. LOL 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


Some people are empathising with Nandini because Manik isn't a virgin and they think Manik betrayed her.. And these are the same ppl who said 'Big deal, She didn't get raped and she is over reacting' during trauma track.. Much WoW👏😆🤣 Matalab pata bhi nahi hai ki, kis cheez pe aasun bahana hai aur kispe nahi🥱


What betray boy must become a hymenplasty appointment and take dips in Ganga maiyaa. No are they effing serious, Nandu has always know, he has kissed his ex, it goes against his character to not be sexually active. have they seen how he has been around Nandu- she knows he wants it . it's a basic human need. I don't see Nandu crying in corners or depressing about it. She is happy , excited and and thinking about their time. And these people want to see drama even there.

It's a effing HYMEN , could snap by running, play any sport, swimming etc. Your sexuality, your choice.

But don't judge others or evaluate morals. Nandu has no problem, she knows her man and vice-versa.

Like Ay mentioned , what if a girl gets divorced or loses her husband early in life, is she a used good now? Immoral, not worth it.

Jeez, stop messing with other's private life includes their SEX LIFE.



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BluntlySpeaking

coming back to more interesting matters..can we pls discuss why Nandini held Manik's hand. very unlike her.

i feel she was still consumed by the previous nights emotions and just had to be in contact with him. this was the closest she could get to him in full view of the college.


Thats the thing right. Every step of intimacy makes you feel closer. Its the reason why people get intimate in a relationship, there is only so much kissing you can do before you move onto the next step and intimacy is about exploring your love physically. The intimacy of last night for Nandu has brought her that much closer physically to Manik. She wants to feel his pulse, the rhythm of his heartbeat beating in tandem with her, she craves the physical closeness now that she has experienced some sort of semblance of it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Do I see Maitree here?? Heyaaa long time... How are you? 🤗


Anni poocho matt yaar, i just i guess wanted to try and understand what they really wanted. LOL
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar



LOL but thing is, this debate isn't even about premarital sex...I am not promoting it one way or the other either...to each their own...it should be a matter of a personally responsible choice that everyone makes on an individual basis.


In this case, ppl don't care whether it's marital or pre-marital...they only care that Manik and Nandu's firsts should be each other only cuz otherwise their "true lowe" won't feel as "true" anymore😆...that is the hilarity to me in all this...and these ppl have ZERO understanding about the basic functioning of man-woman relationships and have such a narrow minded perception about what constitutes the legitimacy of a relationship.


LOL also funny in all this is that Manik isn't even shown to be a player sleeping around for the heck of it like 90% of the random male leads in TV shows...lol he was faithful to his one gf...but still it's something ppl can't reconcile towards cuz that girl didn't happen to be Nandu instantly...haha ppl think life is a Disney fairytale where you meet your Prince Charming in one nazar and marry him in the next and happily ever after😆


Areey I know you are not promoting 😆 adding the disclaimer because there a lot of young kids who get into it for the wrong reason. The thing is loads of people get married having had previous relationships and done it with other people. Thats the reality and if we are looking at someone from Manik's background 10/10 they are in physical relationships and there is nothing wrong about it. And yes most people do think that, even now they can't get over Manik having a gf before Nandu. A lot of people go through atleast one breakup in their lifetime.😆 You don't marry the first person you have had a relationship with😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake


Thats the thing right. Every step of intimacy makes you feel closer. Its the reason why people get intimate in a relationship, there is only so much kissing you can do before you move onto the next step and intimacy is about exploring your love physically. The intimacy of last night for Nandu has brought her that much closer physically to Manik. She wants to feel his pulse, the rhythm of his heartbeat beating in tandem with her, she craves the physical closeness now that she has experienced some sort of semblance of it.


i agree...and this was done so beautifully...so organic...

i hope they soon show her be the one to initiate these moments..she be a quick learner, so now that she has got a taste of initimate heaven, hope to see her seek him out more and more and get close to him just like he does. Would nt it be fun to see them both reach a level playing field when its comes to their desire for each other and only then have the final ELEGANCE ( see, i am quick learner too!)
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BluntlySpeaking


i agree...and this was done so beautifully...so organic...

i hope they soon show her be the one to initiate these moments..she be a quick learner, so now that she has got a taste of initimate heaven, hope to see her seek him out more and more and get close to him just like he does. Would nt it be fun to see them both reach a level playing field when its comes to their desire for each other and only then have the final ELEGANCE ( see, i am quick learner too!)



This!!

She initiating, exploring and emoting her desire for him..go there and close this arc beautifully. Level playing field and the mash of their passions, desires ,wants with a sense of equality- yes please.

Elegance be explosive. Cat's Bank is is mitigating the risks. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
Ok so I just landed back home and what do I see? Abdul Kalam no more😭 He taught India to dream and how! He was such an inspiration for SO many! God already had a bad mood and I am just getting ready to go to a corner and cry. Tissues ready. RIP Kalam sir.
And I see there is some serious off screen drama happening or am I wrong? Whatever it is I am so not giving a damn. I be hell busy with my REAL life! A big tight hugs to everyone in this AT! You guys are such rockstars! I shall be ready to read all your gushing for tonight's epi first thing 2mrw! (I am yet to watch d epi properly! I shall wait for it but. Mood be hella screwed up) Till then see ya all! Have a gr8 day, noon, night! Tight hugs! 🤗 and kisses too!!😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie


What betray boy must become a hymenplasty appointment and take dips in Ganga maiyaa. No are they effing serious, Nandu has always know, he has kissed his ex, it goes against his character to not be sexually active. have they seen how he has been around Nandu- she knows he wants it . it's a basic human need. I don't see Nandu crying in corners or depressing about it. She is happy , excited and and thinking about their time. And these people want to see drama even there.

It's a effing HYMEN , could snap by running, play any sport, swimming etc. Your sexuality, your choice.

But don't judge others or evaluate morals. Nandu has no problem, she knows her man and vice-versa.

Like Ay mentioned , what if a girl gets divorced or loses her husband early in life, is she a used good now? Immoral, not worth it.

Jeez, stop messing with other's private life includes their SEX LIFE.




Word!!!

@Bold I would have understood this perception up to some extent(though it doesn't mke any sense) if Nandu was insecure, or feeling bad about it.. She toh is more than happy and GLOWING.. toh inko kya problem hai.. But then I don't understand what half of the fandom wants most of the time😆 I'm proud to be called stupid😳😆


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