Originally posted by: dushturain
okay green signal...
yesterdays epi, when Manik said I have made my peace Im going to give Dhruv the space he wants...why did nandini said you r doing this for me??? then she again said if I was not in your life, you wouldn't hv given up on Dhruv...
So my question is, why?? why she said that?? why is she thinking Manik decided that because of her?? how is she connecting herself to this decision?
ps. I like his lucky charm more than being lucky charm..its more personal and romantic!
@bold
Dushtu, the answer to above lies in your question itself. Why indeed she connected herself to his decision because she is, was and will always remain connected to all his decision for life. Do you remember what Manik answered her?
He said "Nahin, ye maine HUMARE liye kiya" <-- What is humare here, Manik and Nandini right? So her trying to link herself to his decision regarding dhruv is justified by Manik's own answer.
But even apart from Manik's answer, there's a whole background history which is an easy answer to your question. Some past instances which have been crucial in making her think the way she does now. She has always seen Manik going out of his way, over HIMSELF and THEM (MaNan) for his friends' welfare; be it Dhruv falling for Nandu or saving Soha from harming Nandu while Cabir goes for suicide or when she hid in the trunk listening to his friends questioning him about Nandu and Manik dodging around the question by terming her as "irrelevant".
On more than one occasion, Manik has extensively verbalised his guilt and regret on not being there for his friends just because he was in his own world (Nandini is the only one who forms the word "his world" for him). Or his sentiments of why its so important for him to be always there for his friends, for that he can forgo anything, even his own self.
Of all the people, Nandini is the one who is privy to his heart's deepest desires. It was in his gloomy drunken state, that he had laid down with head on her lap, giving her a peek to the "why" and "be all" of his existence. Manik has always defined himself and his existence by his friends.
Nandini is the only one who has seen Manik, for quite a while now, static at this crossroads feeling himself torn in both directions, to go to nandini or be with his friends whenever any tough situation arises.
Manik hasn't ever given up on any of his friends or friendships, and this time its Dhruv his best buddy. When Manik announced his decision about giving dhruv his space, Nandini as usual took it all on herself because Nandini is Manik's sanctuary, his haven and harbor. She can obviously expect him to do something like that, previously he has always put Nandini over his friends. In album deal, in compromising on his performance to save Nandini, safeguarding Nandini when Cabir was going through emotional upheaval << It was only after every event that Nandini saw Manik guilt tripping for not giving priority to his friends.
So is it any surprise that she asked him "Manik, kia ye tumne mere liye kia?"
Just because she doesn't want Manik to do it on impulse and later regret on both their behalf, making Nandini guiltrip too.
She further said "Manik, whatever you feel for your friends naa, tumhe kabhi bhi hide nahi karna chahiye mujh se"
Indeed, its their love that makes their lives go round nowadays. Manik said "Humarey liye kia"
Who is hum, Dushtu? 😉
And Nandini isn't a delusional "drama queen" as certain people tend to think of her.
Edited by -Sahar- - 10 years ago
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